How do you handle being with a clingy partner ?
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Anonymous Jun 4, 09:35 PM

How do you handle being with a clingy partner ? 0

It's normal as a human being that you will like to have your own personal time and all . But having a clingy partner can be challenging most especially if you are the busy type. Sometimes you come back home stressed and tired from work , all you want to do is to sit and unwind not to start having endless phone call. This is a lady you love with all your heart but the problem is she loves you twice or thrice as much and wants to be talking to you all the time . I've communicated with her about it and I've tried to let her know that I need my own personal time sometimes,or some time Im just not in the mood to talk,but she will never accept such 😟 In what way do you think we can reach a compromise?
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Muhammad Musa Muhammad Jun 4, 10:59 PM
🤣🤣 thank God she loves u madly bro..
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Anonymous #3 Jun 4, 11:22 PM
I feel like you've stolen and posted my story without my permission 😂. abunda nake fama dashi kenan nima
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Anonymous #1 Jun 5, 07:52 AM
shiyasa akace mata su rinqa auren Wanda yake son su thrice fiye da yanda suke San shi
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Anonymous #4 Jun 5, 08:07 AM
Ikon Allah ni kuma complain da partner na yke min bana bashi time😂😂
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Anonymous Jun 5, 09:59 AM

Wetin bring this one come here ? If you can't give advice it's not by force to comment . Thank you
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Zee Abdul Jun 5, 10:02 AM
This type of behavior is common among women, women are naturally more emotional than Men, so they are more likely to make emotional decisions that make them somewhat impulsive. The best thing is to really tell her because i don't know which other way you can address this other than have a dedicated conversation with her and make it obvious you as a Man just does not operate in that way.
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Anonymous #2 Jun 5, 12:02 PM
I'm also a very clingy person and I don't think it a bad thing ... just try to give her attention since you know the kind of person she is and keep talking to her am sure she would learn to balance it
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Anonymous #3 Jun 5, 02:31 PM

it's rare. mata sunfi maza emotions remember?
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Anonymous #1 Jun 5, 03:12 PM

yeah hakane koh ya fi ta love din eventually zata zo ta fi shi
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Anonymous #5 Jun 5, 03:46 PM

matan kenan ai hankalin wani lokacin sai godiya 😂
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Hasynoh Jun 5, 09:19 PM

a'a kan. na mijin zeci kashinsa kuwa a hanunta😂😂
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Anonymous #6 Jun 5, 11:38 PM
If quality time is her love language you have to tolerate her because she can't change easily. I am also clingy but to someone that I love my phone is always on silents but I don't usually miss his calls. You see if there is no that love she will ignore you and will not disturb you so try and tolerate her and give her time it means a lot to us clingy's 🤣🤣
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Anonymous #7 Jun 28, 11:56 PM
I also faced the same problem. I love her but she always complains that I'm not caring enough. If for any reason I go a whole day without calling or texting, all hell would be let loose to the extent that bazan gane kanta ba for about 2 days. Especially idan ban fada mata dalili ba. Aiki na akwai stress sosai kuma ni ba me yawan magana bane. I had to adjust a lot mu dinga yin magana ko chatting kullum fa but after much thought I left her alone cos I felt idan na aure ta bazan samu peace of mind ba most of the time kuma zata dinga challenging dina saboda tana da ilimin boko sosai. Ba abun da na tsana kamar a takura min. Funny enough, na rabu da wata kafun ita cos na gane cewa ba sona takeyi ba. Its obvious from the way she treats me. Sai kuma na hadu da complete opposite har da extra toppings. Very caring but too clingy and desperate. Ni har na gaji ma. Allah ga ni gareKa.
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Anonymous #7 Jun 29, 12:13 AM
For those types, no other compromise since you've communicated with her. Either you avail yourself and accept to become their chewing gum or teddy bear or you bring in someone else so your time will be split among them. Furthermore, school or work could keep her occupied and the table may even turn such that she'll be the one wanting her own time and space.
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Nana002 Sep 12, 01:51 AM
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