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Anonymous Jul 13, 07:21 PM

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Please Help me yanzu na fara makaranta university in another State, senake zama gidan uncle dina he is always travelling from one country to another, nida matarsa da yayansa muke kwana a gida daya, wallahi duk sanda na ganta senaji wani iri, i am falling in love with her by day, batason yawan magana ko part dinta na shiga badadewa zata tashi, sometimes har labewa nakeyi in ganta ta taga inji muryarta, narasa yanda zanyi indena, duk yanda nake Avoiding dinta inna ganta se abun yadawo sabo, gashi i have no where to stay bayan gidansu, Dan Allah advise me banda zagi nikadai nasan menakeji wlh.
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Rabi suleiman Jul 13, 11:06 PM
babbar magana ce wannan to be in love with your aunt, what i think you should do is to assess yourself gaskiya and know where that feeling is coming from. if you have it because you naturally want a woman then maybe try having a girl friend in school to feel that void. ko kuma idan kayi trying all methods and no avail just rent somewhere or stay in the school hostel.
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Musa Jul 14, 09:30 AM
Ikon Allah. The first step is to pack out of the house and stay away. Tell your uncle that you want to go back to hostel because you are missing alot, example, reading at night, materials in the library and group discussions and that you will be visiting from time to time.(only when he is in town). My question to you now, is it love or lust you feel for her? Whatever the feeling is, take it off your mind because it will spell nothing but disaster for you and your family. You just started school, please concentrate on your books or you will forever regret it.
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Halieyliey Jul 14, 03:19 PM
What if bayida kudin renting apartment?? Bawan Allah kaji tsoron Allah first of all...let your uncle be aware that you want to move to the hostel in a polite manner... Koh da baka da space bazaka rasa wurin squatting ba...Dont bother about feeding n upkeep..In shaa Allah you'll find a means of catering for yourself Reason being" wa man yattaqillah yaj'allahu makhraja"..whoever fears Allah, then surely Allah will make a way out for him Allah added " wa yarzuquhu min haithu la yahtasibu" And we'll provide for you from unexpected means So for that i indulge you to fear Allah and move out of the house...its the best for now..May Allah grant you victory over shaidan, kuma Allah ya baka ikon fir karfin zuciyarka
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MARYAM MANSUR Jul 14, 04:13 PM
My advice to u is kaji tsoron Allah kasan wannan turbar daka kama turbar shedance Wanda bakomai Cikinta sai danasani and finally pack ur things n leave dat house even if it means u staying in d hostel or another apartment and tym u hv such devilish thoughts remember Allah n put ur self in d shoes of ur Uncle n imagine how u will feel if u discover ur nephew is after ur wife. Above all remember akwai mutuwa kuma akwai hisabi, so kaji tsoron Allah.
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Hindat Jul 14, 05:25 PM
First of all shine kaji tsoron Allah kakuma ji tsoron azabansa kasani matar aurece kuma ta haramta gareka matukar tanada aure akanta. Shawarata shine kayawaita addu'a domin ita addu'a makamin muminine, sannan kaguji kebewa da ita duk wata hanya dakasan zatakai ka ga sabama Allah kagujeshi...sannan Abu nakarshe kayi kokari kafita a gidan find another place koda hostel ne or wajen friends dinka yafiyemaka kwanciyan hankali dakazauna shaidan yayi galaba akanka. Allah yatsare mana imanin mu baki daya..Ameen
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Faisal Jul 14, 05:58 PM
it is better you move to the school hostel or rent because from what i read it seems like you are beginning to loose control of the situation and that is where the problem lies. Save yourself from any abun kunya that may happen if you continue like this. idan kuma zaka yi tunani ka cire ta a zuciyar ka because abun is wrong gaskiya then you can move on with your stay in the house, it depends on which one is easier for you. Leave or change.
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Amijaf Jul 14, 07:09 PM
Tabbas kana cikin jarabawa. N my advice to u is wen ever u see her n kaji irin feelings dinan just keep saying "A'UZUZU BILLAHIHI MINASH SHAITANU RAJEEM."kobaka gantaba koda abin yazo maka mind ne kip saying it countless. InshaAllah Allah ze tsareka da imanin ka. N kip in mind dat she's prohibited to you. Allah ya tsare mu baki daya
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Sa'ada Jul 14, 07:42 PM
Gsky ka nemi hostel edan babu try and get a room offk if you can't afford it kuma I'm sure you can afford a girlfriend so get a girlfriend for yourself and duk sanda kaji feelings din kayita karanta a'uzubi kalimatullahi tamat min sharri makalaq da istighfar In Shaa ALLAH you'll be better
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