What will i do?
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Anonymous May 31, 05:54 AM

What will i do? 0

I am 28years old and the first born in my family, ni gaskiya ba irin yarannan bane da keson shashanci, naso aure tun ina university amma mamana ta hana wai sai na gama masters, ina samu samari singles masu sona da aure amma taki, a yanzu haka dai na gama masters shekara 3 har na samu aiki shima na shekara 2 kuma inada me sona tsakani da Allah kuma nima ina sonshi amma tace bata son me mata wai saii single, ni kuma rabona da haduwa da single tun ina degree. Yanzu haka kuma cewa take in jira sister na ayi mana aure tare, bayan ita bata da me sonta ma balle ayi maganan aure. Don Allah me zanyi?
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Ayesha audu May 31, 11:26 AM
Since it is your mom you should sit down and talk to her 1 on 1 babu wani boye boye. Tell her for years you have been wanting to get married amma she gave you excuses yanzu kuma ke kin samu wanda kin amince da shi and you are ready to get married to avoid any issues. On the issue of auren me mata, ni personally I don't recommend it because a zamanin nan any man that will leave his wife to go look for another woman akwai question mark akan shi no matter how sweet he seems to you se anyi auren zaki ga true colors there are many marriages that can be used as an example. I know because of your age and position in life meeting singles may be rare. However if you are sure this 'mai mata' is good and you trust him based on Facts not what he shows you then you can go ahead and seriously talk to your mom about it and be damn serious show her marriage is the only thing you want right now. I have this friend that got married last year her parents declined the husband based on tribe so one day she told her parents ita dai she has done her own part it is left for them to support her because if they don't and she falls into any sin they are to blame cuz she has fulfilled her part tsakani da Allah. Before you know it maganar tayi shaking din su within 3 month akayi auren. Also please take your time to think and script what you'll say to them in a nice and understanding manner.
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Bng May 31, 01:31 PM
Ki yi istikhara tukkun, kar ki in still auren shi ya kwanta maki a rai, kar ki jeh garin son aure da wuri ki auri na banza, so calm down. Mijin ki, mijin ki neh, a rubuce ya ke. Idan kin ji ya kwanta maki tou, coz wallahi auren mai mata sai a slow, then after ur istikhara find a trusted aunt and explain to her. Ita kuma zata yi dabaara da zata fahimtar da maman ki cewa lokaci na ja, ya kamata a barki kiyi auren haka nan.
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