Difficultly in deciding whom to marry
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Abbakac Nov 17, 08:46 AM

Difficultly in deciding whom to marry 1

Assalamu alaikum house. I'm in a very difficult situation right now and I don't know how to figure a way out of it. I have two (2) girlfriends and they both love me so dearly. But gaskia I have no or less feelings to both of them because they do not fit my taste in girls. In fact I am only taking part in the relationships out of politeness. So, the main issue is that right now they are both pressurising me about marriage kamar sun hada baki and gaskia ni bana son su. my type in girls in Tall, Fair, Beautiful and from a wealthy family (irin ajebo nan). But unlucky to me all the girls that loves me are not the type I want. Bana son ko wacce tace na yaudareta, I try to give them time but deep inside me nasan ba auran su zanyi bah. Please a bani shawara ya zanyi na rabu dasu cikin lumana kafin nasamu irin wacce nake so.
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Anonymous #1 Nov 17, 09:02 AM
why did you start the relationship with them in the first place since they aren’t your type?anyway tell them the truth,
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Anonymous #2 Nov 17, 09:17 AM
Why lead them on in the first when you know they ain’t your type? You are going to break both hearts now wat was the point of being polite from the beginning?… When you don’t like someone is better you let the person know how you truly feel about them and is left for them to either accept and move on or stick with you bear the consequences later! Poster you are a bad guy!
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Ummi1 Nov 17, 09:33 AM
zero advise gaskiya this is so selfish,you shouldn’t have do something like this, heartbreak is like a pain that is hard to go away , just open up to them. that is just the inky thing I can tell them or just tell them ur family have someone for you and you can’t disobey ur parents,and ask them to forgive you
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Abu-Bakr Nov 17, 10:00 AM
namesake ai ka riga ka yaudare su tuntuni
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Abu-Bakr Nov 17, 10:03 AM
Wannan ai halin mata ne instead of them to be rich they want to marry from Rich family master chanza tunanin ka
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Sadeeqsak Nov 17, 10:17 AM
Samarin Shaho Associate
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Ladyytima Nov 17, 10:33 AM
Why are you dating, not one, but two people you don’t like?? If you don’t care about them at least care about yourself and hope this never happens to you 🙄 you already know your question or whatever is silly. would you want someone who doesn’t like you to marry you? of course not.
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Tijjani Muhammad Nov 17, 12:23 PM
bro your heart isn't pure gaskiya
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MsDiyajo Nov 17, 01:16 PM
Allah sarki bawan Allah…. why’d you start dating them in the first place if they weren’t your type…. obviously they’d both consider marriage along the lines…. it’s better to just come right out with it and tell them both you don’t think it will work… don’t ghost them or keep dating them…. pray that when you find your type she’s going to be enough for you and that you both would make a beautiful life together and to the two ladies may they heal and find a worthy partner
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MsDiyajo Nov 17, 01:17 PM

telling them about family is a definite lie... he should man up and break up instead of creating more circle of hurt and leading to the ladies having trust issues in the future and really ruin chances for them
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MsDiyajo Nov 17, 01:18 PM

you'd be surprised at how many men do this... Allah ya mana zabi nagari kawai... there's nothing wrong in wanting a wealthy spouse or family
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Yusrahh Nov 17, 01:31 PM
Wane advice kake so kuma ka ce baka son su kuma ba aurensu zakayi ba ka rabu dasu su samo wanda yake son su yadda suke kai kuma Allah ya hada ka da ajebo, tall, fair whatever din da kake so
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MsDiyajo Nov 17, 02:30 PM

of course.... a man has to be the one to take care of his home.... it's okay to accept and recieve handouts just don't make it your life's mission
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Maryam3120 Nov 17, 05:35 PM
my brother my advice kar ka yarda ka bi kyau macce da sauran su duk wanan bashi ne aure ba. idan kabi wanan zaka fada inda bai dace ba better wait and think😂 kyau bashi ne ze zauna ma da macce ba frist. second kyau bashi ne halin macce ba my brother better think of something important that will help u married someone that love u and care about you komi munin ta. if she truly love you wlh koh munin baza ka gani ba
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Abbakac Jan 3, 01:30 PM

thank you so much Maryam. one of the positive comments I receive from this post. Allah ya saka da alkairi and Insha Allah zanyi amfani fa shawarar da kika Bani.
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