I have high libido (sex drive). please how can I reduce it that's will not effect me negative.
because I don't have plans to marry soon.
I want some medicine that I will be using. to reduce it for me.
at same time I want the libido to come back after I married
The best thing is to get married if you have the means, you know virtually all drugs have sideffect, don't do something that you will regret in the future. Since you don't have plans to marry then if you are Muslim, do what prophet Muhammad SAW said "you should fast".
okay thank you
am a female and am also battling with that to the extent that I resulted into masturbation. am not married but each I I promised myself not to go back to it I always find a way to. I just pray to get someone who is ready to settle down if not....... It's just getting higher and higher each day
pray and fast as much as you cus if you continue with the temporary solution you got yourself believe me marriage alone will not solve it.
am trying but it's not helping. and I don't even have a boyfriend let more of someone to marry
of course marriage will solve it, I believe if you have the satisfaction of what you want. it will reduce it all the time.
you need to things to work things out. one solution isn't enough.
pray and action.
if you can involve pray and action definitely you will see the result you are looking for.
I dis agreed with you when you say marriage can't not solve it
Allah ya sa muda chi
isn't only you I do masturbation not always.
obviously for me if I am financially stable I will marry. I am not that financial that I will keep wife. if not I will look for girl to marry
May Allah make it easy for us.
ameen
believe me you're underestimating addiction then if you say it'll
Nah I don't agree with that. firstly you have to believe it'll and as for boyfriend or someone to marry it'll come with time Insha Allah.
But Marriage is really a solution, it can help those who really want to stop.
In Sha Allah. Thanks
you're welcome
do have an idea the number of people that still masturbate even after marriage?
Believe once you're addicted marriage alone will not be enough.
thats why i said, for those that really want to stop. Marriage can make them achieve it
unless someone did not put his best to end it.
Marriage has also prevented many from doing it.
So its both prevention & cure
yeah I get your point but what I'm actually trying to make you understand is that marriage is a long shot towards tackling the addiction hence it's better one starts trying before then to make it easier.
How old are you? & since when did it start?
Not only you fa, a lot of people are like that. But how busy do you keep yourself?
yes of course I'm sure marriage is a solution to that.
I also have high libido and I find it very hard to comfort myself and I don’t want to masturbate I’m just 19🤧
ayyah can we talk to see if we have some thing in common
hmmmm, what is that suppose to mean?
to see if we have something in common that will lead us to marry eachother in feature
How sure are you its a girl?
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