I am facing Marriage pressure & have tried my best in relationships but they just don't work out

I want to get marry am been pressure,, Will be 26 this year and is not as if I don’t have d intention of I once brought someone which lead to bringing out date, he pay’s dowry, everything even goron saka rana that 2yrs back just of a sudden he said he’s not interested cos we always fight 😭💔 I keep meeting men which i appears desperate to them Buh am not am just been careful,, I give all in my relationship I don’t double date even with d little I earn I make sure I sent money whenever dey need,, buy things and so one Buh still dey don’t stay am tired, am tired of everything.. I always cry I cry I cry a lot I pray I pray harder,, Buh for d fact my parents don’t understand and denied me so many things cos I refuse to bring someone home, my dad even close my shop😭 a times I feel like koma in mutu ne💔 Buh I always remember am a good muslima that hold unto her faith this is my faith Buh am loosing it already am emotionally drained 😪 plss what should I do should I continue doing what my parent stop me from doing for d fact I can’t drag a man to my hus💔 Like school my business and rest he stop me that I will continue my skul and business if only I brought someone home🥺💔

Replies

(9)

Anonymous #1

Apr 11, 12:09 PM

Sarath lawal

Apr 11, 02:30 PM

who told u ana yiwa maza haka don su soki? ai kin bata haraka.

Anonymous #2

Apr 11, 05:19 PM

Dear poster, I'm going through same with u duk da ni nawa gaskiya bata kai naki ba. how I wish our parents will understand komai lokacine no matter how much they push hard sai fa Allah ya yarda. ki kwantar da hankali this shall come to past to and insha Allah you'd get the perfect spouse for ursef, all those men do not deserve you they should go, the right one will come at the right appointed time by Allah. you'd be in my prayers insha Allah

Anonymous

Apr 11, 08:25 PM

Anonymous #2 Apr 11, 05:19 PM

Dear poster, I'm going through same with u duk da ni nawa gaskiya bata kai naki ba. how I wish our parents will understand komai lokacine no matter how much they push hard sai fa Allah ya yarda. ki k[...] Dear poster, I'm going through same with u duk da ni nawa gaskiya bata kai naki ba. how I wish our parents will understand komai lokacine no matter how much they push hard sai fa Allah ya yarda. ki kwantar da hankali this shall come to past to and insha Allah you'd get the perfect spouse for ursef, all those men do not deserve you they should go, the right one will come at the right appointed time by Allah. you'd be in my prayers insha Allah

Best I see thank you very much sis I do appreciate thiss… Jazakilluhu khair Plss do put me in ur prayers may Allah ease all our affairs 🙏🏽😪

Anonymous

Apr 11, 08:25 PM

Anonymous #1 Apr 11, 12:09 PM

if I may advice you, since you tried all you could but things didn't work out, why can't you ask your parents to suggest someone they think is worthy, it's and option too. it's not necessary that you [...] if I may advice you, since you tried all you could but things didn't work out, why can't you ask your parents to suggest someone they think is worthy, it's and option too. it's not necessary that you must be the one to bring in someone.

Thank u dear I will try Inshaallah

Anonymous

Apr 11, 08:26 PM

Sarath lawal Apr 11, 02:30 PM

who told u ana yiwa maza haka don su soki? ai kin bata haraka.

Smiles Inshaallah bazan sake hakan bah..

Anonymous

Apr 11, 08:28 PM

Anonymous #2 Apr 11, 05:19 PM

Dear poster, I'm going through same with u duk da ni nawa gaskiya bata kai naki ba. how I wish our parents will understand komai lokacine no matter how much they push hard sai fa Allah ya yarda. ki k[...] Dear poster, I'm going through same with u duk da ni nawa gaskiya bata kai naki ba. how I wish our parents will understand komai lokacine no matter how much they push hard sai fa Allah ya yarda. ki kwantar da hankali this shall come to past to and insha Allah you'd get the perfect spouse for ursef, all those men do not deserve you they should go, the right one will come at the right appointed time by Allah. you'd be in my prayers insha Allah

Thank you🥰

Hasynoh

Apr 13, 04:03 PM

Anonymous Apr 11, 08:25 PM

Thank u dear I will try Inshaallah

Allah yasa a dace, Allah kuma ya baki miji nagari wanda se rike ki hannu biyu nan duniya har izuwa aljannatul firdaus albarkacin wannan wata mai albarka.

Anonymous

Mar 29, 09:17 PM

Hasynoh Apr 13, 04:03 PM

Allah yasa a dace, Allah kuma ya baki miji nagari wanda se rike ki hannu biyu nan duniya har izuwa aljannatul firdaus albarkacin wannan wata mai albarka.

Ameen ya rabbi Ameen ya hayyu ya qayyum