Anonymous
Oct 13, 09:59 PM
I broke up with my boyfriend months back and he wants to reconcile but i cant
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the story might be lengthy but I really need your advice and views
This is a man whom I trusted and loved for the sake of Allah, I respected him and always prayed for him, i gift him even though he never gives me a dime, he sometimes borrow money from me but never for once refunded a penny, Until he borrowed a sum of 120k+ from me which my school fees is included cause i was given the money two months earlier before registration commences, this man shows no mercy at all, I managed and settled my school fees and he promised to pay back as soon as possible, he gave me excuses always, this are some of the red flags i see, so, i told him that I cant continue with him with this habit and drewback from him, he called me and said that he wants to settle things between us that I should come over to their house and discuss things, all i told him was i am not coming if you really needed to come meet me at my fathers house, the next day he met me at school and asked me if I am ready to have the conversation, I said ok but still said that the conversation will be better at their house, and i know that he's alone his family are out of town, I reject him and went back home cause I was terrified, that night i ended everything between us, he just started to rain insult on me including my parents, he called me karuwa (prostitute)and so on and that's the end.
He now comes back seeking for forgiveness that all the insults and accusations he did is bacause of anger, I should forgive him and even promised to pay back what i borrowed him saying that he knows he will never find someone better than me,
I can forgive everything he did to me but calling me a prostitute is something I can never forgive, because I really respect myself and try my best to safeguard my chastity even though I am currently in University wlh I tried my best not to have many male friends, until part 3 I manage to have two female friends, they say i have ego, people call me" me tsoron maza" even for once i never gave him the chance to talk dirty even if it through chat messages, he never touches my hand but he called me " "karuwa " this word hits me that I cried in sujood
whats ur take?
