Depressed
Anonymous May 12, 10:07 AM

Depressed 1

Assalamualaikum brothers and sisters in this forum. Many ladies out their are fighting depression and some kind of addiction bcs of u. Am a chubby sister of 22yrs,I HV never been in a relationship lyk what is really called a relationship,the few men I HV met only want to HV Haram relationship (subhanallah).Uptil today I DNT knw what luv is(d relationship btw a opposite gender) bcs I HV never experienced it.That was d reason I joined d platform bt to me most of d men I met where not helping.And to me I think d main problem is my body size bcs even outside so many pple body shamed me.Even in d circle of my frnds they always bring d topic that am fat or sumtyn it's always bothers me very well.i HV tried so many sliming product always on diet bt am still d way I am.Even at home d same languages will b used.There was a tym I was dancing during my sister's wedding and on of my sister's was saying 'jiwan nan pattan' lyk it's rilly got to me bcs there pple around nd slowly I start slipping to depression.Bcs when ever a topic is been said or discuss abt body size only d slim ones get d credit lyk I didn't create myself but pple DNT c that if they c someone chubby they just concluded that u eat too much or something like that.my frnds think they r d most beautiful bcs they HV a moderate body size they are even d ones recommending sliming product for me.y I HV lost my self esteem.i DNT always feel comfortable around pple bcs I feel they will b looking at me or talking about me.There was a guy I once met nd he was lyk he lyks d body size d hips nd all bt I will have to do something abt my tummy that was d last day I chatted with him.And that got me thinking r they men that lyk chubby ladies??
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Aiesher sadiqq May 12, 04:31 PM
Yes, there are guys that like chubby ladies, but basu da yawa sosai. Maybe try a little harder on your diet and eating pattern to help reduce the weight but if being chubby is in your creation, please embrace it and pray about it. the right man would come Insha Allah.
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Anonymous #1 May 13, 01:02 AM
My dear worry not...ur Mr right will come to u sooner or later, just keep praying and have faith in Allah he is planning something better for u. Don't loose ur self esteem and stop shaming yourself. Am telling u my case is just exactly like urs just that u are older than me, and I just learned to be myself no matter what and I believe my right one will surely come even if he will fall from d sky. So alhmdllh ala kulli haal. ماشالله ما كان و ما لم يشٱ لم يكن. What Allah wills happen and what HE doesn't will to happen will never. And after all we chubby girls have pious and good hearts☺😉 yet we have d most amazing smile, always making people around us happy huh?
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Rabi suleiman May 15, 11:00 PM
Most men don't like chubby ladies, if you are slightly chubby its okay, but really chubby ladies are not preferred by most men. but not all men. so there is still a huge chance for you to find someone that'll like you the way you are.
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Karim May 21, 08:38 AM
As you stated, you haven't known any man intimately and this means that you have preserved your chastity and you have done this out of the fear of Allaah(SW). .....And whoever fears Allah - He will make for him a way out. Sura At-Talaq Vs 2 Also continue to keep the company of righteous friends as that will make it easier for you be steadfast upon ihsaan Bi-IzniLlaah. Peer group is a major influencer in life and that's why Allaah has enjoyed us to keep the company of the righteous. May Allaah grant you a loving and pious husband and grant you both joy fii dunya Wal akhirah.
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