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Anonymous
Jan 3, 02:48 PM

i am really depressed i need your advice and prayers🙏

i am 25years old.I have seen a lot in my life tbh family problems and relationships My dad is a very strict person,he doesn't allow me to go out or even travel at all,whenever I try to talk about leaving the house,he always go to his relatives and say I want to go and look for a man💔I can't believe a father will do such a thing.Everything in my life is a open book I can't do anything privately my parents made me go to a nursing school which I still hate till date. He doesn't take care of us..We provide for ourselves I don't have opinions of my own I'm into a very toxic family and because of that I just want to get married Wallahi and I've not been lucky in relationships either,the few good guys I've had,they always decline that he is not good for me,I'm really tired wallahi.Pls I need your advice and prayers🙏

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Jibril saeed
Jan 3, 03:32 PM
my sister pray for him he'll change inshallah.
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Rukaiya Muhammad
Jan 3, 04:38 PM
Allah sarki. Allah ya yaye maki damuwa.engage in qiyamul lai insha Allah you will see changes.Allah is aware of your situation and lemme advice you dan Allah dont get tired with the trial.keep Thanking Allah Subhanahu wata Ala for his mercy in your life.keep calm and dedicate your time to Allah.we deeply feel your pain.
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Seeyermerh
Jan 3, 05:01 PM
allah sarki Allah y kawo maki miji n gari
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Marierie
Jan 3, 07:32 PM
im so sorry you're going through this. I understand what you're going though. please keep praying day in day out. if you need someone to talk to, I'm always here.
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Haidar Ali
Jan 3, 07:45 PM
I'm with Rukaiya Muhammad on this. Observe the night prayers sincerely and see wonders In-sha-Allah. I pray Allah SWT provide you with the best solution to problems. May he present you with the best man for you as a husband soonest possible. Ameen.
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Rukaiya Muhammad
Jan 3, 08:31 PM
Haidar Ali Jan 3, 07:45 PM
I'm with Rukaiya Muhammad on this. Observe the night prayers sincerely and see wonders In-sha-Allah. I pray Allah SWT provide you with the best solution to problems. May he present you with the best m[...] I'm with Rukaiya Muhammad on this. Observe the night prayers sincerely and see wonders In-sha-Allah. I pray Allah SWT provide you with the best solution to problems. May he present you with the best man for you as a husband soonest possible. Ameen.
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Amin ya Allah.
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Nyla Aliyu
Jan 3, 11:00 PM
My advice here is that, pray.. pray and pray and second, for the sake of Allah, don't try to ruin your life, after all marriage is not a bed full of roses, indai ba kinyi dacen miji ba, da baqin cikin aure gara zaman gidan ku saboda shikenan rayuwar ki ta chanja. Many are regretting who they are married to. Pray harder, calm down and don't panic. Kisa ma zuciyan ki cewa zakiyi aure ne don Allah kuma don kinaso not because of depression or family issues for a long lasting marriage. This is a test dear, komai meh wucewa ne. Pray for your Dad..Allah ya ganar dashi, idan kuma su wai'nda kika kawo ne ba alkhairi, Allah ya fito miki da mafi alkhairi kiyi auren ki. Recite "Rabbi inni lima anzalta ilayya min khayrin faqeer" casually.
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Anonymous
Jan 4, 07:27 AM
Jibril saeed Jan 3, 03:32 PM

my sister pray for him he'll change inshallah.

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in sha Allah
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Anonymous
Jan 4, 07:28 AM
Rukaiya Muhammad Jan 3, 04:38 PM
Allah sarki. Allah ya yaye maki damuwa.engage in qiyamul lai insha Allah you will see changes.Allah is aware of your situation and lemme advice you dan Allah dont get tired with the trial.keep Thankin[...] Allah sarki. Allah ya yaye maki damuwa.engage in qiyamul lai insha Allah you will see changes.Allah is aware of your situation and lemme advice you dan Allah dont get tired with the trial.keep Thanking Allah Subhanahu wata Ala for his mercy in your life.keep calm and dedicate your time to Allah.we deeply feel your pain.
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Ameen🙏Jazakhallah khair I appreciate
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Anonymous
Jan 4, 07:28 AM
Marierie Jan 3, 07:32 PM

im so sorry you're going through this. I understand what you're going though. please keep praying day in day out. if you need someone to talk to, I'm always here.

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thank you so much
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Anonymous
Jan 4, 07:29 AM
Haidar Ali Jan 3, 07:45 PM
I'm with Rukaiya Muhammad on this. Observe the night prayers sincerely and see wonders In-sha-Allah. I pray Allah SWT provide you with the best solution to problems. May he present you with the best m[...] I'm with Rukaiya Muhammad on this. Observe the night prayers sincerely and see wonders In-sha-Allah. I pray Allah SWT provide you with the best solution to problems. May he present you with the best man for you as a husband soonest possible. Ameen.
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Ameen Ya Allah jazakhallah khair
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Anonymous
Jan 4, 07:30 AM
Nyla Aliyu Jan 3, 11:00 PM
My advice here is that, pray.. pray and pray and second, for the sake of Allah, don't try to ruin your life, after all marriage is not a bed full of roses, indai ba kinyi dacen miji ba, da baqin cikin[...] My advice here is that, pray.. pray and pray and second, for the sake of Allah, don't try to ruin your life, after all marriage is not a bed full of roses, indai ba kinyi dacen miji ba, da baqin cikin aure gara zaman gidan ku saboda shikenan rayuwar ki ta chanja. Many are regretting who they are married to. Pray harder, calm down and don't panic. Kisa ma zuciyan ki cewa zakiyi aure ne don Allah kuma don kinaso not because of depression or family issues for a long lasting marriage. This is a test dear, komai meh wucewa ne. Pray for your Dad..Allah ya ganar dashi, idan kuma su wai'nda kika kawo ne ba alkhairi, Allah ya fito miki da mafi alkhairi kiyi auren ki. Recite "Rabbi inni lima anzalta ilayya min khayrin faqeer" casually.
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in sha Allah jazakhallah khair I appreciate
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Anonymous
Jan 4, 07:31 AM
Seeyermerh Jan 3, 05:01 PM

allah sarki Allah y kawo maki miji n gari

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Ameen Ya Rabbi jazakhallah khair
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Ahjummaah
Jan 4, 09:46 AM
Allah ya baki hakurin cin jarabawar nan sis
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Anonymous
Jan 4, 09:51 AM
Ahjummaah Jan 4, 09:46 AM

Allah ya baki hakurin cin jarabawar nan sis

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Ameen Ya Rabbi jazakhallah khair
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Haidar Ali
Jan 5, 09:17 AM
Anonymous #1 Jan 4, 07:29 AM

Ameen Ya Allah jazakhallah khair

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Ameen
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Anonymous
Jan 5, 07:54 PM
Ahjummaah Jan 4, 09:46 AM

Allah ya baki hakurin cin jarabawar nan sis

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Ameen Ya Rabbi
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