Mustapha Ibrahim
Apr 4, 09:48 AM
Chatting With Arewa Ladies
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Most ladies normally say they despise it when asked questions like how are you ,have you eaten etc.....
If you are chatting with any Arewa girl like that most especially from Kaduna and Kano, you'll ask them, How are you and how was your day? they will be like, Alhamdulilah,fine or okay .... if you are lucky they ask you "and you? "Anything you ask, they will be like, Alhamdulilah and you?
These questions are basically conversation starters, When you are asked such questions, We want to know how it went, ba Alhamdulilah din muke son ji ba. you are actually making it difficult for one to communicate with you when you keep on giving close ended answers.
You can easily answer such questions by saying, for example, My day was terrible, kabari kawai , naje wajen yin kitso, Angama mun kitso, nayi transfer kudi yaki ya je, na kira brother na yazo ya bada cash, ya ki zuwa, yace bashida, kai ma number ka baya shiga a lokacin. Kawai aka sani Shara a gidan mutane wai sam bani da kudi. Something like this. Not always Alhamdulilah. Munsan da Alhamdulilah kafun muka tambaya.
You guys can do better please π