Category - advice

ADVICE

Night convo

Who's in for a midnight deep conversation? Note : I'm a male

tips on how to forget your ec

hello assalamu alaikum fam please I'm really in need of your advice and tips on how to forget my ex it's almost 2 years now but I still love him I mi...

BUILDING A SUCCESSFUL SIDE HUSTLE

let's discuss

my ex girl friend is begging for reconciliation after 3 years of break up

Dear Arewa up community I hope this message finds you well. Approximately three years ago, my relationship with my ex-girlfriend ended due to her i...

I think i am going to lose it

I am far from home a female student that's lost I don't know anymore I lost 4 important people in my life there just no more then the man I love so de...

i need your help my friends

Aslm My friend i have a deffresstion ciwon damuwa i am 22 year Ban taba sanin dadin rayuwa ba tunda natasu Na hadu da qadarorin rayuwa daban dab...

i can't read comments on this forum, anyone facing similar issue?

please am I the only one that can't read or access the comments section of the forum is always showing loading messages n comments section makes the f...

Little Advice

Dear Singles, Do not destroy your imaan by engaging in haram love. A haram relationship always gives anxiety and depression. Stay pure, wait for H...

why do i get ghosted alot

pls i need an advice,i'm a lady in my mid twenties,and mashaallah i'm a bit attractive,and as such i'm being asked out alot,but the problem is the mom...

Little Advice

When deciding on who to marry, make the wise choice, choose character over beauty, person over money, mind over body and religion over degree. When ma...

Maza kiji tsoron Allah

Innalilahi wa'inna ilaihim Raji'u 😭 just feel like sharing what happened to me sbd mata sukiyaye have met this guy recently in November yashigo c...

I seriously need Your Advice Fam, Im confused

Hello Everyone, Im wishing you all a successful 2025. I am writing this with a very heavy heart, There's this lady that i have loved for the past 5 ye...

My girlfriend lied to about something

Assalamualaikum everyone. pls I need a authentic advice about my girlfriend. we met online and we are peacefully getting to know each other. we gettin...

Meye mafita ?

Assalamualaikum, Please wai mata ko wacce an yaudareta ne? I want to start looking for a girlfriend, sbd na fara shirin aure, but ko wacce ka kula sa...

Jealousy

Jealousy is toxic to the soul. It can ruin you from the inside out. You can remove it by loving yourself & who you are. You need to accept, be gratefu...

PRIVACY

Always keep your relationship information private from others. This is another one of the causes of marriages breaking apart and infidelity creeping i...

Gambling has become problem to my life

As a Nobel person like me I never thought of getting my self into gambling as a married woman with 3kids. Subhanallahi my heart is blowing please I ne...

My Introvert friend need an advice,

I have this friend named Ismail. He’s a 21-year-old Hausa-Fulani, and honestly, he’s a pretty good-looking guy. But when it comes to talking to gi...

marriage

the way people are getting married plz nobody should marry my husband o

never look down on someone

assalamualaikum, my brother's and sisters. please I wanted to share a story of mine. I lost my dad when am in primary 4 I was so small don't even know...

Daga karbar kyautar waya awurin saurayi kanwata ta kare a police station

Aslm Inama kowa barka da rana. nazo bada shawara akan mata sudai na amsar komai ahannun samari. Nasan cewa zakiga wannan post din nan Maryam Kuma Alla...

please please i need your advice my friends

Aslm inuwana please i need you advice Wlh rayuwata tun tasuwata naki fuskanta kalubale daban daban harzuwa yanzu ina fuskantasu Labarina yanada fa...

Ina fama da Karfin sha'awa

Yan uwa nazo da gudu gudu sauri sauri ku bani shawara. Al'amarin babba ne wlh matsananciyar sha'awa nake fama da ita kuma na dade cikin wannan hali ...

Akan Iyaye masu takura yaransu mata akan aure

Assalamu Alaykum.. Ina da wata friend wacce is close to 30 years Yanxu. She really wants to get married, however har Yanxu babu wani serious person. T...

decision making on my relationship with a Married man

Assalamualaikum please your advice needed😞 I met this man I was dating last two months and everything was going fine I love the vibes between us Ku...

My girlfriend whom i want marry In shaa Allah doesn't how to communicate

I find it difficult to communicate with my baby girl! Becouse she don't know how to talk at all, is so boring i'm kind talkative person, i've tried my...

i am thinking of calling off my marriage because of this issue

Bikina bayan sallah nan, sauran 2 weeks i am feeling insecure 😕. Bayan ansaka ranar aurenmu, wani rana haka muna video call da saurayina. Tohm nasa...

Are saint guys still available please???

I am depressed 😔 am i the only one with this experience??niba uztaziya bace amma ina kokarin tsare mutuncina. Allah ya jarabceni da haduwa da maza ...

i have a depression i need your advise

Aslm My friends i have a deffresstion i have every symptoms of deffresion Gaskiya gabadaya banajindadin rayuwata kullum Damuwa d kunci zuciya h...

Need Your Advice

We've been dating for more than 6 years with this Fulani guy and ba wani magana ta progressing and now I met someone who's serious yana sona but he's ...

life

To my dear brothers and sisters muyawaita fadin HASBUNALLAHU WANI IMAL WAKIL insha Allah tsananin rayuwa zai karanta.

kutaimakamin d shawara dan allah yan uwa

Aslm inuwana kutaimakamin wlh nafara masturbation d kallon porn tun Ina 13 years old yanzu inada shekaru 21 kuma wlh kullum cikin tuba naki Yanzu ...

i am in difficult stuition my friends help me with advise

My friends yanzu i am 21 years old yanzu ina fama d ciwon Damuwa diffresstion sanan i was very addicted with masturbation and porn since i was in pri...

ku bani shawara please

assalamualaikum warahmatllh wabarakatuh Yan uwa ku bani shawara please saurayi nane muka dauki 7yrs Muna dating dashi, kamar yadda muka sani a al'adar...

kutaimakamin da shawara yan uwa

Aslm Dan Allah yanuwana Ku taimakamin d shawara Nakasanci Ina fama d ciwon Damuwa d kunci haka kawai Ina fama d bakin ciki kuwace awa alokutana na ...

my step mother abuses me and now i am scared of what she will do to me

Assalamu alaikum dafatan kowa yana lfy don girman allah ku taimaka mun da shawara akan abunda zan fadawa step mother na😭😭😭😭😭😭🙏sab...

Should i loan my boyfriend money? i may have to sell my phone.

I have a boyfriend yana sona and I loved him so much wallahi but the problem is that yana aiki but he’s always complaining akan ba yida kudi koda ya...

We are engaged and i want to break up with him, advice please

Assalamu Alaikum good evening everyone don Allah ina neman shawara ne Munyi engage da wani ne sai na gane cewar na fishi addini and kuma background di...

I think he is disrespectful

Wanda zan aura yazo gaida mamanmu.Tashigo ta iskemu a parlour, maimakon yadan yunkura Koda bai durkusa kasa ba.Sai ya zaune akan kujera ya gaisheta ku...

what should I do???

please yan'uwa am HIV positive na rasa yanda za'ayi in samu mijin aure and am 24 already dan Allah what should I do??

im realy sad

regarding my ex I really miss him so much more than anything I really want things to work out but I don't think it's possible since he's dating someon...

My brother is smoking in the house. I need advice

My brother keeps smoking weed for sometime now in the house, he locks himself in a room and the smells comes out really strong. It smells awful and th...

does he truly love me

my boyfriend always give me his time and everything always make me feel loved and the rest but I'm sacred to fell in love with me let him no come and ...

how is harmattan like in maiduguri?

Assalamu Alaykum! i will be going for a posting for 2 months in UMTH(jan-feb) from kaduna and i've never been to maiduguri before.. pls i will like to...

should i marry him

Slm alkm, pls I need an advice narasa yadda zanyi, I got married when I was 21 and got divorced at 23 and I'm now 24, iyayena suna ganin I'm still you...

Should I tell him something I feel he will use against me?

like something has been going on in our house so it makes me feel down and not giving mh boyfriend more attention like before he have been asking me t...

my boyfriend lost his Job, I need advice

aslm how r u all doing plxxx i want u to advice us my boyfriend lost his job and i adviced him to start a business but we both have no idea on which b...

Should I take something along when visiting my sick girlfriend?

My girlfriend is sick and in the hospital, I know my question sounds silly but I just want to know what you all think. I want to visit her so I'm thin...

looking for solution for high libido

I have high libido (sex drive). please how can I reduce it that's will not effect me negative. because I don't have plans to marry soon. I want some m...

An advice to men!!!

Assalamu Aalaikum, dafatan na same ku lafiya. Wani dan labari ne daga cikin rayuwa na nikeson baku. As ladies always say ni mai kudi nikeso, kokuma ky...

is it islamically right to talk about sex with your finance

so the thing is that my boyfriend likes talking about sex how he want it to be done in how we are going to be playing as wife and husband a how he lo...

my man stop showig concern about me

my man accused me lying to him after showing him my chat and asked me to leave him alone nd be with who ever o want to be with on my birthday he didn'...

MUHIMMIN SAKO GA MATA DA AKE TSANGWAMA 😓DAN BASUYI AURE BA.

