He just started to ignore me all of a sudden

Evening guys.... please I need an advice on this..... will be 33 this month and I don't even have a boyfriend let more of a fiance. so my dad decides to pair me up with a cousin of mine.We don't even know each other but I have heard lot about him from my elder sister.... he do call time to time and after the first three meetings he stopped calling and even if I called him he won't pick and won't call me back. have been worried gaskiya Dan I have started thinking ko banyi mai bane or maybe something is wrong with me. we even met at a family gathering and he didn't utter a word to me. he followed us to the car when we were about leaving he chatting with my elder sister and younger ones it's just as if am invincible.... don't know what to do. should I let my family know about it? cuz they really want it to work.

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Anonymous #1

Jul 3, 08:28 PM

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Jul 3, 09:31 PM

Terjay Jul 3, 08:28 PM

Don't give up yet, even because of your family. Try to find a way to message him or talk to him again. Think of something he loves doing and other things you think his attention he will be back to you[...] Don't give up yet, even because of your family. Try to find a way to message him or talk to him again. Think of something he loves doing and other things you think his attention he will be back to you. tomorrow is Friday send him Friday message

In Sha Allah I will try to send him a message... thanks. I really appreciate

Anonymous #2

Jul 4, 05:08 AM

tabdi pls sister this is a sisterly advice and nothing although I saw someone telling you to not give up and call him again it's not bad do that and see his reaction but please please pleas kar ki bari wani ya wulaqanta ki dan an ce za'a hada ku if it's not working speak out to your parents and gather your evidence pls sister DONT KEEP QUIET DON'T IGNORE RED FLAG just to please your parents wallahi marriage is a life time decision idan kika yi mistake zakiyi regretting sosai wlh pls be very careful who you choose to be the father of your children. and finally pray as hard as possible do istikhara Allah ya baki sa'a ya bayyana miki gaskiya ya kuma baki miji na gari

Anonymous

Jul 4, 06:09 AM

Hajjon daddy Jul 4, 05:08 AM

tabdi pls sister this is a sisterly advice and nothing although I saw someone telling you to not give up and call him again it's not bad do that and see his reaction but please please pleas kar ki bar[...] tabdi pls sister this is a sisterly advice and nothing although I saw someone telling you to not give up and call him again it's not bad do that and see his reaction but please please pleas kar ki bari wani ya wulaqanta ki dan an ce za'a hada ku if it's not working speak out to your parents and gather your evidence pls sister DONT KEEP QUIET DON'T IGNORE RED FLAG just to please your parents wallahi marriage is a life time decision idan kika yi mistake zakiyi regretting sosai wlh pls be very careful who you choose to be the father of your children. and finally pray as hard as possible do istikhara Allah ya baki sa'a ya bayyana miki gaskiya ya kuma baki miji na gari

Amin Ya Rabbi.... nagode sosai. I really appreciate

Anonymous #3

Jul 5, 07:46 PM

My dear sister this might be coming a bit too late but I will advise you not to chase after him anymore. you see one thing we humans find so difficult in accepting is the fact that whatever Allah has destined for us will never pass us by no matter how long it takes. you have done your part by reaching out to him first but not anymore pls because you might end up pushing him further away or he might even perceive you as being desperate. Let him realize your worth if he's really interested or you let him go so that Allah can unite you with the one truly meant for you... it's all jst a matter of time, everything will be fine InshaAllah. Allah sees, hears and knows of your struggles and patience and HE will soon reward you with goodness...

Anonymous

Jul 6, 06:07 AM

Mateepha Jul 5, 07:46 PM

My dear sister this might be coming a bit too late but I will advise you not to chase after him anymore. you see one thing we humans find so difficult in accepting is the fact that whatever Allah has [...] My dear sister this might be coming a bit too late but I will advise you not to chase after him anymore. you see one thing we humans find so difficult in accepting is the fact that whatever Allah has destined for us will never pass us by no matter how long it takes. you have done your part by reaching out to him first but not anymore pls because you might end up pushing him further away or he might even perceive you as being desperate. Let him realize your worth if he's really interested or you let him go so that Allah can unite you with the one truly meant for you... it's all jst a matter of time, everything will be fine InshaAllah. Allah sees, hears and knows of your struggles and patience and HE will soon reward you with goodness...

In Sha Allah.... thank you so much. I really appreciate

He just started to ignore me all of a sudden

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