being single at 21
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Anonymous Jan 24, 05:04 PM

being single at 21 4

Am single, in the sense that i don't have a boyfriend, and i am 21 kuma ina son aure, gashi na kusa gama makaranta. Am feeling guilty for san aure
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Ayesha audu Jan 25, 11:55 AM
there is nothing wrong in being single at 21, I am older than 21 and still single because I have things I want to achieve and that's my main priority not marriage. but why do you want to get married sharp sharp haka?
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Anonymous Jan 25, 12:34 PM

Well 1) am not living with mom but my step mom and 2) i think marriage will give me freedom 3)community pressure, an ishe mu a unguwa that we are of age and baban mu yaqi mana aure, ga sharri kala kala da ake mana na bin maza
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Ayesha audu Jan 25, 02:02 PM

i understand but please don't let that pressure push you into a rushed marriage because you will end up regretting. you need to learn ignoring what people think or say about you because yanzu most of those people in unguwa are not gonna help you find a husband or even contribute anything to make your wedding happen. dama abinda suke jira kenan they always want to see someone down, even if kinyi auren they will find something to mock you about. Jahilai ne kawai. so plan your life according to your own preference not on the opinion of ignorant people
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Abdourl Feb 7, 05:52 AM
How sure are you that getting married will solve your problem? Even though I don't know how terrible the situation it's to you ammah never let your thoughts takes you to the great regrets, kuma a wannan duniyar namu na yau you must be ignoring what other people saying about you because even you get married you may come across such issues. Remember worrying never solve a problem, just pray, do istikhara, be patience and wait for your time. Allah yai mana maganin damuwar mu.
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