He loves me but i am not attracted to his looks.
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Anonymous Jun 16, 06:12 PM

He loves me but i am not attracted to his looks. 0

I know a few people will judge but i just need understanding and advice. The guy im dating loves me a lot. I don't have much complaints about his flaws har ga Allah. But wallahi he's not good looking. Don't get me wrong, im not after handsome and all that but for someone averagely okay atleast. I started dating him because of his good character and convinced myself that with time I may start seeing his handsomeness because of his good character but wallahi im not seeing it. I've prayed hard and scolded myself so many times that looks shouldn't matter because he didn't create himself but for whatever reason it's still on my mind. I'm finding it very hard to fall in love with him because I am not attracted to him wallahi. I'm so conflicted. some times I want to end it and then he does something nice and I say to myself but he's a good person. I keep going in circles like this. I need genuine advice wallahi.
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Anonymous #1 Jun 16, 07:56 PM
sister beaut doesn’t matter but in other fact is matters , Nima wallahi inason me kyau harga Allah ,😭Allah kabani Mekyan Hali da kyau kullum addu’a ta knn .
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Muhammad Musa Muhammad Jun 16, 10:15 PM
yana divan wanka irin na 'yan kwalisa?
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Eysher66 Jun 16, 10:20 PM

ameeen ya rabbil izzati
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Anonymous #3 Jun 16, 10:57 PM
Marrying someone you are not attracted to is a way of turturing yourself nd it look like you don't even love him you are just attracted by his good habit which will not help after marrying him Kar yazo ki aure shi kidawo kina jin haushin shi aranki koh kinajin bakyaso shi aranki ki Allah yasa mu dace🙏
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Anonymous #2 Jun 16, 11:39 PM
zamu dena baku shawara gaskiya kos we don’t know what you guys are after/want
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Muhammad Musa Muhammad Jun 16, 11:58 PM

ni kyau be dme ni bh, but zata kula dni sosai? infact wadda nso Yasin baqa ce wulik
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Anonymous #2 Jun 17, 12:04 AM

they don't know what they want....confused gender 😂
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Muhammad Musa Muhammad Jun 17, 05:38 AM

😂😂😂 if I love you, so definitely kusan komai nki Ina so shi ysa nje Neman ki if not bazan je bh. wdda nke so black ce ba wai chocolate bh ga hanci Dan quiiii Amma zo kaga ydda tke mun son rai
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Hasynoh Jun 17, 06:17 AM
ask yourself if you really love him, idan hali kikeso halinsa can change. so know what you love and move on, don't waste time and resources
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Anonymous Jun 17, 10:06 AM

I pray you don't find yourself in such a situation. Be careful how you react to other people's problems because you could find yourself in the same situation one day. If you don't have any advice for me you don't have to comment.
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Osman Abu-bakr Jun 18, 11:53 AM
just end the relationship kawai. Zaki cutar dashi Idan Kika cigaba da kula shi gwara komai yazo karshe. shine zai fiye muku Duka
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Najib Marwan Jun 19, 03:25 AM
find a way that you could be attracted to him but do not try to breaks his heart for that okayyyyy?
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Muhammad Musa Muhammad Jul 4, 02:19 PM

🤣🤣🤣 but she keeps pushing me until I decide to leave her
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