Hello guys...so I don't actually know what's wrong with me...but I know deep down nothing is actually wrong with me . it's just my desires and needs..and no matter how hard I try even to get the little things that don't even matter to some people..I don't get it...and it hurts and l even cry.. because I actually envy people that are very rich,dey have the latest phones,dey go to outside country, and do what ever dey want
and is not like am not contented with what I have I am ,I love my family,I won't say I have friends because dey don't want my progress dey always say I don't stay in where God keep me..lol and it's not like am going anywhere o ..dey are even better than me in so many ways but dey keep saying such things to me....and am contented with what I have but atimes I just don't want me or anyone to suffer too much before you get what you want when at last you won't even get I want to get the little things that matter to me ...like I want to be a source of my happiness and people's happiness especially When it have to do with money and I don't have it 😔
So please I don't know what to do?
I need your help,advise and suggestions 🙏
It's okay to want things and look at what others have, but you need to find a balance. Think about what really makes you happy, set goals that make sense, and plan your money wisely. Get help and support from people who are like you, be thankful for what you have, and try not to spend too much time on social media if it makes you feel bad. In the end, being happy is about finding the right mix between going after your dreams and enjoying what you have right now.
Also seek for Allah’s guidance, be patient and trust in Allah’s plan for your life.
I second what he said and you need to work more to get what u want, Don't focus on others but just yourself, and forget about the people who are above you and look at the ones below you. We all want a better life we have to work for it and be grateful with what u have.
And mind you if u are content with what u have, u don't have to complain just keep praying.
Beware of fame, its not as attractive as it may look.
One of the reasons we are depressed today is that social platforms make us compare our lives with others instead of appreciating who we are.
focus on yourself not others
and stay away from social media it full of fake life and fake people
Borrow iPhone to snap, went to people to get a good background, and went to Shoprite to snap without buying anything, The fake life is much.wlh
we know them and we live with them, this life is very simple is just depends how you take it.
living fake life isn't leading anywhere but setback to you
you're not contented!!
if u are..u won't be here typing rubbish.
if you are...none of this worldly things will get to you.
you don't know what to do???
you go to school while thousands don't.
u have a family while thousands don't.
look at those below u and not above u
aboki kadauki hakuri ka rike kowa da yadda Allah yatsara masa kaddararsa bafa kowane zaiyi kudi ba amma wlh i swear idan kasawa kanka wadatar zuciya ka tsaya iya matsayinka sai kafi masu kudin jin dadi domin ba kudi bane kwanciyar hankali
kai dai kayi riko da sababi karka zauna bbu sana,a maybe kudin ba alheri bane a gareka
you are not the needy you get data
just learn to be contented all this things no go matter Anty! bakiga godiyar Allah
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