MUHIMMIN SAƘO GA MATA DA AKE TSANGWAMA😢 DAN BASUYI AURE BA. Abu na Farko Ƴar Uwa Ki Sani, Kuskure Na Farko ckn Gina Rayuwarki Shine Yin aure dan...

I want to get married amma samarin insukazo se sutafi

I'm a divorcee with a child, inason inyi aure Amma duk wanda yazo at the end saisu tafi.....kokuma mutum yazo dazancen banza.....I really want to get ...

my mom wants me to perform a magic ritual and i declined, am i right?

I'm 17and my mum tana yawan zuwa gurin mallamai. Even today da yamma Wanda tage Bina wani Abu she didn't tell what it is she just told me she going to...

How can I stop this attitude ?

I have a probable bad approach regarding relationship and how it should play out. To me I feel a girl should be the one to message me good morning on ...

I broke up with my boyfriend months back and he wants to reconcile but i cant

the story might be lengthy but I really need your advice and views This is a man whom I trusted and loved for the sake of Allah, I respected hi...

Situationship

So guys, i need your opinions on this. There's this guy, we've been talking for almost a year now, he never said it(the words) buh the vibe is always ...

He asked when I will come over to his place

Assalam. I am a Muslim sister Alhamdulillah na san right from wrong. Not saying I’m a saint in any way because I’m human and I’ve made my fair s...

i need advice, my ex came back and i wan show her shege.

assalamualaikum kuyi hakuri da abunda nakeson nafada duk da sunada zafi sosai Amma abunda yarinyar tayimun yasa nakeson na rama. wallahi nasota sosai...

I look matured but am still young

Am just 20 but I look like am in my late 20s and I feel dis is the reason why am not having any suitors.I have good male friends who are nice to me, s...

he wants us to get married but i feel he is young

my correct boyfriend is just 24 while I am 21, he love me so much and I love him too, he is 24 but he act 30s he is very matured honestly, he is worki...

Am bore need someone to talk to

Boredom

Is it okay if he checks up on you just once a day? being in a relationship.

Is it ok for a partner (man) to check up on his lady just once a day? I know his a busy type but i feel it's not ok am i over reacting ?

another pregnancy before a year after c s

kanwata tana da ciki kuma c s aka mata na first child dinta kuma koh year yarinyar bata kaiba bt mijin yace tayi hkr ta barshi. bt she dont koh dan lf...

I think am afraid of my roommate

I don't know why I have this type of feelings towards my roommate...when ever I see her massage on WhatsApp my heart beat am not even comfortable with...

I fell for her sister in law after she turn off on me

Ina da cousin da na so ta sosai still i have felling for her amma wata aunty ta shiga ta6ata lamarn. Da lies kala kala wait bazan gama schools sbd ni...

I really need money, and i want to be someone popular who can help the needy

Hello guys...so I don't actually know what's wrong with me...but I know deep down nothing is actually wrong with me . it's just my desires and needs.....

my opinion on wearing hijab

DonAllah mata a riqa sa Hijabi hide that round face of yours and that shinny Goshi look beautiful and modest

Haryanxu BUK ana biyan acceptance fee baayi latti ba?

Salam. Don Allah haryanxu zamu iya biyan acceptance fee na BUK don samun scholarship din Kano state na school fees? Mun samu admission amma ganin kar...

Hello is anyone here!?

The app seem scanty

question on marital affairs on women

is it good for married women to ask for sex from their spouse

How can i balance my job with my relationship?

I am a 28 year old guy and I have to admit I'm finding it hard balancing my work with my relationship. My soon to be wife has already accepted the fac...

I'm just 20yrs old and found out that's i am sufferings from high blood pressure

it's started with living home and started leaving with my aunt everything was okay till I was done with high school graduated with good grades alhamdu...

Ina so in dena shagwaba as a grown up

Hey buddies 🥺 Dan Allah ya ake Dena shagwaba everyone keeps complaining na cika shagwaba even my boyfriend har fada mukayi dashi akan hakan kusan 1...

Gargadi Ga Alumar Hausawa

Wata sabuwar alada ce da ta shigo local hausa community da na lura, kuma naga yakamata a gargadi alumma. Watau iyaye na yin kuskure, wajen banbanta g...

Lets be helping each other in this country

People are going through a lot in this country, please be a good neighbor. Try as much as possible to help as many people as you could. Be nice to eve...

Patience is not always the answer...

Assalamualaikum, so often when a person comes forward with an issue that is bothering them and asks for advice be it on this platform or another or ev...

Idan ina magana da budurwata ina jin sha'awa,

Aslm brk d wrhka pls I need advise from u. Akwai yarinyar DA recently mukafara dating DA ita. Har nake kokarin trawa anemamin izinin airenta. duk DA...

meddling parents with their children relationships

good day house. what is your opinion on parents imposing their choices of spouse on their children! don't get me wrong am all about respecting parents...

IS IT RIGHT TO ASK FOR YOUR INHERITANCE?

Aslm, please is it right to ask your guidiance kudin gadon ki as a lady? because I'm desperately in need of money and i want to start up a business,i ...

I'M NOT LIVING IN PEACE WITH MY MOTHER

Assalamualaikum everyone, I'm here with a heavy heart. I didn't grow up with my mom because my dad's family took me after my dad died,so I grew up wit...

kanwata zo in fada miki gaskiya

ƘANWATA ZO IN FAƊA MIKI GASKIYA... Gane Namiji ckn Mata Abune da yake da Sauƙi, Amma gano namiji ckn Maza Abune dake bukatar Lokaci, kiyaye wannan!...

Mace me saida kayan mata

Salamu alaikum. Wannan yarinyar da nake son aure kayan mata da na saka jimawa ana jima'a wato manpower take sayarwa. Farko dana fara soyayya da ita,...

shawara ga wanda mahaifiyar sa ke raye 😭

SHAWARA ga wanda mahaifiyar sa ke raye 😭 1 Kayi amfani da damar ka na tana raye ka bata duk wata kulawa da take buqata daidai ikon ka 2 Kayi kok...

Advice for young girls

Alhmdllh yau natashi da tausayin mata 🥺😂 so i decided to let you know this fact about guys,my advice is for this young girls (teenagers) and you...

Why can't i get suitors at my age????

salam alaikum I'm in my late 20's and I've never been in a relationship with anyone before, not even during my school days. I go out with friends an...

Saqo ga maza akan Aure

Karfa kaji ance mata na neman miji ruwa a jallo kayi tunanin abun sauki gareshi. Duk da neman miji da sukeyi sunada zabi fa. Ba zaka zo da katon kai...

is it right, shan rubutu ko ayoyin Al Quran to get a spouse?

dan Allah mutum zai iya shan rubutu wai dan yasamu mijin aure wlh I'm confused

What good business can i do on the side?

Slm pls I just finished sch recently and I've been thinking of a business to do that won't consume much of my time by going out always because gaskiy...

my experience with online loan apps

Assalamualaikum Wani Abu ne yake damuna wallahi, I want to talk on online loan apps" wallahi bashi masifa ne once ka fara amsan bashi shikenan sai ya ...

I really want to get married as a Man but facing challenges

Assalamualaikum. Ladies and Gentleman good evening how's work may Allah help us Amin. Please my dear people i want you to help me with an advice on wh...

Between a stingy man and a womanizer who can you stay with ?

If you were to given the option of choosing between a stingy man and a womanizer for marriage ,which will you pick( with reasons)?

my dear sisters

Never settle for someone who treats you like a backup plan. Someone who puts you second instead of making you a first priority. Never settle for some...

He claims he loves me but acts otherwise

assalamualaikum, firstly inada saurayi he is 30 and I am 17 Ina university yanxun shi kuma yana aiki mun hadu a Instagram ne muka fara friendship dash...

inason yaya amma ban shirya jin hayaniya ba

Inason yara amma na tsana hayaniya arayuwata na tsana surutu, niman tsokana, rashin ji, da kuka nibanma San yanda zanyi wasa da yara ba. saina cewa ma...

I want to "WhatsApp spy" my boyfriend

I'm planning to spy on my Boyfriend WhatsApp what do u think friends?

We are friends and love each other but he has a fiancé.

Assalam with due respect pls ina chikin a confused and complicated situation...I dnt knw wat to do😩😩😖 I meet dis guy within may of dis yr.ba...

Food for thought - Why do people prioritize financial stability over character/mental wellbeing?

We are so obsessed with dating and marrying financially stable partners in this generation that we forget to check if they are mentally and emotionall...

ILLAR YAR AIKI - How our house help abused me

There's this story I want to share with you,hiii everyone hope you are doing well na dade ina boye wannan abin bansan ya zan fitar dashi ba sai yanzu,...

Don't know what to do about my husband and his wife

I was pregnant some months back, though mijina yayi aure da dadewa before me kuma allah bai basu haihuwa ba sai miscarriage matar takeyi nima gashi na...

Should i come back to Nigeria for marriage or stay there? advice me

Salamu alaikum fatana kuna lfy. Ina aiki yau tsawon shekara 3 kenan anan Dubai, toh yanxu gasky ina son aure don banson nazo na fada harkar zinace z...

What do you think of me telling my fiancé i have hepatitis?

Good Morning fellows.. I need an advice please, I am hepatitis reactive, and recently I met a lady which we understood each other and we have alot in ...

i mistakenly cancel a friend

Dan Allah how can I uncancel a friend I cancelled ?

