Anonymous
May 12, 11:41 PM
Need an advice
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Actually i dont know where to start, but i need to give an insight, am a kind of lady who dont fall in love easily and actually dont believe in social media relationship. Their is this guy that i met on one of d sm/platform, we met at that time he was about to wed, he told me abt d marriage and i congratulate him sincerely, so after d wedding we were not in touch, actually i forgot abt him, a year later i got his message, kin manta ni so, so and so, and i said kayi hakuri, kai da ango ne, u dont need to borther about us, yace nooo am his dear frend, unfortunately d marriage did not work out, he gist me about what happened nace Allah kyauta, allah sa ba kaine da laifi ba, bcoz u men will creat problem sai ku dora ma mata, yace ba haka bane, i wont understand. Fast forward d relationship now about 4yrs kenan, we became close , chat, calls, video calls, we advice each other, in good and bad moment, but we have never met physically all this while. Just of recent d closeness was much and i realized am developing feelings for him, and i dont know to go about it and since we were free with each other i told him about my feelings!... The problem here is that after saying it he began to withdraw, less of chat and calls, and when i tried knowing our stand, bcoz i demanded to move d relationship further, but for long i know he kept saying shi yana tsoron halin mata saboda what he went through in his first marriage, i tried to encourage him... But yanzu house i dont know what to do, bcoz in his words.... He said ki bari bayan azumi sai mu san yanda zamuyi, without him clearifying anything to me whats his own feelings. Shine nake son house to help me see, shld i withdraw form this uncertainty or keep faith may b it will work out, pls help a sister
