He asked when I will come over to his place
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Anonymous Oct 5, 10:48 PM

He asked when I will come over to his place 2

Assalam. I am a Muslim sister Alhamdulillah na san right from wrong. Not saying I’m a saint in any way because I’m human and I’ve made my fair share of mistakes too just as duk wani mutum dake doron duniyar nan. Toh dai nidai a rayuwana Allah ya dora min bala’in son aure da rayuwar ma’aurata so Ina kokarin naga nayi relationship da zai kai ni ga samun miji nayi aure domin na raya sunnar manzon Allah (S.A.W). Na hadu da wani bawan Allah da ya nuna yana sona matuka, mun fara magana ta mutumci har da maganar aure, amma kwatsam! Sai gashi wai yana tambayana when will I come to his place?😳 I was like how? Sai nace no ai it’s not right kawai he agreed and aka shashantar da zancen muka cigaba normal. Toh nidai na kasa dena tunanin abun duk da ba wai ya taba min wani zance na iskanci bane amma why will he ask me such a question? Tun lokacin na ji ya fara fita a raina but he still shows me he wants to marry me and we still discuss marriage on a daily basis kuma gaskia inason nayi aure soon kuma dai apart from wannan tambayar da yayi he hasn’t shown me any bad character. So my question here is, shin na cigaba da kulashi na ga ko da gaske yake kawai gwadani yayi ko kuma na sallame shi kawai?
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Aleeyu Muhammad kabeer fagge Oct 6, 12:38 AM
Dan iska ne wlh zaidawo kuma xaiqara maki maganar
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Anonymous #1 Oct 6, 12:56 AM
As you have stated in your writeup, we are humans, we all make mistakes. I think you shouldn't end the relationship just because he asked you such question. Since you truly love him and he loves you as well...then let his elders come and meet yours nd discuss the issue of marriage
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Umar Pharouq Oct 6, 12:57 AM
As you have stated in your writeup, we are humans, we all make mistakes. I think you shouldn't end the relationship just because he asked you such question. Since you truly love him and he loves you as well...then let his elders come and meet yours nd discuss the issue of marriage
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Musa Abdullahi Oct 6, 07:56 AM
Well even if you'll be talking about marriage for the next one year it is just a waste of time. Actions speak louder than words. You guys should stop talking, let him act otherwise he's not serious. With regards to the question he asked, gaskiya akwai alaman tambaya. Ba wai gwada ki yake ba. Contact a relative or someone close (a male) to conduct a thorough investigation on him, if he's clean then make him send his people.
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Anonymous #2 Oct 6, 11:33 AM
Actions speak louder than words. Gwada ki yake as in how? There is a question mark on him If I was you, i will say yesss! and see if he really meant it
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Anonymous #3 Oct 7, 09:03 AM
This is a Red Flag. Sister, be a high value woman and look for quality men. A man that is not scared to love hard who sees you and go like this is my wife and commit to you. Know your values and refuse suitors who are not of good character and religiously committed. Me annabi yace? if a woman wants to get married she should be impressed with the potential’s level of DEEN and GOOD CHARACTER.You need someone who will hold your hand and lead you to Allah and jannah. Please don’t joke with istikhara once you meet a potential. May Allah grant us spouses that will be the coolness of each other’s eyes Ameen.
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Anonymous #5 Oct 9, 12:52 PM
sis Biko 🙏 pls kizauna kyi tunani kiyi bincike akanshi ko aboye ne co'z bakisan halin shi kin dai yasan ya iya love dat's all🙄 but before yayi using opportunity din soyayyah ya yaudare ki qara kirabu dashi🙄 period
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Maryam Alkali Oct 10, 09:16 AM
I also think you shouldn't end the relationship yet ..just watch him ...if he will ask such questions again
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