Please what are some basic items required in Lefe?

Please I want to know the basic things da ake sakawa a cikin lefe.I know it depends on the number of boxes

do Anyone have idea why I don't like (Henna any type)

Salam alaikum. I'm so glad to talk to you about this right now Allah. please I would like to know if you had an idea or why do I always feel so scary ...

My BF is a miser & my sisters are comparing to theirs

Assalamualaikum everyone Eid Mubarak to you all Shawara nake Nima....I don't know whether it's from me or not I have two grown up junior sisters......

how my girlfriend informed me of unblocking her ex

budurwata ta tashi da safe ta kirani tace mun wai Tanaso Tayi unblocking ex boyfriend inta sai nace mata ban yarda ba saina tambaye ta mai zatace mish...

Namiji ze iya amfani da Hadin Sabaya?

Salami . Don Allah namiji ze iya amfani da hadin sabaya domin kara kiba ko kuwa mata ne kawai zasu iya amfani dashi. Naji ance yana gyaran nono, to ...

mesa maaikatan lpy(female nurses) suke samun matsala wajen aure?

Ni maaikaaciyar lafiya (nurse),nayi karatun ne saboda baba na burinsa yaga yarsa tana aikin lpy (doctor or nurse) alhmdllh bam samu nayi medicine amma...

Ina barar addu'ar ku in samu halin yin Aure🥺💔

Dan Allah ku tayani da addu'a Allah ya ban yadda zanyi aure zanyi yan uwana sunki min komai gashi babanmu baida karfi

I am having challenges in my studies and its bothering me

me, first being in lvl 100 first semester i haven't read my books as a university student am too lazy to read thats bcox am not so into the course tha...

Should I pay the fine or not?

He needs your advice 🙏🏾 He got the UK Commonwealth full scholarship for MSc Data Science, but he presently works in Nigeria and earns N420k per...

Broke up with my husband after I converted to Islam, Is it permissible to live with him?

Salamalaikum good evening Sister’s and brothers,am just joining this platform I need an advice is it still okay to live with your partner that is o...

He loves me but i am not attracted to his looks.

I know a few people will judge but i just need understanding and advice. The guy im dating loves me a lot. I don't have much complaints about his fla...

Why some ladies may not be responsive in relationships

Do not get upset if she doesn't respond. You don't know what kind of day she is having. Her reasons for not replying could have nothing to do with you...

Juma'at Tips

Assalamu alaikum Whoever reads Surah-Al Kahf on Jumu'ah, Allah (SWT) promises he would have light, In his life that shines, From one Friday to nex...

Whats your opinion on marrying a man and living with his kids or vice versa?

Please, I want to know the opinions of those who have experienced marrying a guy and moving into his house with their kids or those kids that grew up ...

Ina so inyi Aure amma bro dina da mamana basu so

Dan Allah ku bani shawara Ni bazawara ce na taba aure na fito daga gidan tsohon mijina ina karatu na samu problems sosae a gida sbd banda aure ...

How do you handle being with a clingy partner ?

It's normal as a human being that you will like to have your own personal time and all . But having a clingy partner can be challenging most especi...

My cat is dying 😭😭😭

Assalam Are there any veterinarians in the house, or cat owners? My cat has been very weak for three days now, and he doesn't eat food at all, has los...

Seeking advice expecially from the therapist of the house please.

Salaam alaikum everyone,I met this guy and we became friends gradually our relationship is moving from just friendship to courtship but along the way ...

I am too slim, how do I gain weight?

AsSalami alaikum. Don Allah ku bani shawara yanda zanyi na danyi kiba. Walh rama ta tayi yawa kuma inacin abinci yanda ya kamata. Rannan naje asibiti ...

Ina so inyi nose piercing but i'm afraid of yanda wasu mutane zasu kalle ni

Dan Allah kujini nice nakesan nayi hujin hanci wallahi har ga Allah yana burgeni Amma kullum tunanina karnayi akama mun kallan yar'iska kowa ni Abu ko...

i need an advice about my boyfriend ,i dont know what to do about it🥺🥺

Assalamulaikum everyone, I have this boyfriend dan uwan mama ne Kuma da aure yake sona but the problem here is that he's married with 8kids Kuma ne a...

My boyfriend is dirty, how can I politely help?

my boyfriend of about 5 months is dirty and I don't know how to talk to him without hurting his self esteem. He doesn't dress neatly, he doesn't brush...

Decision between 2 potential spouses, pls i need good advice

Let me start from the beggining, i met this Men(1)at the Airport in Nigeria (December 2021) when i was coming for Holidays, my mum comnected me to him...

How can i deal with this matter please?

Inada Saurayi Wanda Munkai Wajen 1 year tare. So probably, sai kwana biyu yaga na chanza. Ya damu yasan maike damuna, naqi fadamai sabida abu ne wanda...

just try to be good person

Don't break a bird's wings and then tell it to fly. Don't break a heart and then tell it to love. Don't break a soul and then tell it to be happy. Don...

Auren Namiji mai kyau ra'ayi ne

Auren Namiji mai kyau ra'ayi ne,amma auren namiji mai tarbiyya da tsoron Allah babban arziki ne musamman namiji mai tausayi

Should I end this relationship?

I made a post days back regarding having issues with my girlfriend due to my unavailability as a result of my work schedule. I've listened to advice...

kuzo kuji 👂👂👂

karki bari kanin jahilci ya rudeki ki ki nunawa kulawa ga mijinki kanin jahilci shine (kasan abu aman ka kiyi). misali ko yana cin abinci a cikin ...

Ina son Mata masu saka Jigida 🙈😅,kuyi hakuri yazama dole mu fada 😂

MATA MASU SANYA JIGIDA GAREKU 🥰😍 Mlm jigida A kugun mace Duniyane wllh😌 Barema kuma ace a kugun matarka ne idan Tana tafiya zakaji suna ...

I want him back 🥺💔

Bawan Allahn nan tun Muna secondary school yake Sona,and ni a wurina i just take it as joke gaskiya,but he mean ni kuma sai inta kauce wa,he calls me ...

How can I inform my Dad to choose a partner for me?

how do I tell my father to pick a man for me ,I mean husband

How do you break of an engagement in hausa land?

Hello! I'm not sure how it's done a Arewa is why I'm asking. I'm am ebira engaged to a hausa man. we were set to get married then it got postponed and...

i am crushing on my ex's sister

we are separate almost a year, now I am seriously crushing on her junior sister plz need ur advice ?

signs she ain't the one

Signs she ain't the one 1.you have very little in common 2.you don't share the same beliefs 3.she doesn't respect her parents 4.she overreacts 5.sh...

Best Level to get married as a medical student

Gud evening fam, plz when is the best time to get married in medical school? I mean the level with less commitments that a female medical student ca...

Should i end the relationship,cox it seems like im the only one making effort 🥺

Assalamualaikum,Sabhl Khair ✨There's a guy that loves me soo much, and I love him too but now he's behaving wiered he don't pick up my calls,kuma in...

mata kuzo ku ban ansa, why do you do this behavior?

me yasa wasu mata suke zuwa IG su dauko hotunan yan gayu suzo suna saka mana a whatsapp suna masu barka da salla wani bai ma san anyi sabida ba dangin...

What does it take to study Law ?

Good day .please what does it take to become a lawyer i.e to study law in the nigerian university? (Like expenses ,stress and others).Any law student ...

I am divorced my mom wants me to return but I DON'T. please ku taimaka mini da shawara

na kasance yarinya karama da nayi aure a 18years kwata kwata aurena tun yana 2weeks na farà fiskanta matsala duk sanda zai ce na tafi gida in na koma...

How do you give greenlight to Someone you don't talk to

Ladies, if you meet a man you like but you can't approach and the both of don't share anything in common nor talk to each other . What cues/green li...

What should I give her on our first meeting (during Eid )

There is this girl that I really care about for almost a year or beyond and I get the chance of communicating with her through her friend and I’m an...

Ina fama da fistsarin kwance kuma an kusa Aure na,Ina neman shawara dan Allah da addua🥺😭🙏

Na kasance budurwa me shekaru 19 Allah ya jarabceni da lalurar nan ta fitsarin kwance shekara da shekaru lokachin da ina karamar yarinya banayi sai da...

Is true that Medical student's don't have time for their spouse?

Pls is true that if u marry a medical student she won't have your time kullum school and books? Are they really not romantic? Pls advice me

Sad Short Poems about Life

Sad Short Poems about Life Sometimes you don't need to write a lot to express a feeling. This category is for sad poems when just a few lines will ...

Advice for young guys sufferring or finding it hard to stop masturbation.

Assalamu alaekum warahmatullah.I have been wanted to share this experience with this young guys that always find it difficult to let go of the addicti...

I am suffering from masturbation addiction, I need advice on what to do

Assalamu alaikum warahmatullah Ya ibadah, Allah Ya amsa mana Gabadayan mu.. Dan Allah I want people, or you to help nd advice me. Wallahi I'm just ...

IN NEED OF AN ADVICE OR GUIDANCE

Assalamualaikum hope kowa ya Sha ruwa lfy, Allah ya karbi ibadunmu Actually something has been bothering me lately because gaskiya a da I used to be a...

