Assalamu alaykum
please I need your advice. how do you deal with indecisive guy. Being dating him for 3 years now buh his still not decisive about us. Today he knows what he wants tomorrow kuma he doesn't..in an fara magana kamar dagaske can kuma he will change. I really don't know what to do.
continue praying and seek Allah guidance inda alkhaery Allah ya tabbatar,Amma dating for 3 yrs he's still indecisive,karki sake jiki sosai
kisama lokaci kui magana ta fahimta dashi idan baishiryaba ya kayleki kije ki aure gsky wasu mazan munada damuwa kaibaka shirya aureba amma ka maqalema yar mutane mata sunada lokaci bakaman mazaba Allah yasa mudace
wasu mazan Kam hk suke
wlh abin sai dai addu,a
I am an indecisive guy(I don't know if your guy is really indecisive or not, but assuming he is, as you said), our intentions are mostly always pure, we also think alot, weighing the orons and cons of something before we do it...so often at times sai mu samu kan mu in a state that's called analysis-paralysis.....our thoughts freeezes and we don't know what to do again.....what we need at that moment is someone we trust to say, this is what you should do, we'll often say "buts"..... but trust me tell him that that's what he must do.... your guy will perform wonders, because we are mostly exceptionally intelligent and dedicated to our goals.... but we need someone to hold our hands and say "this is what you must do".
so tell your guy, "you must get married this year, give him reasons" snd tell him that's your final position, encourage and support him and bear patience bcos it can be annoying.... once that time elapse just move on with your life...may be he's not indecisive...hes just nit willing to commit.....you know your situation best and should be the best judge.... don't ignore red flags!!! trust your conscience!!!! and don't let love blind you...... Wish you all the best
find your square root
if he really wanted to he would if you get it toh if you don’t get it ask someone but I’m sure you get it
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