Nov 15, 03:23 PM

I'm stuck, we met at NYSC camp and i like him

Assalaamu'alaykum my family I'm in a very critical condition right now....i met this guy in camp and we became close friends,we move around in camp and we were always together....but he never asked of my number.....with time I started falling for him cos of the care and attention he gives me...i used an opportunity and got his number but can't even chat him up or call him.he didn't say he likes me but i have falling so deep in love with him.. about 3days ago,he suddenly changed and started giving distance,he even started talking with ladies and even see one off to the hostel...i kept mute about it. I still talk to him normally but i' m keeping my distance with hope that I can forget him soon. We have just 7days to leave the camp and I feel like I am going to loose him forever. I can't even tell him I like him. Pls i need your advice.

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Nov 15, 03:45 PM
my sister find time to talk to him about ur feelings just be open to him
Nov 15, 03:53 PM
Ummi1 Nov 15, 03:45 PM

my sister find time to talk to him about ur feelings just be open to him

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hmmmm I feel he might turn me down and I won't be able to face him
Nov 15, 03:54 PM
Koolthumyy Nov 15, 03:53 PM

hmmmm I feel he might turn me down and I won't be able to face him

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even if he turn you down you will have peace to remove him from ur mind you can start by asking him if he is in a relationship and the type of relationship he is into ,and ask him what do he think about you ,if the conversation is going smoothly you will be able to open up to him
Nov 15, 03:57 PM
Ummi1 Nov 15, 03:54 PM
even if he turn you down you will have peace to remove him from ur mind you can start by asking him if he is in a relationship and the type of relationship he is into ,and ask him what do he think ab[...] even if he turn you down you will have peace to remove him from ur mind you can start by asking him if he is in a relationship and the type of relationship he is into ,and ask him what do he think about you ,if the conversation is going smoothly you will be able to open up to him
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Okay thank you sis I really appreciate
Nov 15, 04:03 PM
Ummi1 Nov 15, 03:45 PM

my sister find time to talk to him about ur feelings just be open to him

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No, i don't think she should do that he can take advantage of her. Men are not emotional like women
Nov 15, 04:04 PM
Ummi1 Nov 15, 03:54 PM
even if he turn you down you will have peace to remove him from ur mind you can start by asking him if he is in a relationship and the type of relationship he is into ,and ask him what do he think ab[...] even if he turn you down you will have peace to remove him from ur mind you can start by asking him if he is in a relationship and the type of relationship he is into ,and ask him what do he think about you ,if the conversation is going smoothly you will be able to open up to him
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Yes, i agree with this point. let her just try to make inquires indirectly but not just opening up
Nov 15, 04:55 PM
Safiyah Ahmad Nov 15, 04:04 PM

Yes, i agree with this point. let her just try to make inquires indirectly but not just opening up

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exactly
Nov 15, 05:37 PM
Dear sis am not saying 21days is too short for one to fall in love. But sometimes wat we want is not wat we need, u have his contact chat him up get to know him better reciprocate d caring n all for if he’s d best for u insha ALLAAH he will see u in d process amen because sometimes we guys look down on girls dat fall so fast n quick some even take advantage of dat… ALLAAH kare
Nov 16, 03:54 AM
Hmmm Hajiya this is not Love it's infatuation... don't talk to him let him be..kema keep ur distance and Bait the hook see if it's bites..
Nov 16, 08:55 AM
Trustee Nov 16, 03:54 AM

Hmmm Hajiya this is not Love it's infatuation... don't talk to him let him be..kema keep ur distance and Bait the hook see if it's bites..

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hmmm okay thank you
Nov 16, 09:12 PM
what we ladies/women don't understand akan Maza shine, idan suna sanki zasu gaya miki ba bata lokaci. Idan sunyi shiru kuma mutunchi kukeyi. kiyi hakuri, kici gaba da addua.
Nov 16, 10:35 PM
Yasmeen Nov 16, 09:12 PM

what we ladies/women don't understand akan Maza shine, idan suna sanki zasu gaya miki ba bata lokaci. Idan sunyi shiru kuma mutunchi kukeyi. kiyi hakuri, kici gaba da addua.

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sorry sis I don't understand hausa
Nov 20, 05:34 AM
Haka zaki hakura....find sth that will occupied ur mind
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