salam alaikum
I'm in my late 20's and I've never been in a relationship with anyone before, not even during my school days. I go out with friends and they get all the attention they need but when it comes to me no guy ever looks my way. AlhamdulilLah I'm beautiful no doubt and well educated. My family are beginning to mock me for this. I've been asking myself a lot of questions with no answers in return and i sometimes get emotional when I think of it. But is this something i should be bothered about? Are there other ladies out there of my age that are facing the same problem or is it just me?
Amin wa alaykum assalam
my sister suitors marriage and relationship everyone have his/her time , u r never late nor early. do not frustrate yourself because of the society, you can get married now in a hurry to the wrong person, may be regret in the future or get divorced! my advise stop comparing yourself with anyone. if u r in school concentrate on your studies if not think about the kind of business u r interested in focus on that. I promise you a time will come that u will have to choose who u want. and continue to pray the best is yet to come. I wish u all the best. life is not all about marriage when the time comes they will line up. don't be in a hurry take life as it comes.
it depends, as for me, if i show a lady attention or woo her its mostly on her attitude, though this is just my preference, I like ladies who a bit friendly, e.g there is a lady i knew in the last 4 months and she use to talk to me when she sees me, even before we started talking and becoming friends and that was one of the reasons we got close and are cool, but if you are the type that frowns your face or don't show any friendliness then I may not even talk or engage with you in anyway. Tha's just me, i'm not saying you should be open and friendly with men everywhere but just put it into context
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be careful just contacting anyone that shows up in this way, BE CAREFUL and i don't advice you message anyone
self-love is the must important thing sister plz just keep on praying for the best
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bro don't take advantage of her loneliness plz. it's an advice plz
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did she ask you?
Try the matchmaking section, in sha Allah things would turn good
Thank you 😊
Insha Allah
Thank you 😊
ki hada da shayi🤣🤣 ni wlh b wadda za tyi breaking heart di na
Yours will come InShaa Allah.
I believe so
Thank you
naaaa I think I'll pass 😅
You’re welcome, just make duas always, be friendly and don’t go and fall for nonsense ooo 😂😂😂😂😂
Allah sarki take heart everyone has there own time In Sha Allah we will overcome everything Allah ya zaba ma kowa abunda yafi alkhairi
Amin
Eyyah sorry sister, believe me ur time will come soon
is better to marry late than marry wrong. some at your age are divorced already with children. so keep your cool, stay calm and wait for the Almighty’s appointed time for u. May Allah bless us all with pious spouses who will b the coolness of our eyes.
wa'alaikum salam
the patient dog eats the fattest bone. trust me when it's time the rightful man will step into your life.
just because you aren't engage in any of the day to day relationship which i see as boy & girl relationship doesn't mean you're different or something is wrong. everything happens for a reason, and am sure something real and better will happen soon. it's better to stay single for the time being than to fall in the wrong hand. just pray for the best which would show at the right time.
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