I'M NOT LIVING IN PEACE WITH MY MOTHER
Anonymous Aug 4, 11:48 AM

I'M NOT LIVING IN PEACE WITH MY MOTHER 0

Assalamualaikum everyone, I'm here with a heavy heart. I didn't grow up with my mom because my dad's family took me after my dad died,so I grew up with my dad's best friend, and after my mom got married again and gave birth to two children with her new husband,she took me back and wallahi since then I've known no peace 💔,my mom's family are the worst, there's no form of gori that me and my sisters have not seen and are still not seeing, my Mom has never made life easy for me, she's only focused on her children with her new husband , whenever something goes wrong, it's our fault. I feel like she's not my mother and bana Jin zafin ta anymore, there's so much i can't say here and I've tried all my best to please her,nayi azumi da sallan dare Allah ya daidaita tsakaninmu amma haryanzu things are not changing 😭 for 9 years now zama ya gagara, sometimes she tells me and my sisters to go back to our dads family and give her space,wai she's tired and I'm also tired of her I don't know what to do anymore, please advise me 🤧
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AnDex_Blaq Aug 4, 12:18 PM
Are you a male? If yes, I think it’s high time you get something doing (assuming you’re not doing anything right now) then move out to your own personal space, rent a room and keep focusing on your hustle, and keep in touch with your mum over the phone cause she’s still your mum. Someday, everything will turn out fine.
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AnDex_Blaq Aug 4, 12:28 PM

Now this is a bit complicated, cause you can’t go and live alone by yourself, are you working? Up to age for marriage? If yes, I think you should consider marrying, but please don’t go and marry anyhow person ooo, take your time, make duas, seek Allah’s guidance, hopefully it will be alright.
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Muhammad Musa Muhammad Aug 4, 11:37 PM

Allah sarki 🥲 idan kin Fi samun natsuwa a dad's family gwanda ki koma can gsk
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Musa Abdullahi Aug 6, 03:16 PM
If you have the chance just go back to your dad's family, staying till things get better is not always an option. If things are not working out in a certain place just relocate, that's the teaching of our religion. Relocate and clear your mind, since your mom is doing fine just keep her out of your mind for now and live in peace. Hopefully as she grows older things will fall into order. I once experienced a similar thing. Put your total trust in Allah.
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Anonymous #1 Aug 8, 05:57 AM
get back to ur daddy’s fmly cox it’s better b4 kidage da addu’a da sallan dare cry 😭 much kice Allah yakawo miki mijin marainia nd kitsare mutuncinki
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Bashabdul0 Aug 8, 08:30 AM
i think something is wrong somewhere why because the mother's family are always the most supportive. but since things turn out this way, I think you're old enough to take decision for yourself. so far your dad family are not saying no to you staying with them and they still treat you well, i think staying with them for your happiness is the best, since staying with your mom might break you down. your mom will always be your mom no matter where you're. just try not to forget her by putting it into heart how she treats you. see that as a test from Allah almighty, and pray over it for better change. am sure in few years to come you will settle with someone who will cherish and care for you. Allah shibaki ikon juriya, shikuma ganar da mahaifiyarki, shikuma maki sauyi akan al'amuranki
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