Decision between 2 potential spouses, pls i need good advice
Anonymous May 12, 04:39 PM

Decision between 2 potential spouses, pls i need good advice 1

Let me start from the beggining, i met this Men(1)at the Airport in Nigeria (December 2021) when i was coming for Holidays, my mum comnected me to him b4 i came to Nigeria so he would pick me up (it was these covid time) so he picked me up did everything at the airport for me. Everytime I visit that airport I would call me he would do everything for me. As time Flys by it was time for me to go back and leave Nigeria. So I was at the Airport met him he does everything for me. he asked my cousin if I was married bcoz he never saw a Hausa Lady that nice as me even though I never lived in Nigeria was born and grown up abroad. that's there the story began. Ina dawo wa ya fara yi min text. she changed the story and asked me many questions about my life that his friend wants to marry me, no relationship just marriage and very fast. he is a very nice and religious person only bcoz of his Faith I have that much feelings for him. he has 2 wives and has 10 children. and is even though not that old only 40yrs. the problem is financial,I don't think he can marry somebody like me, I never had financial problems in my life, my father was a very popular Journalist worldwide and my life is just different. I never had a bf who sent me small money 10k or 20k so it was very difficult bcoz he tells me I have to change my life when I will marry him, he can't afford my expensive life. he promised to pay me 2 times a year going abroad & umrah. money is a very big issue for him, I never had those problems.i think he will change when we get married. pls I need advice for that. okay then I met 2022 January in my auntys house a very popular political rich person, I never heard about him bcoz I don't live in Nigeria. he wanted my abroad number I have gave him then he gave me like 1k$ na sallama first day I saw him. my aunty told him everything about my family and my life then he was so into me. after 2 weeks he searched for my nigerian number called me and asked me where am I, I told him kano he said he will come tomorrow to my house. the next day he came with his friend, I did different types of food and teas. and even gave them some gifts. they stayed for 2 hrs that's where our relationship starts money is never a problem for him. he is like 25years older as me but he is so nice and he did so much for me. I think I should just marry him. he will come in June then we will discuss and get married very fast. pls I need advice
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Najaatu Tijjani May 12, 04:56 PM
to me go for d second person oo
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Mustapha Ali May 12, 04:57 PM
Well you should marry the second one i think he's single and young rich man and he can afford everything that you want Allah yazaba miki mafi alkairi, wanda zai iya dauke duk wani nauyinki
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Anonymous #1 May 12, 05:14 PM
Do istikharaa sis
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El Tee May 12, 05:35 PM
you should consider the man who can keep up with your kind of living. we shouldn't lie to ourselves. Auren someone in your cadre is very important
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Anonymous May 12, 05:41 PM

i did
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Anonymous #1 May 12, 05:59 PM

Advisibly go for the one can cater for your needs
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Anonymous May 12, 06:17 PM
Anonymous #1 May 12, 06:21 PM

Allah ya sanya alkhair sai munzo cin rice and chicken during the wedding💃💃💃
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Mustapha Ali May 12, 07:16 PM

Okay sorry i didn't understand i thought you said he's 25 yrs old as you, well they both married and kids, Keep praying ubangiji yazaba miki mafi alkairi agareki, but for me you should go for the second one. 🙂
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Meenah2 May 12, 09:02 PM
Allah ya zaba maki mafi alkairin cikinsu
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MuhammadS May 12, 10:00 PM
personally, I think the first man will take care of you better but I would never advice you to marry below your status. anyways, it seems like you've already made up your mind to me...
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Anonymous May 12, 11:27 PM

ameen nagode
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Mashkur wali May 13, 02:11 AM
just go for the second guy,Cox a yacce kk fada gsky saiyafie dauke bukatunki unlike the other man,toh nidai burina in biki yazo du allah a kiramu muci shinkaha da labat da dajjajatul tushki😂,May Allah choose the best for you,Amin. snn du Allah in ansamu wata yar baturiya ann kasar da kk,me dan kwari haka ki maza maza ki hadani da itah,kawai tayi wuff Dani,ta kawo kudina da lefen ma na yafe 😂 basai tayi bah.
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Alhaji Hamza May 13, 09:11 AM
Kiyita Istikhara not just once or twice, sannan ki shawarci manya masu hankali. Yawwa mu kuma a gayyacemu biki pls, I'll do the printings and photography coverage that's my biz🤗 Arewaup no remove my comment ooo ba talla nayi ba😂🏃🏻‍♂️ Allah Ya zaba mafi alkairi
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