I am 18yrs and getting Marriage pressure
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Anonymous Apr 1, 10:41 PM

I am 18yrs and getting Marriage pressure 0

Malama I just turned 18 today but my parent have been pressurizing me to get married since when I am 16 because my elder sister got married at that age wlh is not like I don't want to get married but I don't have some one that am willing to marry and am now in my final year at University and then told me that immediately I finished I should bring a spouse home but wlh I don't have anybody on my mind now and I don't want to choose the wrong person and now there is no money for my school fees I don't know what to do I have been trying to save some money for my school fees but I wasn't able to pls help me out
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Mai Nama Kano Apr 1, 11:32 PM
Nan dai almajiran malama ne, babbar shawara kiyita addu'a ni a ganina, Allah Ya bada mafita albarkar Annabi Alaihissalatu wassalaam
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Anonymous #1 Apr 2, 04:44 AM
18 years kuma final year a university🤔🤔🧐
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Ibrahim Bakko Apr 2, 08:24 AM
how can 18years be final year a University? taya hakan yafaru
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Anonymous #4 Apr 2, 10:01 AM
ur parents are ready to sponsor ur wedding immediately after schl frm ur story but they left u to pay schl fees or wat??..bcause thats wat ur story suggests!!! also which uni is that nd wats ur jamb nmbr hjy cos u cant write jamb under 16
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Hauwa'u B Apr 2, 10:51 AM

jumping su ke sha sosai
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Ibrahim Bakko Apr 2, 11:01 AM

Ba jumping da zai kai 18 years final year a Nigeria ki tuna fa duk wani current students da recently graduates sun sha hutun 2 years a gida( COVID and strike) Kuma munsan karancin karatu a universities 4 years ne shekaranta nawa kenan takeso tace ta shiga university?
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MuhammadS Apr 2, 11:45 AM
from your story I think you're not ready for any sort of commitment. you're too young for that
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Dr A A Apr 2, 01:35 PM
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ok maa
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Dr A A Apr 2, 01:44 PM
srry to say mufa sai munyi magana 1 u hv no 1 to marry 2 your parents gona sponsor ur marriage immediately after u finished ur uni ba. 3 sannan ga school fees kikace babu 4 nd u are just 18 ynx me mike so knn ?? saurayi kike so mu samamaki wanda zai dauki dawainiyar krt en idan kika kare kuyi aure ko kuma aa taimako kike so amaki ki biya kudin mkrt tunda alamu sun nuna kece kike dauke da dauyin krt enki 🌚 ba zamuce karya kike ba sabida bamu san ko waye ke ba gsky amma wayan nan magan ganu naki suna da daurin kai sosae amma me zai hana nikam ki mana voice ko zamu fahimta
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El Tee Apr 2, 03:12 PM
18yrs, final year student a university hmmmm. what do you want yanxu ke kam ? mijin aure kike nema ko kudin makaranta ?
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Bafferh Apr 2, 03:56 PM
After reading the post, i don't understand what you need.. Is it marriage partner or school fees?? Your parents are ready to sponsor your wedding.. Buh can't afford yur school fees??
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Sayyid hamzah Apr 2, 07:45 PM
gaskiya bana Jin dadin irin abin da mutane sukeyi mutun ya kawo damuwar baza a hada kai a temake shi ba sai dai wasu irin magana mara dadi idan zaka taimake mutun ka taimake shi kawai idan baza kayi bah kayi shiru
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Naseeba Apr 2, 08:41 PM
am sorry dear poster but your story was too complicated you said your sister got married at 16 that was fine and you just clock 18 yesterday that was on 1st April ko happy birthday baby but the fact that you are in your final was so anya kuwa kodai sunan secondary school dinku ne sunanta uni plssss explain to us ohhhh I wish ana voice note Amman 18 years a final year a university bama polytechnic ba too Allah dai ya fito da na gari Amman dai kawai dai kiyi ta addu'a shine mafita kawai wlh
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Mimie Apr 2, 09:26 PM
This your story is complicated wollah you're 18 years kuma final year student how comes??
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Anonymous #5 Apr 3, 04:57 PM

the thing doesn't even make sense cos from what she is saying how can a person who is 18 years be in final year now, which course is she studying kenan kuma after all this covid and strike how is that possible
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Anonymous #2 Apr 3, 04:58 PM

Its possible, because i started my final year at the age of 19 & I know it could have been earlier
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Anonymous #5 Apr 3, 04:59 PM

Kasan me it's just that the story is complicated, if you want to help someone you would really like to understand them and know what kind of help they need
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Anonymous Apr 5, 06:55 PM

bani na kee sponsoring karatu naba Kuma ne ba a public University nake ba kawai dai shawara nakesooo kubani pls
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Anonymous Apr 5, 06:55 PM

yes ai private University nee
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Anonymous Apr 5, 06:58 PM

no not all is not that when they see me at home they will be saying at ur age u are still not married
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Anonymous Apr 5, 07:06 PM

bako daya anan maganan shine wani shawara xakubani akan wannan magana sbd agida inxan wuce Sai kaji anacewa gatachan Sai boko tasani amma aure yagagara ne abun namin xafi ko Kuma antys Ina sukira nee sutanbaye ne shekara na nawa inace 18 sai suce lokacin da Ina shekarunki Ina yaro Amma kee babba dake bakiyi aure wlh abun namin ciwooo😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
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Ibrahim Bakko Apr 5, 07:36 PM

Shekaranki nawa kikayi joining
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Abubakar Dalhatu Sulaiman Apr 14, 07:51 AM

Allah sarki na fahimce ki yanzu to Allah madaukakin sarki ya kawo miki mafuta Albarkacin wadannan ranaku masu albarka
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