I am facing Marriage pressure & have tried my best in relationships but they just don't work out

I want to get marry am been pressure,, Will be 26 this year and is not as if I don’t have d intention of I once brought someone which lead to bring...

what's your opinion on Blind dates

Okay uhmm.. so a A blind date is a social engagement between two people who have not met, usually arranged by a mutual acquaintance. what do you all...

should i buy her sallah cloth or give her the money?

Sallah is coming and i was thinking of buying sallah cloth for my gf wasu sunce mun qara in bayar da kudi. What do you think? (Girls/Women) Kudi da Ka...

I'm having issues with my husband's family & thinking of just ending the Marriage! advice me

My marriage is just months, and I am pregnant I am Yoruba by tribe so is my husband When we we're courting I got to know he has a very big exte...

The wrong Choice ( life partner)

Choosing the wrong life partner might be due to family pressure, pair group or the society. Dear She/He, this is a lifetime matter. No matter the pres...

Saurayina yadaina daga wayata babu dalili

Haka kawai saurayina yadaina daga wayata banyi masa komaiba yaxanyi dashi please

I need your help, i am the one wrong here

I work in healthcare,this lady I plan on marrying we are in a long distance relationship. I work till evening and we normally chat during the night. w...

Ya hukuncin tunanin mu'amalar Aure ga wanda yake azumi

Dan Allah ina azimi but Always i'm thing akan muamalar aure nidai banyi aureba amma kullum ina cikin yin tunane tunani haka yahukuncin azimi na yake p...

My cousin's Husband wants me to be his second wife!

Good day dearies how is RAMADAN going Allah ya bamu ladan dake ciki! my cousin's husband wants to marry me and she's just like a sister from thesame m...

Chatting With Arewa Ladies

Most ladies normally say they despise it when asked questions like how are you ,have you eaten etc..... If you are chatting with any Arewa girl like ...

I am 18yrs and getting Marriage pressure

Malama I just turned 18 today but my parent have been pressurizing me to get married since when I am 16 because my elder sister got married at that ag...

A super strong advice to all the singles in this forum

Dear single Ladies and Gentleman, you know what they say, never go grocery shopping when you're hungry. You'll grab the wrong things. Same applies...

Dear men, know your wife and mother's place in your life

In your household, Your wife holds greater authority than every other woman including your Mother. Allow her be the woman and mother of the house. ...

Kindness (Kyautatawa)

Shifa kyautatawa nada dadi. Bawai kadai mata ne keson kyautatawa ba. Su kansu maza naso. Ba Yanda za ai saurayi yaringa kyautatamiki kowani lokaci sai...

Dear Gender This is a little advise

Always respect yourself as a woman.😌 so be very mindful of how you're representing yourself. 🙌If you want respect, you must first learn how to r...

Ramadan kareem 🌙

{***)Du’as we should never forget 1. Allahumma inni as’aluka husnal khatimah ‎ اللَّهُمَّ إِنِّيْ أَسْأَلُكَ حُس...

Love shouldn't be begged for

If you real want to heal your broken 😞 heart ❤️ , Always remind yourself, Don’t beg for love ❤️. Don’t beg for...

7 misconceptions men mistake for masculinity (a must read)

1 - Never make sacrifices or empower a woman you are not yet married to, It is all water under the bridge. 2 - Never trust any woman, They are all th...

Help a brother 👨

Wallahi I’m so obsessed with bre*st, if ur face is ugly and u have bre*st u are fine to me. I don’t know what do u it’s all I want from a lady p...

Remember your needy relatives & neighbors before you donate anything for ramadan

Please Remember your poor siblings/relatives and neighbors before you donate money or foodstuffs online for Ramadan. There's no reward in Al-Riyaa (sh...

NEVER LOSE HOPE IN THE MERCY OF ALLAH

No one in this world is sinless, everyone of us have sinned. We have to accept that but as we accept that fact we should always realize and keep in mi...

what prayer can I do to get a spouse?

Dan Allah wani Addu'ane da zan dingayi Allah yakawo abubuwan cikin sauki da gaggawa dan wallahi nidai nakai ashirin dabiyar ko saurayi banda balle mij...

I am having mental health issues, I need someone to talk to

Hello assalamu alaikum please I need help I need someone to talk to ban San ya zanyi ba abu na damu na and I can’t talk to my mom about it I have no...

After a long term dating, he betrayed me and i'm pregnant

Salamualaikum, I dated a guy for like 10 years and we spend almost 9 years without anything happing between us, till just of resent last we had sex, a...

Na kamu Da Sonta matuka😭😭😭

...

ADAINA KYAMAR ZAWARAWA MUMA MUTANENE

I'm a divorcee ,bantaba haihuwa ba. Though I had a miscarriage before we got separated with my ex husband.i haven't been into any relationship since m...

I prefer older men and want polygamy

Y is it that whenever i show that I don't want to marry a young guy or be d first wife people look at me like am an alien. am not interested in dating...

Shawara ga maza

Maza!! Dan ALLAH Kuringa Kulada Ƙannen ku Mata...Wallahi Suna Shiga Wani Hali😭 Shawara ga maza masu kanne mata, Wlh wasu yan matan suna lalacewa ...

pls, ya zan saka Turaren Wuta a daki ya kama sosai? ❤️

Hello famm...wai dan Allah yane zan sa turaren wuta ya kama a daki....likee not just for a few minutes, ja kama sosai...?

Some issues with TIKTOK Draft feature 😞

Well guys I’m here to advise us base on what is going on in our community allow me to say it in Hausa I believe all of us can hear it right? Wal...

Between a guy and a lady who proposes first?

Between a guy and a lady who proposes first? Daga behavior shi, you know that he loves you but he asked you to tell him what's on ur mind if you are o...

shawara nakeso a bani, i feel like i betrayed my friend for saying the truth about him

tmby gareni akwai wani aminina ne sosai toh yanason wata kanwar kawata amma gaskiya malama yana dan harkar matannan ni kuma sanadin naga yarinyar tan...

i am lost ? and very sad !!

i moved to Nigeria last year and it's cuz I was not happy so I went to stay with my uncle and after 1 mouth he passed away so I moved to stay with my ...

i am unmarried and its getting out of control for me, i need help

am a young lady brown in color chubby with full shape Alhamdulillah so I have been into different relationships sugar daddies in ne yaran be da de mat...

suggestion

why can't we have a whatsapp group from this furum ladies Only? or ladies and men with a good intension i think it may help. sai a ware normal group d...

How do i tell him i am getting engaged?

slm yan gidan nan I have two guys in my life currently i was wt mr A since last 2yrs then suddenly Mr B came into my life after my dad passed away be...

i really dont understand guys anymore pls i need your advice

so i have this boyfriend that I really love him so much that i can't compare anything with him . so we went out together and he started touching me an...

what does it mean when he avoids formal marriage introduction?

please kana tare da saurayi kana tambayanshi when zega iyayenka se yace wani abu kadan yake jira..mi hakan ke nufi ?

I do bad things & want to change, Advice please

nakasan ce nime saban Allah ne but at first Duk wanda zekaranta yemin addu’an shiriya duk wanda zeyi sallah yatuna labarina dakuma sallan azumi daku...

Let Be Helpful To One Another

Yamu Musulmai, Yakamata Mu Jajirce Wajen Taimakon Junanmu, Musanmamma A Wannan Yanayi Da Ake Ciki Na Rashin Kudi Dakuma Matsalan Tsaro. Ubangiji Allah...

she caught me flirting with her friend

Good morning y'all. My girlfriend has caught me flirting with her friend red handed and has refuse to talk to me since that yesterday. She won't answe...

need your prayers and advice 🥺

Aslm please I need your help and advice from you guys ina cikin damuwa sosai I'm 20years old iyaye na suna raye amma ninake ma kaina komai ba wa...

Rules of life

22 Rules of Life ✅ 1. Your control of your sexual urges will be the reason you are either successful or a failure. 2. Porn and masturbation is the...

my CO WIFE is better than me and i feel insecure about it

my co wife(first wife) has got the shape and beauty while nothing for me(Alhamdulilah)😂 but I feel so insecure and I feel i should end the marriage...

Idan na miji yace bai san mai yaka hanashi turowa ba

Please in kana soyayya da na miji. kayi observed cewa he is ready. sai kace mishi ya fito twice(yazo gaisuwa aure). kuma he replied twice "bai san mai...

Toh fa 🤔 alamura har sunkai wannan matsayin?

Assalamu Alaikum, Good morning everyone, there is this guy that I met on a social media platform we've been chatting and making phone calls for some ...

my dad's friend likes me

abokin baba na Yana Sona he confessed to me I didn't give him any reply and his married Kuma matan shi muna mutunchi wlhi baba na yayi suspecting Amma...

IF YOU WNAT TO STOP MASTURBATION AND YOU CAN'T,WELL IM HERE TO HELP

First of all many people use soap so that the can get to make their hand very easy and soft to use. what I want to you to put in your mind is that rem...

WHY DOES GUYS SEE A LADY WITH MALE FRIENDS AS MARA KAMUN KAI

Am very very disturbed about this, anytime I tell a guy or a lady I only have male friends sai su rika min wani kallo, am worried about it wlh, please...

should i make the first move?

so there is this guy I met recently although he hasn't looked at my side yet more like I don't exist to him and he looks so amazing should I make the ...

I sponsored him for the sake of love and he betrayed me severely.

