After a long term dating, he betrayed me and i'm pregnant
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Anonymous Mar 21, 03:52 AM

After a long term dating, he betrayed me and i'm pregnant 1

Salamualaikum, I dated a guy for like 10 years and we spend almost 9 years without anything happing between us, till just of resent last we had sex, and after 3 days he called me and told me he is sending his people to another girls house, I was so heartbroken but since then I stopped talking to him, after a month I realized that I am pregnant, I told him about it but he asks me to abort it... D truth is that I can't and I don't know what to do. please I need advice and don't judge me.😩😩😩
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Anonymous #1 Mar 21, 05:49 AM
hmmmm... kai jama'a....wahala don wear bone straight.......ahhh.....so ppl are dating for 10years....inye...Time dat others take to achieve MBBS degree in Nigeria, ppl de use am date...wic kind wahala b dis....sister Allah ya shiryeki ya shuryamu....both of u have already made mistake,so just keep praying nd repent to Allah...wuna try sha
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Anonymous #2 Mar 21, 05:53 AM
shawara itace tunda har kukai 10yh together definitely ur family knows each other...ki gaya masa ko Ya aureki ko kije gidan su ki gaya musu u pregnant with their Grand kid..
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Anonymous #5 Mar 21, 07:41 AM

ds one say na MBBS degree 😂 I shouldn't b laughing in a critical condition like ds sha Allah ya kawo mafuta
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Anonymous #6 Mar 21, 08:05 AM
Dear poster how can we chat privately ?
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MuhammadS Mar 21, 08:06 AM
I don't like the idea behind abortion o
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S B SALISIYA Mar 21, 11:27 AM
10yrs in relationship to ko zaman aure ne soyayyar ta kare saidai kudawo hkri Kuma kince since last 9 year ba abunda ya faru.hhhhh kodan shafe shafennan??
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Anonymous #3 Mar 21, 12:52 PM
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and you are quick to give out your whatsapp Number in a public forum
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Anonymous #3 Mar 21, 12:58 PM
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Anyone that has an advice for you should share it here, i don't see the point in chatting privately, it can lead to something anyway. You can abort the baby, ki rufa ma kanki asiri and repent kawai, the backlash and aftermath of keeping the baby can severely affect you. 1 month is okay to abort pregnancy's.
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Yau Umar Mar 21, 02:05 PM
There are a lot of issues that can arise. To be honest, I believe the easiest is to abort. Use the coming month of Ramadan to seek for Allahs SWT forgiveness.
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Anonymous #4 Mar 21, 04:52 PM
well for so long he is enjoying your company and at last he enjoyed your body and now you want us to crack our brains to give you a viable advice.... while he is there comfortably enjoying another woman... if you can't punish him why punishing us... Islamically abortion is Haram except for necessary situation. you should concentrate more on the gravity of your sins not on commiting another one. Allah ya Baki mafita.
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Nasssss9 Mar 21, 06:41 PM
The worst mistake any lady will do in this life is giving in to a guy, last last any guy that have sex with you will hardly marry you, how will you enjoy the marriage sef when you already knw wat to expect??
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Tijjani Muhammad Mar 21, 07:13 PM
hmm Allah ya kiyaye na gaba
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Habeebarty Mar 21, 07:13 PM

ae kuwa dae soyayyar ta kare ae xaman hakuri Allah ya xaba mana abin da yafi xama alkhairi
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Aysheer ummy Mar 22, 09:30 PM
Allah ya kyauta
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S B SALISIYA Mar 27, 04:21 AM

amin shekara goma yaron shago ma dole free za masa. nifa ko gud 5 month bantaba yi Ina dating ba zanji abun ya dameni
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