Anonymous
Jul 14, 08:17 AM
Relationship problem
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I have this boyfriend which I’m hoping to get married to after school. We’ve been dating for the past 2 years and everything was going so smoothly I really liked his approach, attitude and his Deen is Alhamdulillah
He was so serious about me and even parents are involved. But ever since I came to school in a different country he suddenly changed and he expects me to tell him everything including my whereabouts and all
I understand he’s doing it out of care but that doesn’t justify the fact that we can’t have our normal conversation without him bringing up the topic about men asking me all sort of questions, telling me to use the Quran to swear and all sort of things which I feel is unnecessary I can’t remember the last time I felt comfortable around him and I feel it’s a bit too much because he’s indirectly worried about his insecurities and trust issues towards me. Sometimes you have to give a person a chance to show what he’s capable of doing and I know myself better than anyone I’m very much careful about men and I try so hard to avoid anything that would cause a problem
I want him to understand that definitely days will come and I’ll need someone ( a guy or two) reason being I’m not at home but he refuses to understand
And this problem includes school and my interactions with people because he even asked some people to watch out for me
Should I just move on or not ?
