I Need your advice, I met someone about a year ago and we’ve been inseparable since then although it’s a long distant relationship but he makes it a habit to visit me every month.. the thing is he came home and asked for my hands some months back but he is SS, my parents refused saying I would suffer but I did my own investigation and tbh he has never had any attacks accept for malaria that aside I told them that na Allah neh cos we never can tell if it’ll be me he’ll suffer with.. I need you advice what should I do?
PS my genotype is AA
You're good yo go. In my on opinion u can marry him. Who ever survived with SS up yo this stage ba wani problem bane. Beside your genotype is AA. Ya wuce stage na suffering.
Thank you but My problem now lies with my parents cos they are hell bent on zan wahala.
But not all SS people have regular crises.
I know someone thats SS but rarely gets sick and he seems physically strong.
It depends on the intensity gaskiya.
Just try and convince them. Ki nuna musu ba problem medically. And if there is any family doctor or nurse that will lecture them how the tin is.
Keep trying to convince them and if possible tell them to seek for Drs opinion especially the haematologist. But if they insist on no, then u should let go and get someone else. Patents blessing is very important in marriage
Make them see reasons as to how it's not going to affect you since you are AA even your children there won't be SS among them
Insha Allah.. Jazakallahu khairan
*sigh* Insha Allah.. thank you
U being AA and him being SS issa good match which everyone would encourage..but then bin na gaba bin Allah
Allah ya muku zabi mafi alkairi
Ameen ya Hayyu ya Qayyum
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