Social media creates unrealistic expectations when it comes to courtship and ma.

It's important to have a clear picture of the type of person you wish to spend the rest of your life with but at the same time i feel social media has created unrealistic expectations with regards to that. Why? 1. It creates unrealistic expectation when you Constantly Seeing "Perfect couples" Online Makes You compare your Marriage or partner to be To Stages Moments, most people want a romantic partner but you have to realize that your partner Is a Human not a content creator. 2. It Amplifies small Problems A Minor Disagreement suddenly feels Huge when You Read Posts About " Red flags" Or "Deal Breakers. When you ask questions on social media, majority will ask you to leave and only few will try to view it from a neutral lens and give you solutions for it tk work out. Not Every Issue Is Toxic, it Could Be Just Normal Relationship Struggle. 3. It Distracts you from gratitude and you start noticing what your partner lacks instead of appreciating the good things they have. Don't settle is a phrase the whites created to betray people. There are no 10/10 out there. 4. 4.It Feeds Dissactifaction.. The Perfect Vacation, Perfect Gifts, perfect body and Perfect Gestures Online Can Make Your partners Efforts seem Small. 5. . It Makes You Emotionally Check Out Scrolling Becomes Easier Than Talking, Comparing Becomes Easier than understanding. You don't sit to talk about things as two adults. You'll rather run to social media to seek validation. Everyone will love to have a loving partner but when social media starts to define your expectations it becomes dangerous.