I work in healthcare,this lady I plan on marrying we are in a long distance relationship. I work till evening and we normally chat during the night. we didn't talk during the day this certain day and we had a quarrel . I recently had promotion and I'm having a hard time creating time for talk during the day except at night.I'd like to know if I was the one in the wrong here . Here's the chat [4/4, 5:47 PM] My World: amore [4/4, 5:47 PM] My World: 😔 [4/4, 6:51 PM] My World: Iftar Mubarak ife [4/4, 7:18 PM] Me: Baby [4/4, 7:18 PM] Me: Thank you [4/4, 7:22 PM] My World: You're too busy to even say hi tunsafe [4/4, 7:22 PM] My World: Haka akeyi? [4/4, 7:24 PM] Me: Sorry Not my fault [4/4, 7:27 PM] My World: My fault? [4/4, 7:27 PM] Me: Nope but understand [4/4, 7:28 PM] My World: Hmmm [4/4, 7:32 PM] Me: What brought hmmm here now [4/4, 7:32 PM] My World: You now [4/4, 7:33 PM] My World: Instead of apologising properly you're saying "sorry not your fault [4/4, 7:33 PM] Me: Apologize? [4/4, 7:33 PM] Me: For working ? [4/4, 7:33 PM] My World: Yes [4/4, 7:33 PM] Me: Wait you expect me to chat like before ? [4/4, 7:33 PM] Me: Do you even know what I was doing ? [4/4, 7:34 PM] Me: You can't even ask me how was work [4/4, 7:34 PM] My World: Sorry Mr busy no vex [4/4, 7:34 PM] My World: Bye [4/4, 7:34 PM] Me: Good night Two days later [4/6, 8:09 AM] My World: Sannu [4/6, 8:12 AM] My World: Pompous [4/6, 8:58 AM] My World: You sent this to me yourself but i don't have it anymore.......you said no man can be too busy with the woman he loves . ,and that's just the fact .there's no way you'll be too busy from morning till night that you won't be able to say a word to the person you claimed to love,even if you owns the place ..hmmm ,i told you the night before that day that I'll be done with *****(a computer school), but what did you do?no call no messages throughout the day ?have i ever treated you that way?or because I'm not working and you felt you're the busy one here do you know how busy my schedule's are?or you think in a relationship you only talk at your convenience time ? You were saying was i expecting you to chat me like before?like you just started this week?of course it's almost 2 weeks since he left and we've been talking so you didn't start that day,you were saying that i couldn't ask how your day went ,did you ask about my day too?or you're the only human here,you only think of yourself, our cousin's son had accident that day and killed someone, did you ask of my day?but just trying to talk to you you started talking like you're talking to your child ,you feel this relationship you can do what ever you like and I'll be just there accepting every shit you bring .no I'm not desperate, you can't treat me anyhow you like and expect me to just sit back [4/6, 8:58 AM] My World: If you're done just say it ,not attitude [4/6, 9:42 AM] Me: We were talking normal, we talked in the morning,I happened to be busy that certain day. I wasn't free till in the evening,I replied your messages, you asked me is this how it's done I apologized and said it wasn't my fault ,I asked you to understand. Do I normally go the whole day like that without chatting ? You went ahead with it , asking me to apologize ’properly’, I asked you apologize because I was busy at work ? You got angry and I got angry too and said goodbye . How did I talk to you like a child?for all the times you've had to go off for a reason or the other I've never asked you to apologize or something like that. I get it You had a rough day,I should have reminded earlier about ****** but there's nothing wrong if you had simply told me about your day and reminded about ******* as I tend to forget easily . I was the calm one that day ,I apologized but you kept on pushing it till I couldn't take it.