my mom wants me to perform a magic ritual and i declined, am i right?
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Anonymous Oct 23, 08:54 PM

my mom wants me to perform a magic ritual and i declined, am i right? 0

I'm 17and my mum tana yawan zuwa gurin mallamai. Even today da yamma Wanda tage Bina wani Abu she didn't tell what it is she just told me she going to bury something. tundama I graduated from secondary School last year and both waec da neco da na ja I failed maths. I wrote GCE that Same and I failed maths. I wrote neco internal again this year and I still didn't pass. so she asked one of her mallamai and they told her that hannu wani mutum. that it's my step mother that doesn't want to excel. the man gave her a black soap that I should bath with it for three days outside in the night. today is the second day and I told her that I'm not comfortable bathing outside the house in the night and that I don't like and I won't do it because I know it's not right and that's it's shirk. Now she's guilt tripping me saying she's my mother she suffered with my pregnancy that is this the way I'm going to pay her back. I just want to know did do the right thing.
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Haynoh Oct 23, 09:13 PM
may Allah guide her to the right part and show her the light.
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Anonymous #2 Oct 23, 10:30 PM
you didn't do anything wrong and don't ever do it, it's shirk Wallaahi and Allaah does not forgive shirk, as for your mother, may Allaah guide her but stay away from her practices, make so much Du'a for Allaah to bring tou ease. This is a test from Allaah upon you, you not passing your exams is a test and please, endure the test and keep making Du'a to Allaah, DO NOT FALL INTO SHIRK. Allaah Ya ba ki ikon cin jarabawa.
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Musa Abdullahi Oct 24, 09:29 AM
Clearly this is an act of shirk, so you should not do it. But why choose tension when you can live in peace. Collect the soap, show her you're interested, go outside with the intention of taking the bath but don't do it. Pour water on your body so that she'll not suspect you. This is the advice of some scholars. This way Allah will be pleased with you for not involving in shirk, and your mom also will be pleased with you thinking you did what she asked.
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Anonymous #1 Oct 24, 11:41 AM

Bro What are You Saying. Thats Her Mom Tana In Danger Of Loosing her mom To The Devil Fah. In Ta Biyemata To Make Her Happy Its Means She Is encouraging her
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Musa Abdullahi Oct 24, 02:07 PM

As i said its the advice given by scholars. The reality is parents don't take religiuos advice from their children especially in Nigeria, so there's no point in refusing to her request, because that'll make the mother angry with the daughter and create unnecessary tension between them. So scholars are of the opinion that one should collect what is given to them but should not use it. This way, the child might gradually and respectfully inform the parents that such a thing is not good and maybe they'll understand. You know preaching to parents is not something easy, you have to make sure that you respect them and they feel respected, if for example she refuses to accept what the mother gives, the mother will take it as an act of disrespect and no amount of preaching from the daughter will convince her, the only thing that her mind will believe is that her daughter is disrespectful. There's a lot to say but i hope you get it?
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