Allah ya halicceni mace mai son taimako ba yabon kai ba kowa ya shaida ni kaina nasani bayan zuciyar mace da aka sani nada rauni inajin nawa daban ne ...

marriage

Please advise her Help a new bride. What can I do to make my husband leave my brèasts alone. Normally I don't wear revealing clothes cos I don't like...

Rufewa dan uwanka sirrinshi

tabbas rikewa Dan uwa sirri Yana d Lada me kyau, amma muna wata rayuwa da mutane ke boye alkhairin mutum su Kuma bayyana sharrinsa, ya kamata mu rinka...

How can i unlove him?

pls how to unlove some1 I meet this elderly man in his late 50s on Twitter and by Allah I fell for him and yanxu ina sonna cire sonshi a raina ba sh...

i need advice please

please I need advice and help please am not happy with everything that happened we don't have any happiness in your life Allahmdulilah tunda allah ya ...

Is it okay for a lady to marry someone she doesn't love but loves her so much?

As a lady is it okay to marry someone you don't love but that loves you so so much? will she be okay after marriage?

ina cikin damuwa

slm wallahi na kasance tun Ina Yar shekara 16. wani saurayina ya lalatani dayake ya girmeni sosai da niyan idan na gama sec sch. zai aureni karshe dai...

Ladies! You are not ugly, It is just an opinion

Do not validate that opinion by squeezing yourself into dresses that do not represent your body type. If you can stop forcing yourself into small d...

I am in love with my ex but i don't how i will tell him.

About 12yrs ago i was so much in love with my ex(it is a love for Allah sake) and i wanted to marry him. But something happened i choose the man i mar...

how may i get to her

Hi guys pls advice me I saw a girl here in kano, the girl was so fyn she beautiful wow se dai Mashallah. so I tried reaching her but I saw iPhone 12pr...

I'M NOW 40, ADVICE TO MY YOUNGER SELF

It's said life begins at 40. Well I'm here and would well tell for myself soon enough. As I'm at this important milestone in human life, while I wait...

A great challenge to approaching ladies

I'm gonna speak for myself, I've got this challenge in approaching ladies. Like, a few weeks back I met this pretty cute lady at a bodega. And I f...

Stop overrthinking

You are overthinking again. Breath… It’s going to be okay, You will figure it out and even if you don’t figure it out, that’s still ok...

SHAWARA GA MAZA MASU RUFIN ASIRI

Dan uwa mai neman macen da zata soka tsakanin ta da Allah ba dan abin duniya. Ga shawara zan baka. Akwai da yawa daga cikin yan uwa, dangi, abokan ar...

Advice to men

Avoid marriage when you are still pressing *606# before you make call MTN no dey borrow pampass.

My love story, i need advice

I meet this guy when I was 18yrs I just finished from secondary school . Then we fail inlove . He was 25 yrs old then . I loved this guy with all my...

i need your prayers and advice please 🙏

I am at a stage in my life that I'm thinking of doing something that will end up ruin my life 😭😭😭😭😭nice first daughter mama na ina da s...

why do most men feel intimidated by an educated woman?

I just want to know if being an educated woman there's something we do that's a turn off for men, or maybe I'm not meeting the right men

in need of advice pls help me to find away to solve it

pls I need your advice, akwai Wanda akeson hadan dashi a family namu nikuma yamin but mastalan shine kafin manya su shiga mgnn wata sistern mom Dina(Y...

i am really depressed i need your advice and prayers🙏

i am 25years old.I have seen a lot in my life tbh family problems and relationships My dad is a very strict person,he doesn't allow me to go out or ...

I NEED ADVICE ON MY RELATIONSHIP, SERIOUSLY.

Assalamu alaikum house. I have this girl that I am dating for almost 6 months now even though we've been friends for almost 4 years but recently deci...

Time wait for nobody utilise ur opportunities

I come across a post on twitter about a lady that is in love with her boyfriend she loved him so much and same to him. they dated for 3yrs before the...

MEN, WHY YOU SHOULD NEVER BODY SHAME A LADY

Ladies will always make you feel like cheating on them with a prettier girl doesn't hurt as much as it does with lesser girl. That's not true. Noth...

"I know you miss him, but.." A message to all the hurt/heartbroken ladies

I KNOW YOU MISS HIM. You want to call him and hear his voice again. To hear him joke again. To see that sparkly smile again. You want to feel the w...

Advice to our sisters here on this platform.

there's a lady I recently collected her phone after seeing her story on how she struggles. I learned we live in same neighborhood it's not my State of...

Ya zanyi don Allah ina naimam shawararku yan uwa😭😭😭

mun kasance mu basu halibane to nasamu wani aiki inayi natara kudina nayi shawarar na fara sayayyan Kayan kitchen kafin aurena saboda kar sai aure ya...

What men mean by "I need a break in this relationship" and what you ladies should do

Assalamu Alaikum dear ladies. This article explains what the majority of men mean when they say “ I need a break! - To clear my head or put thing...

What should i do please i need your advice yan aji😰😓

I'm in love with my ustaz (islamiyya teacher )

i want to forgive

I dated this guy for a year now I loved him so much... found out he was cheating I forgave him he cheated again then I left after some while he called...

SAVE YOUR SELVES FROM SELFISH DESIRES

Wollahi mata ku kiyaye, Zuwa wurin mallamai, boka will not solve your problems. Stop visiting them ,save your time, save your money, save your ene...

Finding it hard to settle with one girl

I am honestly tired of having feelings of different girls. How can I love a single girl and shut rest girls out of my life. What is love. How can I fi...

A jealous and introvert girlfriend

Assalam. Da fatan kowa na lafiya. Please advice me on this issue. I'm a 24 yr old guy dating a 17 yr old girl. I was her teacher and she first approac...

how can i solve this ??

ean uwa ku bani shawara Ina da wani saurayi ne wai shi nan aure na yike san yi amma innamishi magana yaxo gidan mu wajena Wai shi nan kunya yi ke ji k...

Please how can i cope with this

Assalam Alaikum family,please i need your help on this am a girl,and unmarried so here is something that is disturbing me,nakasance mace me karfin sha...

Who's to blame if you're married to a monster?

As a Muslim I believe Allah SWT Has predestined everything but addu'a and good deeds use to help in reshaping it. When it comes to marriage; please wh...

How to move on after a breakup?

Assalamu Alaikum house Please how to move on after a breakup? I was served a very hot breakfast subhanallah😭 Inna lillahi wa inna ilaihi raji'una...

I am facing some family issues, advice please

Barkan mu yan uwa......bara nayi bayani dalla dalla yanda zaku gane😂a gidan su baban mu mata 3 nei so maman baban mu ta rasu tun yana 100lv kuma su...

LONLINESS IS A GATEWAY TO SO MANY EVIL

Hey fam pls i need your advice i am a very lonely lady with health issues and i easily get depressed and angry easily too i am currently serving in a...

am ashamed of myself 😭, i regret everything.

i was in love with a boy in my neighborhood, i grow a strong feeling for him😢, I was ready to do anything for him 🥺. am 23, I was a virgin,aroun...

dan allah ku bani shawara

na kamu da San wata yarinya amma haryanxu na kasa shawo kan ta haryanxu ni kuma akwai wacce take sona bana jinta a raina kuma tafi waccan komai ban Sa...

Dan allah ina neman shawara yan uwa

Na kasance ban taba soyayya ba sai gashi yanzu kawai naji zuciyata tana bani shawarar hakan to amma kuma na kasance mutum mai tsoro shine nake neman s...

i need you advise and you prayers

Idan harwani Yace yana sona 🥺🤧Tohh wallahi esily xanji nadaina sonshi (2) idan nayi mafarki akan exams idan naci xangani idan nafadi Tohh d Gs...

What should i give her as a Wedding Gift?

My best friend is getting married and muna shirye shirye but am feeling bad ace muna tare ban bata komai ba although auren yazo a kurarren time. Am su...

an important aspect people leave out when looking for marriage

Assalamualykum brothers and sisters,people just go into marriage without considering the full meaning of love.They are just like “I wanna marry him/...

What should i do Dan Allah (I am ready for marriage and he's not)

Mun fara dating da wannan guy din 2yrs back. yana so na kaman ran shi nima haka 🥺 matsalar he's too young and not capable of marriage (26 yrs, 300...

Trust issues with my BF, I need your advice please

I need your advise please i have boyfriend but yafiya fada ga rashin fahimta da zargi Abu kadan sai fada tun Ina shanyewa idan yanayi bana beye masa h...

Masu samari a kasar waje how are you coping?

how is the long distance relationship going, lna da saurayi da yake karatu a Dubai we always chat and make calls, but the problem is ni inaso nagansh...

How can i go about it??

Na kasance Ina da samari amma wanda nafi so he's a graduate kuma har MSc yayi but he's jobless aiki shiru sauran kuma suna da rufin asiri suna min mag...

Advice for my male brothers😇

pls Maza yan uwana akoi abunda mu mata sometimes bamaso but we can’t say it out to your face sabida ba dadi ne,xa kagan guy yafara soyyah a yarinya ...

I need an advice

wllh muna tare da babe almost 7month muyi fada mushirya sometimes idan muyi fada ita zatakirani tabani hakuri muna soyayya sosai har wayana zan dauka ...

