Cheating Husband
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Anonymous Jul 9, 07:43 AM

Cheating Husband 0

Good Morning, I have a question, how can one deal with a cheating Husband? I recently caught my Husband cheating on me with random girls, when i confront him, his answer was, I should be happy upon all this issues I still have the privilege of being his wife and every one will call me Mrs, and respect me that is why i am in house as the mother of his kids, that i should stay on my lane, i ask if I've done something wrong, he said i am the wife he always dream of having. I become confused, is he trying to justify his actions or what? How can i stop him from seeing this girls? Thank you.
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Bng Jul 10, 10:50 AM
Subhanallah sister, you need to sit him down and talk to him. Gently but sternly. State that cheating is haram, its prohibited, comitting zina by a married man/woman is punishment by death. So for his sake he needs to stop, he is not only going against you but also going against Allah. Secondly you will not tolerate such, even islamically a fornicator can only marry a fornicator, so if that is what he chooses you do not belong to his world. Lastly if he thinks all these are not reasons enough then he should remember that HIV is real, and it kills.
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Mr. Aulaz Jul 11, 06:34 PM

yes start with the easy way by talking about it with him gently and also ask him what he is getting from them that he is not getting from you. maybe akwai abinda suke mai da baya samu a wajen ki shiyasa yake turning to them to feel satisfied with whatever it is. talk deep about it this will help you understand him more and find out if he is just a womanizer which is something that needs a different approach.
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AnDex_Blaq Jul 14, 05:33 PM
This is a delicate issue, you will have to discuss with your husband to know his reasons for cheating, and if the fault is from you, then you make the necessary adjustments but if he is doing it for fun, you will have to involve your guardian so as to protect your Deen, and also protect you from sexually transmitted disease. May Allah Help You In Your Travails, Amin.❣️
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Hindat Jul 14, 07:18 PM
Sister you can stop him only by making du'a and advising him.don't loose hope Sit him down and have a deep talk regarding your matrimonial home ask him if you have wrong him or if he doesn't get the satisfaction from you, show him the effect of zina and make him remember he also have children and wouldn't want anyone to abuse them.by Allah he will stop it
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Sa'ada Jul 14, 07:30 PM
Talk to him cikin lumuna tell him yanzu STD sexually transmitted diseases sunyi yawa a gari and can easily be contacted kiceh masa yaji tsoran ALLAH edan mutuwa ta riske shi a cikin halin zina mai zai ceh da Ubangiji ALLAH remind him that zina bin zuri'a takeh yi yazaiji edan akayi da diyarsa koh kuma yaga dansa yanayi lastly kiyi ta masa addu'a edan yaqi ay akwai manya report him kar yazo ya cuceki yakawasa miki cuta
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Ameena Jul 14, 07:32 PM
You should sit down and talk to him one on one. Tell him the purpose of your marriage and that what he is doing isnt good both islamically and morally. Also pray to Allah sosai. Submitting your problem to Allah is as good as having it solved.
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