Mar 30, 10:49 AM

This is what the lady i am planning to Marry told me, i need advice

This is what my wife to be by December told me after i reported her to her mother about i am seeing changes in her these days and i need her help ..............U, u u reported me to my parents, i am tired of u kai wannan. I dont want dis marriage again. Shame on u. U brought tears on my face dis morning.u joined me with my parents. What did i do to u? I hate u. Hope ka shirya ma abinda zai biyo baya bcos i th

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Mar 30, 12:30 PM
U need to take things easy and be matured about it.. sit her down and talk amicably. Ask her what you have done wrong and why the sudden change cos you never can tell if you are at fault.. if she still insists pray over it cos matter of the heart is very delicate..
Mar 30, 12:47 PM
Anonymous #1 Mar 30, 12:30 PM
U need to take things easy and be matured about it.. sit her down and talk amicably. Ask her what you have done wrong and why the sudden change cos you never can tell if you are at fault.. if she stil[...] U need to take things easy and be matured about it.. sit her down and talk amicably. Ask her what you have done wrong and why the sudden change cos you never can tell if you are at fault.. if she still insists pray over it cos matter of the heart is very delicate..
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Thank you so much really appreciate
Mar 30, 12:51 PM
You have started seeing clear signs of how her behavior will be when you get married, Marriage brings out the full character of a person either the husband or wife, what you have been tolerating thinking he/she will change after getting married will actually get worst except on few occasions, try and see if you can settle this amicably, if not, that her threat ba wasa bane, Make Hay While The Sun Shines, na who dey alive dey enjoy marriage.
Mar 30, 12:59 PM
Shuaib Mohammed Mar 30, 12:47 PM

Thank you so much really appreciate

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You are welcome and always exercise Sabr for Insha Allah your worries will come to an end
Mar 30, 02:13 PM
I won't say you should run but make a decision early to avoid drama in the future. But I personally think you shouldn't have reported her to her parents you should have talked to her as man. Amma dai her character is opened to you, if you can tolerate it fine. If you can't move on to someone and don't waste your time.
Mar 31, 02:12 PM
Anonymous #2 Mar 30, 02:13 PM
I won't say you should run but make a decision early to avoid drama in the future. But I personally think you shouldn't have reported her to her parents you should have talked to her as man. Amma da[...] I won't say you should run but make a decision early to avoid drama in the future. But I personally think you shouldn't have reported her to her parents you should have talked to her as man. Amma dai her character is opened to you, if you can tolerate it fine. If you can't move on to someone and don't waste your time.
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I support ur submission 100% but if I were the one I'll choose to move on.. Marriage is a forever thing and one deserves tranquility
Apr 3, 01:00 PM
Anonymous #3 Mar 31, 02:12 PM

I support ur submission 100% but if I were the one I'll choose to move on.. Marriage is a forever thing and one deserves tranquility

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Thanks so much really appreciate am still thinking about a better decision
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