my cousin has gone astray in school should i tell her parents?
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Anonymous May 10, 03:14 PM

my cousin has gone astray in school should i tell her parents? 3

my cousin has become a bad girl following boys and smoking shisha shes not even concentrating on her studies and i am the only one around her she's from sokoto schooling here in kaduna. i think even if i talk to her she will not listen amma idan na fada ma parents dinta she will hate me and our relationship will spoil please what's the best thing to do i want to help her
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Nasir Mujahid May 10, 08:36 PM
ki fara gwada bata shawara ki gani idan bata bi ba ki kyale ta tunda kin fita hakkin ta rayuwar ta ce ai. idan nine haka zanyi.
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Rukayya May 11, 06:36 AM
Call her to order first. Sit her down for a deep conversation. Tell her the effects of the path she’s following, counsel her pray for her and if after some time (a reasonable period of time u) U notice no change whatsoever then go ahead and inform her parents. U might be scared of loosing the relationship u hv with her now but trust me in the long run she will thank you for putting her life back on track
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Samir Abbas May 11, 11:25 AM
A girl living in this way is damaging herself and it's something she will come to regret what if ta lalace ta zama yar iska and her parents find out ai they will question you cuz you are the only one around her as you said. I know it'll be hard to confront her but you have to do it with wisdom in a calm way she will understand. Allah ya shirya ta
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Shamsu Don May 12, 02:51 PM
if you straight away tell her parents without talking to her its wrong. its all about the approach you use in talking to her, don't just call her and start telling what shes doing is bad. instead try to be close to her when she has free time be in her company so she doesn't go to the bad company. gradually start bringing up the topic of what shes doing in a nice way. trust me it will work.
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