I need your prayers 🙏

Aslm nakasan ce ina soyayya da wani Amma Kuma yanada Mata da Yara biyu, muna soyayya sosai Kamar bazaa rabuba , akoda yaushe Ina tambayar shi yaushe ...

An advise to the ladies in the group

What I want to advise you guys is that pls and pls sisters Idan kun hada crush da wata pls don't disgrace or insult her kowa sa'a yake nema so I didn...

Can a relationship between to university mates lead to Marriage?

I have a question please do you think a relationship between two university classmate can lead to marriage Coss me and my boyfriend dey for the sme lv...

Be doing HIV test early before due date

please, guys, take note and do HIV and any other tests early before the due date of marriage cuz someone just tested positive for Aids on her wedding ...

At what point in a relationship should tests be done?

Assalamu alaikum AMM dan Allah a tambayamin wai yaushene yakamata mutum yasan genotype dinsa, kuma yaushene yakamata aje ayi gwaji a asibi na HIV, Ge...

should I accept him? (he is into drugs)

Assalamualaikum...... please I need an advice on this issue please. I met a guy in my school last semester and we became friends. We talk on phone mos...

Boyfriend issue

Slm yan aji.......I don't know why but I found this funny.....my boyfriend ask me to called him yesterday so I called he didn't pick and I decide to d...

A step to avert people's bad influence.

I think there are still people out there who will settle for simplicity during a wedding, but the main problem arises when other people start throwing...

I NEED AN ADVICE PLSS

Hello everyone,dan allah ina son a bani shawara plsss. Ina da saurayi for almost 3 years amman kuma a shekarun nan da muka dauka sau 2 ya taba xuwa gu...

HOW CAN I TELL HIM

assalamu alaykum pls I need an advice on how to approach my crush .I have been crushing on him for 2yrs now and I can't tell him I love him am sacred ...

my struggle with Homosexual thoughts

Good morning everyone. I saw a post on lesbianism earlier. Wallahi I have never mentioned this to anyone before, this is the first time and I just wan...

i need some one to understand me

Assalamu Alaikum hope every one is doing good.. pls and pls i need some one to understand me, Kowa da kalar jarabawar da Allah yake masa ko? to ni inj...

confused about men

Wai DanAllah mazan da suka rage yanzu duk haka suke,I met a guy recently we ar still on talking terms the next thing he started sayin shit 2 me.sai ka...

Beware of giving out your contact.

A very good morning to all.I noticed people ask for your contact in the comment section,i made that mistake once .Initially i tot only registered and ...

I'm confused 🥺 should I accept him?

Greetings everyone. I'm 28yrs and he's 27yrs,I'm working & he's not but he has a fashion house of his own,I'm MSc holder & he has HND Certificate. we...

my girlfriend's ordeal with a fraudulent vendor, ina Neman shawaran

Salamu Alaikum Ina neman shawaran yan aji pls, girlfriend Dina tasa order online anqi tura Mata kayan Ana ta Mata story har tace ta fasa abata kudinta...

What brand of washing machine would you recommend I buy?

pls what company of washing machine do you suggest I buy .. I hvnt bought it before so I want to buy but don't know the company I should buy..pls a ve...

I need your suggestions please.

I've been dealing with acne and spot for quite a while now. I've used some few products I can afford and it's still here. sometimes it gets better and...

should I choose my dad's choice in my coming marriage?

there is this guy of my choice and the other one is dad's choice and unfortunately my dad pass away......babana kafin ya mutu yace ya yaba da hankalin...

KWADAYI

Mata a rage KWADAYI dan Allah kos shi dai KWADAYI mabudin wahala ne

Do good men still exist? Am i right to back out?

Assalamu alaikum. There's this thing that has been really bothering me lately. do good men really exist? I keep wondering to myself bcuz all the guys ...

I saw a Guy and i like him but could not do anything, i want to find him now

I was in sahad stores two days back and I saw this really cute guy wearing black. oh my God he looked so nice. I have been looking for him since then....

Should I accept him for marriage?

Assalamu alaikum wa rahmatullah I’ve always tried my best to practice and abide by what islam teaches then I met this guy and we dated for almost 2...

I want to repent and get closer to Allah

Hello everyone, I am writing these with a heavy heart,I don't know inda zan sa kaina😭years back there is nothing I hate like S*x I hate the mare me...

In Need of Dua Please

Assalamu Alaikum, please I need a word of prayer dan Allah. My mind is going through alot, Am feeling lonely kamar everyone is rejecting me. Wlhy Azim...

Did i really kill the paitent?

Assaalmu Alaikum warahmatullah. How are you doing, ya jammaa. Please I need your urgent help and advice. I am a medical student, so in the hospital...

Difficultly in deciding whom to marry

Assalamu alaikum house. I'm in a very difficult situation right now and I don't know how to figure a way out of it. I have two (2) girlfriends and the...

I'm stuck, we met at NYSC camp and i like him

Assalaamu'alaykum my family I'm in a very critical condition right now....i met this guy in camp and we became close friends,we move around in camp an...

why do arewa only marry from arewa

I am really bothered about these situation,I don't know if am the only one facing these,but when ever someone asked me out and we started talking, whe...

Advice me

Aslm i need advice girlfriend Dina Wai sai na daina yin ball dole and wlhy ball din nan is part of my life.. so tun jiya nayi mata magana akan abu she...

I overthink & get disappointed in my relationships

Assalamu alaykum wallahi there's this guy who made me fall in love with him and yanzu he's ignoring me kuma i never intend to love anyone after my las...

i'm sick of relationship issues

Assalamualaikum.Good day.plx I need an advice. I hv a boyfriend and he's AS while am also AS.actually I don't love him dat much.cx he isn't day carin...

What do u think i should do next?

Aslm! I came to like this man since I'm 15 SS 1, and by then I don't even know what that means, I just want to be listening to him always and want hi...

Shawara nake so a bani yadda zan dena son wani

akwai wannan guy din muna level one aka bani number shi nayi mishi mgn ya koya mi wani course toh tunda ga nan muka fara mutunci dashi sosai har soya...

Advice please, i am adding weight

Na kasance lokacin da nake uni bana cin abinci jikina normal yanzu kuma nayi serving na gama ina gida hankali kwance bacci enough inci abinda nake so ...

my boyfriend is indecisive

Assalamu alaykum please I need your advice. how do you deal with indecisive guy. Being dating him for 3 years now buh his still not decisive about u...

Ladies, Be wise when going on dates in this harsh economy

With the way the economy is now, if a guy takes you to a restaurant and suddenly picks a call after you have placed your order and starts going out, b...

should I accept him? now that he seem to change to a better person?

there is dis guy dat loves me, he was a family friend....he has loved me for almost 8 years nd Neva give up har gashi na Gama youth service na my prbl...

Advice to ladies

If A Lady is dating a guy and he never in his life pray to God To have you in ur presence, then he is just a player, there's someone out there he like...

Pressure over marriage on men

Salam everyone, my issue is a bit contradicting. I thought it's only women who are pressurised over marriage issues. I'm young within the age bracket ...

concerning the security guard post

I want to say something briefyl too concerning the previous post akan security guard, I was also a victim😅. back then in secondary school the schoo...

boyfriend issue, advice me pls

Aslm...there is this guy I really love so much and he said he loves me too but gaskiya I don't believe no call,no text no anything for days sai yazo o...

A Security guard at our school hmm!, wai he's in love with me

Salam fam....hope kowa na lfy.....I don't know how to say this but some people are totally out of there senses...akwai wani security muna mutunci dash...

looking for a friend

hello wonderful people I trust everyone is doing well? I'm looking for a friend who studied Physiotherapy I don't mind the gender or if you know someo...

Struggling to make and keep friends

I realize I am a lonely person, I'm already broken and feel distant from groups or individuals. I can't keep going on like this. I'm done with school...

my grandmother said my elder sister must get married before me

Hello am not shooting my shot here but I have a problem and I want you to help me and post it please 🙏inada saurayi har anyi gaisuwa but lokaci day...

menene illar mace mai zurfin ciki ????????

nidai na kasance mace ce mai zurfin ciki bana iya bayyana abinda ya dameni ko zai cutar dani saboda Ina ganin kamar na tonawa kai na asiri ne kuma mut...

Advice for Muslim brothers seeking a non-muslim lady

salaam and hope you all are having a beautiful weekend! This advice is directed to the Muslim brothers....The affairs of the heart is one which is ve...

How can i approach a guy i have a crush on?

There's this guy that I've been crushing on But I really don't know how to tell him like he clearly stated on his bio that girls should not DM him ...

Tip towards a healthy and lasting relationship

Half of your beauty comes from the way you speak which means your manners are your beauty. May Allah bless you with strong Imaan, taqwa, piety, purity...

A PIECE OF ADVICE AND A LITTLE REMINDER.

I'm writing this piece of note on behalf of the males (Mata kuyi hakuri zanyi naku kuma🤗),Dan Allah mata duk wani expenses da ango zai kashe during...

looking for a crush

I don't know how to start it but I came across this man on one page reading the holy qur'an and boom sai kawai naji ya burgeni wallahi especially his ...

Pls Advice

i want to post my profile, for matchmaking. A definite no for me is someone who drinks and or smokes. i am scared that if i post that, some people who...

karya.....

