why do arewa only marry from arewa
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Anonymous Nov 15, 10:44 AM

why do arewa only marry from arewa 0

I am really bothered about these situation,I don't know if am the only one facing these,but when ever someone asked me out and we started talking, when he asked me were am from the moment I say Niger State he will start giving new attitude and becomes distance 😭 why, mostly, Kano, kaduna and other arewa state.
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Anonymous #2 Nov 15, 11:07 AM
am also from Niger state so do you want us to connect
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Zakariya Nov 15, 12:45 PM
I don't think it's for everyone it just depends, but we're not all the same
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Anonymous #1 Nov 15, 12:56 PM
aah I'm from Niger state too although I haven't experienced such yet besides Niger state is a solid part of the North
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Anonymous Nov 15, 01:19 PM

well I don't know oo but mostly if am ask from were and I say Niger they will be like Kai gaskiya Kuna da nisa da mu
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Anonymous #1 Nov 15, 01:21 PM

okay na
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Anonymous #4 Nov 15, 01:24 PM

but gaskiya fa it's not normal, I'm from Nigeria if I want to get marriage here in Europe I will never expect to meet someone from niger kano or Nigeria in general I should just focus on understanding and the amount of love, the thing is it's all about love for me,if I'm compatible with you then nothing like where are you from, we are all the same thing, just love matter trust me
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Fatima Alfa Nov 15, 02:36 PM
so sorry sister,am also from Niger state and a nupe lady but have never experienced that before gaskiya.dont worry everything is time
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Anonymous #3 Nov 15, 06:57 PM
perhaps you've not met the right one yet. I have a very close friend of mine his wish is to marry a Nupe girl. I've heard a couple of people say nice things about Nupe girls. i don't know if they only say that to my face cos I'm just mentioning to them I'm Nupe too. cos most don't know I'm Nupe unless I say it.
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Anonymous Nov 15, 07:59 PM

well I guess it's your own view, I am just sharing my experience,I have met like three people lately and the out come is all the same that the place is far
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Anonymous #3 Nov 15, 08:02 PM

Oh my bad for concluding you're one. None the less, I believe the right one will present himself @ the right time. You just do you and Let He whose hands all affairs are handle your affairs.
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Anonymous #4 Nov 15, 08:05 PM

it's not just my point of view but it was the fact, {{garin masoyi baya nisa}} if you don't speak hausa ask your hausa friends, they will immediately translate it to you!!
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Anonymous Nov 15, 08:27 PM

well, sorry to say but am not talking about Niger guys, mazan Niger suma suna da nasu to be honest let's State the fact most nupe only marry nupe like them.
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Anonymous #2 Nov 15, 08:48 PM

drop a ur contact in dis mail mmohdmohammed@gmail.com
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Anonymous #4 Nov 15, 08:54 PM

Allah yamiki albarka, wannan gaskiya ne soyayya daya ce
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Anonymous #1 Nov 15, 09:40 PM

Yes, most Nupe people only marry Nupe people although I'm not saying it's the best thing but I feel it is of advantage many atimes because I'm Nupe too and preferably I will opt for a Nupe guy if possible 🤷, you know no matter how hard we try to deny it, you do not want to go into a marriage where one can hardly speak their language, not used to their ways of life, cultures and traditions, and maybe wen they have a particular belief abt ur tribe etc. you will see that you wouldn't be fully accepted but you see with your tribal person there's always this sense of belonging 🤷, ofcourse I'm not saying it's a bad thing but sincerely wats working for an individual may not jst work for another
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Anonymous Nov 15, 09:43 PM

ameen ya Allah
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Anonymous #6 Nov 15, 10:09 PM
so sorry i'm from Niger state too but not Nupe sis Allah zai kawo mana na gari insha Allah
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Anonymous #5 Nov 16, 06:36 AM
maganan gskia shine nesa ne bamason zuwa
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Anonymous Nov 16, 06:58 AM

yauwa magana ta tafito ama kuma su namu basa ganin nisan
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Ahmad Muhammad kamba Nov 16, 07:02 AM

dear someone, arayuwa kowa d nasa raayin. nida ace zanfada miki nawa ra'ayin tohm zakice bani mada imani ammmma kuma karda ki mnta d wani abu shine aure a nesa wahala ne idan mutun baida kuddi
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Abar so Nov 16, 10:48 PM
I'm also from Niger state and I have experience that
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