I want to repent and get closer to Allah
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Anonymous Nov 18, 03:28 PM

I want to repent and get closer to Allah 0

Hello everyone, I am writing these with a heavy heart,I don't know inda zan sa kaina😭years back there is nothing I hate like S*x I hate the mare mention of it and I always pray that I should never be a victim of Zina until I get married but maybe I didn't pray harder,last year I fell in love with a guy whom I loved so much and that love lead me astray😭 because I made the biggest mistake of my life in other to prove myself or should I rather say my love for him i agree to have s*x with him😭😭😭😭 after that he broke up with me early these year😭 now that's not the problem right now, few months I was broke and someone offered money to me in exchange of s*x and I accepted 😭💔💔💔 Wallahi I only wanted the money so I can start up something with my life a business or something to hold on with,I pray but I feel my prayers are not answered Because of what I did,I want to get closer to Allah what should I do please someone should advise me💔😭😭
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Sadiya Alkali Nov 18, 03:39 PM
just continue praying insha Allah ur prayers will be answered
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Anonymous #1 Nov 18, 03:39 PM
My dear just engage ur self with Istigfar, always no limit pls. In sha Allah u will see changes. And secondly try not to miss prayer (Sallah) on time. My Allah forgive us all.
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Nasssss9 Nov 18, 03:42 PM
Keep praying dear...Allah ya kare
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Nafeesaher Nov 18, 04:12 PM
just continue praying .Allah yasa mufi karfin zurciya mu and keep your tongue moist with istigfar
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Anonymous #2 Nov 18, 05:56 PM
dont despair from the mercy of Allah, make hope in his mercy your constant thought. keep your tongue busy with istigfar, and Always recite Rabba na latuziq kulubana, ba'ad idh hadaitana wa hab lana min laddun ka rahma, innaka antal wahhab.
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Trustee Nov 18, 06:05 PM
keep paying...
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Feesah Nov 18, 06:21 PM
let me be honest with you, that’s not how prayer works! secondly, you see this zina of a thing? you don’t just promise yourself that you wont do it because you will do it, and when you do, Allah conceal it till you say it. the only way you avoid it is to train yourself, practice reservations and pride in your body and pride in material things. in that way, things like that will not make you fall into it. relationship alone is a sin in islam we all know it but our present life has make it an option but you have the choice to not compromise your body. and lastly, don’t bitter about it. God is not human that judge us on our mistakes, if you honestly feel bad about it, practice reservation and decency in character not just clothing! Allah has forgiven you the moment you feel remorse. prayer Alone wont solve it my sister, train yourself to withstand your feelings (most important)
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Jibril saeed Nov 18, 07:32 PM
allah Mai karban tuba me akoyaushe inhar kinyi nadama kiyi istigfar. may Allah bless you with the righteous spouse.
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Alkotowiy Nov 18, 08:01 PM
There's no need for all this. We all sin. Since you regret your action, go to Allah and seek repentance. There's nothing Allah doesn't forgive. Straighten your ways with Allah, seek his assistance in all the challenges you'll ever find yourself. He'll always be there for you. Let go of yourself with this self pity and face your tomorrow.
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Darma Sadiq Nov 18, 09:49 PM
Keep praying with a good heart of repentance, and just try to control yourself that no matter how hard it is not to accept any worldly thing in exchange with s*x. Insha Allah everything shall pass
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Anonymous #4 Nov 18, 10:07 PM
ayyyah 😥😌 Allah y shiryemu gabaki daya
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Anonymous #5 Nov 19, 01:59 AM
I can marry you
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Bnana kaila Nov 19, 07:13 AM
my advice to you please put it in mind that no one attract you with his his soft words or any thing in life no matter how good he is or wealthy he is keep praying to Allah to protect you from those sin
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Anonymous #6 Nov 19, 12:17 PM
Assalamu Alaykum, good afternoon. I was also a victim at early age sef 5yrs ago but wlhh azieem I do try to abstain kuma alhamdulillah I did which is not easy at all. I can help you if you want and okay with it. thank you!
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Anonymous #7 Nov 19, 02:25 PM
sister never say that your prayer are not answered,don’t feel that way please,Allah mai yafiya ne,keep praying and asking Allah’s mercy.
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Anonymous #8 Nov 19, 03:41 PM

Subhanallah beautiful!! Are you looking for a man please? It's very uncommon for our young ladies to have matured thoughts like this, nevertheless I am interested. I'm young and hope we will find ourselves compatible Insha Allah.
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Yasmeen Nov 19, 10:43 PM
Allah is Arrahman And Gafur. May HE forgive our known and unknown sins.
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Anonymous #3 Dec 4, 09:20 AM
first of all I'm a guy and me too I'm vistim of this Zina become something that I can't stop doing it and Alhamdulillah I'm good now as I'm talking to you right now it's been a while since I was into action Alhamdulillah due to prayer and azkar Allah protect me from it but I'm feeling it, the pain of sin wlhy ba dadi sometimes wlhy I cry I don't know where to put my self may Allah see us through all.
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