I made a post days back regarding having issues with my girlfriend due to my unavailability as a result of my work schedule.
I've listened to advice I've received and I've started finding a way to balance work with my relationship.
Yesterday,we had a quarrel and I'm thinking of ending things. I want to know if I'm overreacting or not . Below is the conversation
(She called and I didn't pick due to work )
[5/1, 4:40 PM] M: I can't make call right now
[5/1, 4:40 PM] Princess: I didn't even call to talk 😕 i know you don't want to talk
[5/1, 4:41 PM] M: Point of correction
You know I'm at work
[5/1, 4:41 PM] M: And We are talking now
[5/1, 4:42 PM] Princess: Abeg Mr work 😒 i know you're the only one working and I'm not stop reminding me
[5/1, 4:42 PM] M: Mmm inferiority complex
[5/1, 4:43 PM] Princess: Thanks ok
[5/1, 4:44 PM] Princess: anything you like you can talk i brought myself here so you can insult me all you can
[5/1, 6:12 PM] M: When did I insult you ?
[5/1, 6:13 PM] M: Why will you even say such
[5/1, 6:14 PM] M: If your looking for talk abeg bad news not this time
[5/1, 6:15 PM] M: You said you know I don't want to talk
I replied you know I'm at work .
Is that the insult ?
Is inferiority complex insult?
[5/1, 7:16 PM] Princess: It's an insult and you know it
Honestly I think she was being over dramatic or probably looking for a quarrel .
hmmm hakara hakuri
bari inyi mata kwace🙈
Au ko kya sha fama.. sarkin snatching 😄
End it idan ka gaji.. I bet she's fed up too
🤣🤣faman me xan sha tunda ita ta gaji sai ta barshi ni in kwace shi
ta riga ta samu wani she don't want to end it not to be the bad person she want him to end it
irin drama Queens dinnan ne
dear poster pls don't end ur relationship...only if kuma ta fita maka ah rai kwata kwata
but I bet u she loves u kuma so much
this is just the type of person she is
She supposed to be the happiest lady out there, idan baije aiki bah yatsaya yasama kudi ina takeso yaje?
No girl will look at you if you don’t make money, I’m not telling you to end the relationship but you can refer her to me when you’re done with her. She must ripe what she sow and lot more.
you should be more sensitive towards her feelings .. change the approach and things will go smoothly. instead of I’m at work can’t talk say something like “ sorry baby, I’m in a meeting right now, I’ll call you back in a bit.. miss you “
🤔🤔aa bana goyon shawarar nan🤔🤔
ai kuma zaka utar da ita
*cutar
Honestly I'm just tired . At this point it's the relationship or my job for my peace of mind
I thought as much
My problem here is she thinks she's always right. She knows I don't make call during work unless emergency,we were chatting that evening normal ,then she called and I reminded her I'm at work,check her reply , I even went ahead and joke about inferiority complex. She used the opportunity and said I insulted her . I think she's just picking for a fight
😆
It won't change anything,she knows I'm at work and I don't make calls. We were even chatting normal. I've had to swallow different blames and apologize even when she's wrong but this is the last straw for me. I can't keep on taking the bullet for her dramas .
You don’t actually love her, right?
I believe if you love her you can balance things but from your response it’s obvious you don’t genuinely love her.
Har na tausaya miki. This is just a part of the story. we don't have the full gist. but you want to snatch? hmm
From my observation, you are quite insensitive to her feelings. she loves you a lot that's why she keeps wanting your attention. But your approach is not nice at all. she is a very sensitive person from my observation too. try using gentle words and see how things go.
instead of you know I'm at work, try - Baby, im currently handling some stuff but I'll cal you back as soon as im able to. can we chat a bit in the meantime?
instead of telling someone who wants your attention that it's inferiority complex, try saying - I know you miss me and I miss you too. bear with me small, kinji? we'll talk more when im home.
Everything in life is approach and as a man, you should apply wisdom in dealing with women. women are sensitive and require soft approach. A lady that keeps trying to reach out to you genuinely loves you. Don't let your communication issues cost you sincere love. #myopinion
Then you're not ready to love!
women are largely emotional and dramatic and guess what? it's all for attention! Try loving someone a lot and they don't have time for you and you'll know what it's like!
lol 😂
Kyale ta tayi ita ba sarkin snatching ba? daga mutum ya kawo complain an fara harin shi kaman yace yana needing new gf ne
I think they're not compatible ne or he doesn't love her enough to understand/tolerate her.. kuma ya gaji already he want something different.... Allah ya kawo ma kowa zabin alkhairi
Maybe I'm not .
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