why do most men feel intimidated by an educated woman?
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Anonymous Jan 5, 09:54 AM

why do most men feel intimidated by an educated woman? 3

I just want to know if being an educated woman there's something we do that's a turn off for men, or maybe I'm not meeting the right men
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Bafferh Jan 5, 10:44 AM
Though, deal breakers or turn offs for men varies... But from my point of view, most educated women tends to exhibit certain habits dat guys do not like... Example, showing like you know yur rights n yu won't allow anyone to control you, xpensive lifestyle, too much crave for fashion, not religiously inclined, having so many male friends n being so free with them thinking wayewa ne.. Feminist ideologies n so onn... Gaskiya majority of men feel like they can't hav a future with matan da suke da most of this halaye... My take though.. Duk da ana samun mata masu ilimi dake da hankali da addini..
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Anonymous #3 Jan 5, 02:00 PM

Exactly. When you think you have arrived. You imagine you're a demigod that needs to be worshipped because you got some papers. Most women forget that in marriage a man must be respected because he's your key to paradise.
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Rukaiya Muhammad Jan 5, 03:10 PM

akwai gaskiya a points dinka amma kuma aiba duka matan keda hakanba though majority.my own point of view is naturally maza are not often comfortable with educated women saboda gani suke sunwwaye dayawa,they cant be controlled kokuma they wont be good mothers to their kids but lemme burst your bubble,duk mace mey ilimi da tasan kima da darajar kanta will be the best mum to her kids saboda she will use iliminta dawayewarta wajen ganin yaranta sunsamu nagartacciyar rayuwa.bance maka babu bata gari ba No,amma indai har yar mutuncice walh mijinta zaiyi saar mata.Allah yabamu ilimi mey amfani da albarka.Allah yama kowa zabi mafi alkhairi.
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Rukaiya Muhammad Jan 5, 03:13 PM
keep praying yours will meet you.my point is they naturally feel intimidated saboda aganinsu your too expose,loose so you wont make a good wife amma kuma still yours will meet you insha Allah.
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Anonymous #1 Jan 5, 04:51 PM
It's not a general thing especially in this generation. But I guess in situations where that happens it's because there is mismatch between the two parties involved; it's good and infact better for relationship and marriage to occur between partners that have similarities socially, economically, educationally and every other wise. Men are more intimidated by women who are economically more endowed than them than they are by those with higher education. A rich man with primary education or even no education can marry a PhD holder as wife and she would perfectly be comfortable with that; imagine if it's the other way around - we all know that's very unlikely possible. So education level is only significant when the woman is so high above the man and the man has no financial advantage over her. And importantly, in today's world when people talk of 'education' they are in most cases referring to Western education not Islamic education. There are a lot of peaceful marriages around today where the wife is far more advanced than the husband in terms of Islamic knowledge and the husband even sees that as an advantage because of the good effect that would have on his children. In this case too, men are not generally intimidated. Men are concerned and careful (not intimidated) when the woman in question is having higher western education than them and they have no financial advantage over her. Men are comfortable taking in women who are lower than them in any aspect (social class, economic strength, education etc) but that cannot be said of women doing the same. Women are not comfortable marrying a man who is lower than them in the mentioned areas. In a situation where women marry a man who's lower than them, there is already a clear complex. That's what men try to avoid and hence they are concerned in situations like that - to me, it's not really being intimidated, it's just a way to avoid future problems because there is nothing as important to a man as peace in his household and when he realises that he cannot have that from his potential partner he avoids her and her type. Such women feeling they are intimidating to men is typically explaining the complex, because they feel they have something that can only be matched by someone who has similar or more than what they possess. Real men are only intimated by rich women not educated women.
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Aminaa Jan 6, 06:35 AM
dear poster this actually true
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Rukaiya Muhammad Jan 6, 08:19 PM

absolutely.
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Bafferh Jan 7, 06:26 AM

Yes.. Ana zancen aure kaji yarinya sa nuna sanin right da kuma kafa maka wasu rules n all that... How will you cope that a marriage?
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Anonymous #3 Jan 7, 01:53 PM

You've said it all. As far as the money is there a man can marry a woman of any academic status. The insecurity to a man is when your wife is financially superior not educationally. A multimillionaire that can afford something for you which your annual salary can't, won't be intimidated by your education because he still pays the bills comfortably.
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Nyla Aliyu Jan 7, 06:02 PM

Gaskia dai kam, which koh a addini it is not right saboda namiji shine jagaba a koh ina. Even though muma mata munada right akan wa'insu abubuwan but it can never be equal, after all zurfin tunanin namiji is far different from na mace.
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Khaleefa Jan 22, 05:50 AM
I don't As a matter of fact there's nothing as beautiful as an intellectual lady
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