Baka cika makaryaci ba,Har sai lokacin da zaka iya yiwa kanka da kanka karya😢 saidai ka yaudari kanka amma ba zaka iya ba,cikin duniya zaka iya yiw...

Effects of Over thinking

Good day everyone. I would like to talk about some of the effects of over thinking. As everyone knows,over thinking doesn't solves problems instead it...

What is the way out???

Assalamu alaikum. I don't know how to begin ma. Well, I've come across several posts where people talk about HIV/AIDS positive people or they themsel...

HE HAS CHANGED DRASTICALLY!

My husband to be has changed drastically, ive known him for 12years now and it seems halinshi baya canzawa.... we parted three times in these years a...

Humility

I want to just point out to some ladies out there that some of us intentionally have very simple and humble bios so as to attract the right partner . ...

can "iphone will" break relationships

can I phone will break relationship in a time where nor the parents and the saurayi bought for her and she didn't get it by herself she said some one ...

mata Mu rage kwadayi

i'll chop this guy money, i'll chop this guy money abii😪 Kina tunanin they won't fine ways da zasu fanshe kudin su right,or maybe karma doesn't hav...

This is what i want in Marriage as a man

I want a a full house wife that will cook, clean and take care of me as a routine while i go about my work/business. she must not attain a high educat...

Stop stressing yourself for love

Tun Kina cikin Mahaifiyarki Allah ya Zaba Miki Mijin Da Zaki Aura,Dan Haka Malama Ki Daina Wani Wahalar Da Idonki Da Zubar Da Hawaye Akan wani Wanda K...

Ganin Lefe????

Ganin lefe is a culture that should be abolished! All it breeds is jealousy and lack of contentment. Ban yarda da wannan Al'adan ganin lefe ba da yaw...

Mutane????????

Wani Lokaci Idan ka Hadu Da Wani sai kawai kaji Ya darsu Aranka 🥰 irin Mutanen Da Kake Bukata Arayuwar ka Kenan Saboda Suna da Wata baiwa Ta Musam...

Mata Mu rage Son Abun Duniya????????

mata mu rage san abun duniya! Kina san abun duniya and you're not working for it ba dole a wulakanta ki ba?😏I'm very pro gifting and I completely e...

Advice

what is your clue about marrying a girl with sikle cell like koda Abun baya damunta is there any problem with that ko da kae namijin is AA i mean the...

The kano girl who got killed by her Chinese ex-boyfriend

I was really emotional about it how a young girl like just got killed in such manner, very heartbreaking and i wish to atleast speak about it and give...

problem of age gap

I noticed most of the females on this platform are somehow older than the males counterparts which I think is a major obstacle in getting a partner on...

Get rid of that so called shan minti pls????

is anyone here having same issue with mine?? as in if ure not involving yah self in that soyayyan shan minti or what ever they called it ure not wise ...

Advice on Marriage prepararions

salaam, i want to get public suggestions on Marriage preparations, i plan to settle next year as i just graduated and got a Job. i think within 1 yea...

Ina fama da matsalar Masturbation. i need help

Asssalama Alaikum Dan Allah mutane su tayani da Addua da kuma shawarwari nakasance ina aikata masturbation abin yana damuna sosai and is affecting my...

Advice

what killed the cat??? CURIOSITY!!? curiosity drives people to seek out miserable experiences.

An eye for an eye

an eye for an eye makes the whole world blind beware!!!

DEAR PORN ADDICTs

Assalamualaikum warahmatullah. I was once an porn addict since when i was in jss1. Which one of my classmates taught me how to watch and download por...

I need your prayers/advise

Assalamualaikum warahmatullah..good day to you all. when i'm willing to date a girl. I love her with all my heart So i was into a relationship with ...

My parents don't want me to marry him (he's SS)

I Need your advice, I met someone about a year ago and we’ve been inseparable since then although it’s a long distant relationship but he makes it...

This is what the lady i am planning to Marry told me, i need advice

This is what my wife to be by December told me after i reported her to her mother about i am seeing changes in her these days and i need her help .......

Relationship issues

Hello,please i am in need of serious assistant i am in a relationship with a lady that i met on this platform that lead us now to marriage proposals b...

Please help

Salaam. Ina neman shawara da addu'a pls. Akoda yaushe na shiga class ko na dau books na don karatu sai inji jiki na ya mutu ina jin bacci, kuma ko kad...

I need Advice

So I'm new here please pardon my mistakes. I used to have intense emotions towards my partners,the last relationship I had ruined me. Don't get me wr...

It's normal to feel this?

I'm in my early 20s but I'm into older girls, I'm so confused about this because I don't see any possibility of having any of them neither in relation...

Porn and Masturbation Addiction. I need help

Assalamualaikum I also have this problem of masturbating and watching phorn it really disturbing me I have done several things to overcome this attit...

I am confused about my life

I am a young person of 28yrs that has been blessed with what i have always wanted at my age, a comfortable life. Alhamdulillah i have everything more ...

My VOICE TURN THEM ON

I am just wondering and sick of it too.. anytime I talk with a guy or send a voice note through WhatsApp.... they always say my voice turn them on and...

I love him

I love him but I don't think he loves me back he takes me as a friend what should I do? I don't want to lose him

am very scared of marriage ? how can I overcome it

Hi I was married 4yrs back without knowing the man is mentally ill everything happened in a rush the first meeting to marriage happens in 2months time...

Warning to others! How porn destroyed my life

I write this with a heavy heart, there is a new addictive substance out there it is Porn. It all started about 4 years ago. i use to see people onl...

Friend request

Good morning I am yet to receive a request I hope I have’nt done any mistakes during the registration. Thank you

I need an advice.

Hello everyone. So my issue is that I went to visit my sister in one state, the house she is living in are two apartments. Her neighbors where newly m...

Men at 18 to 22 in relationship

What's your view on this matter? It seems like most of men dating at the age of 18 to 22 are always left shattered, and it's obvious that 90% of the g...

I want advice please

Aslm Da Fatan Kuna Lapia I need your advice about my girlfriend we have at lease almost 9 months with her and I love her she love me but the problem i...

Spoil your wife!

Spoil Your Wife, She Is Totally Yours! Dear Married Brothers in Islam, there is no happiness in this world than being Married. Always say Alhamd...

Why it's harder for ladies to get husbands.

Salam alaikum, This topic was discussed on Instagram recently by Mr. Khaleeepha and some other brothers and sisters. Some people were just discussing...

The true about love

The truth about love When you are in love, you only see the nice things about that person. This is because the bad side isn’t revealed to you. But ...

Dear Insecure chubby sisters,

Been going through the comments on ArewaUp IG page. I've noticed some ladies commenting on mens' profile who are looking for "tall, fair and *slim* ...

I need advice on what to do? Please help me with advice and not insults thank you ?

When I was 13 I went to a boarding school. My parents thought it will be good to send me to school to learn English and proper manner in school. On my...

Advice

I and my husband where friends I didn't know he used to have a crush on me back then until when he got angry and stopped talking to me we reconnected ...

Serious note to all

Assalam. Pls and pls my brothers and sisters, this issue of profile picture is VERY serious. Someone previously drew our attention on this matter, but...

Dear Brothers in this forum

Assalamu Alaikum warahmatullah. I wish you all the very best in your life my fellow Muslim Brothers. There is something I observed since I joined matc...

Need an advice

Actually i dont know where to start, but i need to give an insight, am a kind of lady who dont fall in love easily and actually dont believe in social...

Depressed

Assalamualaikum brothers and sisters in this forum. Many ladies out their are fighting depression and some kind of addiction bcs of u. Am a chubby s...

Why do ladies display pictures will filters in the matchmaking site

I think it is not right to display all pictures with filters or heavy makeup cuz u end up not displaying ur true self. A guy may become attracted to u...

i need advice about boyfriend

Asslm Dan Allah ina da damuwa,inada saurayi kuma aure na xeyi kullun mgnanshi asa rana amma kwata kwata bayason kirana a waya ko chatting dinma bayi m...

Ana min kallon matar aure

Dan Allah neman shawari nake a'm 25yrs but single sannan ban taba aure ba,abun Yana damuna Maza da Mata da yawan su kallon matar sure suke min Koda ku...

Wants to make money through your cell phone follow this Whatsapp link for guide lines

How to make 50,000 to 80,000 with your smart phone will staying at home during this lock down get something that will earn you money and stop wasting ...

How do I tell a guy that I like him

Assalam alaikum. There's this guy that I like but I don't know how to tell him that I like him without him humiliating me

how can i stop this ???

Hw can I stop masturbation pls

Masturbation and porn addiction

You masturbate and watch porn, admit it ,we all do. Let’s not play holy . Tbh This is a problem that a lot of us(youths) suffer from ,we hate to br...

Wata baturiya ce takeson friend dina

NB please munason advice ne wlh wata baturiyane ta manne ma wani friend Dina a tweeter wai tana sonshi ta tambayi Shi details nashi ya gakamata Shi ka...

What to do about my boyfriend attitude I need your advice

We met each other in October last year....he captured my heart and I captured his too we were so much in love...he's loving, caring, handsome every a ...

i need Advice about a girl i'm into

I need an advice. There is this girl I’m into. we used to be neighbors but not anymore. We started talking and I fell in love with her and to be ho...

