Jul 5, 12:10 PM

What do you think of me telling my fiancé i have hepatitis?

Good Morning fellows.. I need an advice please, I am hepatitis reactive, and recently I met a lady which we understood each other and we have alot in common. We truly love each other and want to marry in the future. We were having a conversation recently and I told her that am hbv reactive but it's under control. She asked me that she wanted to inform her family and hear their opinions regarding that, and I agreed about that. What do you think or your advice ?

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Jul 5, 12:20 PM
Jul 5, 01:39 PM
That is you being honest..just pray it comes out positive..what ever the outcome is ma you’ll have to accept it with faith..Allah ya zaba mana mafi Alkhairi
Jul 5, 02:11 PM
ka yi dai-dai for telling her the truth, it depens on the category of the Hepatitis. Akwai rigakafi da ake ma matan, kai kuma you’ll be on medications in sha Allah ba komi zaku yi aurenku. ku je ku duka ku yi consulting Medical practitioner
Jul 5, 02:59 PM
Sadeeqsak Jul 5, 02:11 PM
ka yi dai-dai for telling her the truth, it depens on the category of the Hepatitis. Akwai rigakafi da ake ma matan, kai kuma you’ll be on medications in sha Allah ba komi zaku yi aurenku. ku je[...] ka yi dai-dai for telling her the truth, it depens on the category of the Hepatitis. Akwai rigakafi da ake ma matan, kai kuma you’ll be on medications in sha Allah ba komi zaku yi aurenku. ku je ku duka ku yi consulting Medical practitioner
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Nagode sosai
Jul 5, 02:59 PM
you did right by telling her, but I’d think you’re dating someone immature if she needs to go and inform them at home. Imagine if your wife has to go and ask her family opinion on everything around your house. Na from dance craze Dey start. If she can’t think for herself now, she probably won’t change
Jul 5, 02:59 PM
Ammma Jul 5, 01:39 PM

That is you being honest..just pray it comes out positive..what ever the outcome is ma you’ll have to accept it with faith..Allah ya zaba mana mafi Alkhairi

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Thank you.
Jul 5, 03:05 PM
you did the right thing.... These viruses and genotype ai ba'a boye su. Allah ya baka lfya
Jul 5, 03:14 PM
Anonymous #2 Jul 5, 02:59 PM
you did right by telling her, but I’d think you’re dating someone immature if she needs to go and inform them at home. Imagine if your wife has to go and ask her family opinion on everything aroun[...] you did right by telling her, but I’d think you’re dating someone immature if she needs to go and inform them at home. Imagine if your wife has to go and ask her family opinion on everything around your house. Na from dance craze Dey start. If she can’t think for herself now, she probably won’t change
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might not necessarily be that..she's still under her parent..and I don't see anything wrong with her telling her parent the status of whom she wants to get married to..I'm sure she have no idea about HBV and would want to get counseling from her parent..banga lefinta ba...indan har tana sonshi and they are meant to be, that won't be a problem In Sha Allah..
Jul 5, 04:44 PM
Ammma Jul 5, 03:14 PM
might not necessarily be that..she's still under her parent..and I don't see anything wrong with her telling her parent the status of whom she wants to get married to..I'm sure she have no idea about [...] might not necessarily be that..she's still under her parent..and I don't see anything wrong with her telling her parent the status of whom she wants to get married to..I'm sure she have no idea about HBV and would want to get counseling from her parent..banga lefinta ba...indan har tana sonshi and they are meant to be, that won't be a problem In Sha Allah..
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gskya Nima dai bnga wani laifi ba anan tunda ai ynzu a gidansu take yakamata iyayenta Susan komai akanta da wnda zata aura tunda ai su zasu aurar da ita ba ita zata aurar da kanta ba..ko ana nufin tayi shiru Kuma sai matsala baa Wai fata ake ba sannan ace ta nemi iyayen daga baya
Jul 5, 04:50 PM
no cause for alarm. when my wife went for our 1st child antenatal she was found to be reactive. so I was given the vaccine when my test showed nonreactive. her viral load was further checked. now we are married for 12 years.
Jul 7, 05:15 PM
You don already tell her now, so just wait for your faith.
Jul 7, 07:29 PM
Anonymous #2 Jul 5, 02:59 PM
you did right by telling her, but I’d think you’re dating someone immature if she needs to go and inform them at home. Imagine if your wife has to go and ask her family opinion on everything aroun[...] you did right by telling her, but I’d think you’re dating someone immature if she needs to go and inform them at home. Imagine if your wife has to go and ask her family opinion on everything around your house. Na from dance craze Dey start. If she can’t think for herself now, she probably won’t change
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Well actually I didn't take it that way, because she's still under her parent's, so whatever dai, Allah ya tabbatar mana da alheri amin.
Jul 7, 07:30 PM
Anon Lady Jul 5, 03:05 PM

you did the right thing.... These viruses and genotype ai ba'a boye su. Allah ya baka lfya

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Ameen Nagode
Jul 7, 07:32 PM
Ammma Jul 5, 03:14 PM
might not necessarily be that..she's still under her parent..and I don't see anything wrong with her telling her parent the status of whom she wants to get married to..I'm sure she have no idea about [...] might not necessarily be that..she's still under her parent..and I don't see anything wrong with her telling her parent the status of whom she wants to get married to..I'm sure she have no idea about HBV and would want to get counseling from her parent..banga lefinta ba...indan har tana sonshi and they are meant to be, that won't be a problem In Sha Allah..
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True, i agreed with you.
Jul 7, 07:32 PM
Meenah2 Jul 5, 04:44 PM
gskya Nima dai bnga wani laifi ba anan tunda ai ynzu a gidansu take yakamata iyayenta Susan komai akanta da wnda zata aura tunda ai su zasu aurar da ita ba ita zata aurar da kanta ba..ko ana nufin tay[...] gskya Nima dai bnga wani laifi ba anan tunda ai ynzu a gidansu take yakamata iyayenta Susan komai akanta da wnda zata aura tunda ai su zasu aurar da ita ba ita zata aurar da kanta ba..ko ana nufin tayi shiru Kuma sai matsala baa Wai fata ake ba sannan ace ta nemi iyayen daga baya
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Hakane Gaskiya.
Jul 7, 07:33 PM
Anonymous #3 Jul 5, 04:50 PM
no cause for alarm. when my wife went for our 1st child antenatal she was found to be reactive. so I was given the vaccine when my test showed nonreactive. her viral load was further checked. now we a[...] no cause for alarm. when my wife went for our 1st child antenatal she was found to be reactive. so I was given the vaccine when my test showed nonreactive. her viral load was further checked. now we are married for 12 years.
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Allah sarki. Thank you so much, Allah ya yaye mana gaba daya Amin.
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