Please what are some basic items required in Lefe?
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Anonymous Jul 4, 08:04 AM

Please what are some basic items required in Lefe? 4

Please I want to know the basic things da ake sakawa a cikin lefe.I know it depends on the number of boxes
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Anonymous #1 Jul 4, 09:19 AM
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i wonder what is wrong with some people, if he can ask his sister' why is he here? are u even sure he has sister or even if he has, are they experienced?. if you can't answer a question just keep quiet
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Hasynoh Jul 4, 09:33 AM
let the lady's give you better answer, but from my on understanding, is kayan sawa(materials, abayas, atamfa, hijab, gyale, night dress, underwears, and English wears), jakakkuna, takalma, jewellery, make-up kit, perfumes, skincare products, hair products and other little things da ba'a rasa ba. from my experience o, it's not like a standard or something.
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Abdulkarim Badamasi Jul 4, 09:44 AM
generally… it depends on the girl you’re marrying and her family expectations. generally, it’s clothing, jewelry and body care. imagine she’s not coming with anything from their house and buy everything she’ll need. from soap, to body lotion, to make up, perfumes, jewelry, underwears, atamfa, abaya, lingeries, hijab etc. plus you’ll have to reach a consensus on dressing. If you don’t want your wife wearing makeup or perfume, agree on it and don’t include it. if you want her wearing hijab, agree on it and include it. It’s usually a point of friction if you go and buy hijabs and she doesn’t want to be wearing hijab or you don’t buy makeup and she likes putting it on. Allah ya taimaka
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Abdulkarim Badamasi Jul 4, 01:32 PM

yesso. My first wife was the one that asked me how I want her to be dressing and looking and all. then when you have a second who doesn't want to wear Hijab, likes makeup and perfumes, and you can't tolerate... hawan jini ya tabbata 😂😂😂😂. If you can't agree on simple things like this with the person you want to marry, akwai matsala
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Anonymous #2 Jul 4, 02:15 PM

wow that's nice, couples agree on this things. ah gaskiya kam if you can't agree hawan jini ya tabbata 😂💔. I have an uncle that ranan da yace matarshi ta change dressing dinta because the clothes she's wearing is fitted and she puts on a very small vail.. she refused to change haka aka pasa fitan, her reason was he has been allowing her to be going out that way why then will he prevent her rana daya kawai.
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Abdulkarim Badamasi Jul 4, 02:20 PM

exactly. on top of something you'll think that simple, divorce can happen. Personally, I cannot have a woman under my care going out "dressed yet naked" the way the prophet put it. Transparent, fitted clothing in the name of slaying. If you can't agree with a potential spouse, you're in for trouble. Usually self, it's not about agreeing, just don't go looking for a hijabite and ask her to wear laxed clothing or a club girl and ask her to wear hijab. Kawai kwarya ta bi kwarya. There's more to marriages than looks and beauty.
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Anonymous #2 Jul 4, 05:34 PM

yeah that's 💯 , kwarya tabi kwarya... Allah ya kara hada kan ma'auratan, mu na baya kuma Allah ya bamu good spouses..
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