Arewa na da matsaloli

Tabbas akwai samu neman ilimi a Arewacin Nigeria, akwai masu wayewa, akwai masu kishi da sanin yakamata ammah kash, a kullum mune a baya, idan akai me...

Shawara ga Matasa

Matasa ya kamata su gane sha'awa jarabtace daga Allah ga wanda baida aure. aga zaka iya haqurin jurewa ko kuma zakaje kabi san zuciyarka. Wallahi Abi...

being single at 21

Am single, in the sense that i don't have a boyfriend, and i am 21 kuma ina son aure, gashi na kusa gama makaranta. Am feeling guilty for san aure

how do you know when you've found "THE ONE"?

How do you know you've found "THE ONE"?. I mean that person you're willing to spend the rest of your life with, true love, does the word really exist?...

Advice for en mata da samari akan soyayya

Assalmu alaikum. Zanbawa en mata da samari shawara dan naga labarin wanda zatawa kanta aure a gida I almost did the same saboda soyayayya. Ni mace ce...

Tambaya akan abokai

Slm, wai dan Allah mutun ya dace yayi mu,amala da aboki wanda baya ganin girman iyayen mutun.

i have an important choice to make, please help.

I want to get your opinions to help with my decision, i'm 24 yrs, na gama university tun last year akwai wani wanda yake so ya aure ni, i'm ok with hi...

Mace idan tace tanasan namiji

Ba laifi bane Idan mace taga namijin da yai mata tace tana so, kuma musulunci ya halatta hakan Amman narasa dalilin dayasa idan mace ce tafara cewa t...

Advice for matan aure

matan aure respect urself fr ones n stop ranting nonsense simply becos ur husband is cheating on u ,them u attack ur husband side chick,honestly speak...

laifin wanene ?????

hassan ne dan she kara 4 mamarsa tace yaje ya dauko soson wanka amai wanka shine dayaje sai ya dauko soson kadai yakawo mata saita kwatsamai tsawa tac...

My love for him ??? should I tell him?

Wallahi yanxu haha derris a guy Wanda nake mutuwan so??like am crushing on him for real.buh ya kasa gane wa.and the problem is diq wani sallon nuna Ca...

Boy/girlfriend issues

Salam NB barka dayau dan allah inaneman shawara ga mutanen gidanann inada wata girlfriend kumah munason junanmu sosai amma batada aiki sea tambayata k...

Am still talking to my married Ex

My girlfriend got married recently, we had a misunderstanding while we were dating so she gave another person a chance and they are now married. But e...

My boyfriend is straight forward

Slm inada boyfriend we've been together for almost 3years now so abnda ke damuna komai fadamun ykeyi dan akwai time din da muka fita shine yke cemun w...

Should I tell my future wife this issue?

I'm in a relationship with a girl and in few weeks I'll be going to meet her parents daga Nan Kuma sai Shirin sure InshaAllah by January or February n...

How can i get my money

Barka da yamma Dan Allah matan Aure masu dan Business ko kudi a Hannu ya ake da maza masu taurin Bashi? Narasa yanda zanyi da mijina dana dan tara yan...

Should i do it? she's tempting me

I have a christian class mate that shows interest in me for the past 7 month. she looks good and has a sexy body. we became normal friends until one d...

Second Wife

Assalam Alaikum i am getting married again in 6 months time, I need tips on how to deal to my jealous wife, yanda zan gaya mata cikin ruwan sanyi ta f...

My confused friend

Pls friend dina ce tana da boyfriend sunyi 2years suna dating kafin aka saka ranar aurensu so recently Idan suna waya yana fada mata cewa he can't wai...

Aure nakeso

Salam.my fellow brothers and sisters I don’t know where to start but wlh aure nakeso and. I’m feeling shy to talk to anyone about it.I started da...

Salam, ina da wata matsala

Salam mrng sannu da hidima Ina da tanbaya ne pls Idan na zauna sai na dinga ganin danshi a pant dina kmr na jike ban sani ba ko cuta ne ? Dan idan...

lecturer din mu at ABU, Zaria wants to date me

to keep it short, yace he is interested and wants to date me kuma wai he's serious idan na gama ze aure to let me know how serious he is. he has a wif...

Urgent Help

Please malama i need urgent advice, inada ciki wata biyu mijina yace bedade da hidimar biki ba baze fara dawainiyar yara ba, harya bani wani magani na...

Advice

Salaam. Pls share with the arewahub family. I need an urgent help. Ina rubuta jarabawa ta makarantan boko (Masters). nakan kashe Kaina da karatu so...

love with my cousin

me and my cousin sister we r seriously in love but.my mother is totally against it,please what should i do.

Need a Supplication To Get A Good Spouse

Plx I need an advice,am a female graduate from kano state am single banida saurayi and as a graduate ace babu saurayi it feels bad kuma Alhamdulillah ...

Dilemme

Please let me go straight to d point am in dilemma...a gida ance infuto da miji,akwai wanda nakeso,namishi magana but hé didt make any moves,maybe hi...

confusion

I've been wanting to ask this question for a very long time..Between male and female who is more honest in relationships (Dating alone)??

Relationship problem

I have this boyfriend which I’m hoping to get married to after school. We’ve been dating for the past 2 years and everything was going so smoothl...

Dilemma

Please Help me yanzu na fara makaranta university in another State, senake zama gidan uncle dina he is always travelling from one country to another, ...

Cheating Husband

Good Morning, I have a question, how can one deal with a cheating Husband? I recently caught my Husband cheating on me with random girls, when i confr...

if you have agreed on marriage can you stay with your future spouse?

I have finished exams and would go home in 3 days, my boyfriend said I should come and spend 1 day with him soboda idan na tafi baza mu sake haduwa ba...

BINCIKE NA MUSAMMAN: ZINA TSAKANIN MUHARRAMAI (INCEST):

ZINA A TSAKANIN 'YAN UWA MUHARRAMAI ---------------------------------------------------------------------- -----------------------------------------...

should i move and stay with my cousin?

i am a university student and my cousin is renting a 2 bedroom close to the school kuma shi kadai ne yanzu, his house mate has graduated. so shine nak...

Heartbreak

Salam! Danallah taya mutum ze cire san wani a rashi? Saurayina ne ya dena kulani bayan ya kawo kudina kuma ni ina sanshi sosai kullum tunaninshi na...

unjust love

Assalamu alaykum people,, well lemme start from the very start, well I met this guy last year, Masha Allah he's everything a lady needs, and me being ...

My husband's friend

Salamualykum ...anty ina da wani dan matsala... Nayi aure fyn alhmdulilah... I living well with my husband da dangin sa amma matsalata dayane His clic...

a little reminder

Life is a test,an exam. When you make a test in school, you always have a question which are easy but there are always a few which are too difficult....

Relationship

Malama ina cikin wata matsala gf dita tana boarding gashi ta dade ni kuma gaskiya na gaji zan iya yin wata gf din kafin ta dawo? Please help me out

Is it right mu cigaba da dating

I was dating a guy ,irin lyk we met on Instagram, to be Frank he loves me and nima ina sonshiii buh we've never met and yanaso y aure niiii Kuma yanas...

Addiction problem

I have porn addiction problem. Please I'm looking for someone who can help me out.

Is it okay to send nudes to your boyfriend?

my boyfriend that has promised to marry me asked me for nude pictures yesterday I don't feel comfortable to send but I don't want to offend him please...

Advice for relationship

Assalamu Alaikum Malama Ya ibada an sha ruwa Lafiya, Dan Allah ayi hiding identity dina ina GF munyi mugun shakkuwa da ita jiya sai muka samu da saban...

Ban taba mafarkin mace bah

Na kaii 19-20yrs amma ban taba mafarkin mace bah abun yana damuna sosaii shine nake son nasani hakan yana iyah faruwa koh kuma ina da wani matsala neh...

What will i do?

I am 28years old and the first born in my family, ni gaskiya ba irin yarannan bane da keson shashanci, naso aure tun ina university amma mamana ta han...

Is what i am planning to do bad?

i am 27 yr old male recently i am having pressure from family to get married and i am not interested in it but i have a lot of sexual urge many times ...

wai Tunda ramadan watan rahama ne idan kayi haram zaka samu less zunubi?

my friend was telling me wai idan kayi laifi a ramadan zaka samu less zunubi idan kayi aiki me kyau zaka samu more lada kuma ko da kayi haram you will...

im in love

There's this girl i love with all my life,i knw she loves me equally but im always concerned whenever she goes out,either to school or anywhere,my big...

Can your sibling come to stay at your home if your not around? is it ok?

i will be travelling next week and my junior sister will be coming to my home in Abuja to write an exam my place is the only place she can stay to spe...

Is it islamically okay to buy jaruma's blue eye?

Ina so in siya blue eye din Jaruma that gives goodluck I have seen many testimonies about it. Amma someone was telling me wai it's Haram shirka ne kad...

my cousin has gone astray in school should i tell her parents?

my cousin has become a bad girl following boys and smoking shisha shes not even concentrating on her studies and i am the only one around her she's fr...

Is buying something from Jumia safe?

I am in kano and thinking of ordering some items from Jumia but i am doubting, please has anyone ever used their service to tell me how it is and how ...

I masturbated this morning and ejaculated is my fasting still valid?

i feel ashamed to ask anyone this that's why i'm here, pls if its not valid does it mean i can eat for the rest of the day and make up for it after ra...