I want to say something briefyl too concerning the previous post akan security guard, I was also a victim😅. back then in secondary school the school security guard has been crushing on me and I wasn't aware thou my friends kept telling me because they noticed so much and I was blind to it and all I kept saying was kawai fa mutunchi ne because I call him baba his a bit old let me say around late 40's, so baba always asks them where is ur friend or anytime we go the school canteen to get something he gives us for free or with a discount or he asks his boy that takes care of the canteen to be giving me discounts that's if his at the gate at that time because he owns the canteen, my friends always want to carry me along with to the canteen because of the discount or we get it for free 😂 wlhi I never for once Blvd them because I was just taking it as mutunchi ne ya Kai haka untill we graduated and left and everyone had to pursue life again and looked for admission so I left for my state to stay for awhile before I get admission and to my surprise this man said his coming to see me that he misses me🙄I was like do u know the distance from Abuja to where I am now? wlhi don't worry na yafe ma he still insisted that he would come and even asked what he will get for me I told him just sweets and to my surprise he called the following morning and told me his on his way and that was when I started believing what my friends kept saying so I told my aunt that so so person is coming and she was also in shock that why will my school security guard decide to come see me just like that? but na komai bakon ka annabin ka so he came and I went to pick him mu kazo gida ya gaishe su ya chi abinchi and said he would be coming back in the evening that he wants to talk to my aunt so this man came o as said and he told her that he loves me and he wants to marry me 😩ahh ahhh my aunt said is she aware and are u guys into relationship he said yes o that we have been dating since school me I didn't know those smiling faces I used to give and all those strange calls he kept calling and I picked thinking is just to check up on me I didn't know it was all the toasting so my aunt called me in front of him and asked me and to my surprise I looked at hima and said nooooo I wasn't aware besides u never mentioned na and I never had feelings for u I just took u as a father me I don't have any feelings for u. that was my first time of seeing a man drop a tear 😥 his eyes were red he brought out his hanki wiped his tears and said may Allah make me accept him one day.....well to cut the long essay cause am tired of typing 😂 his from Katsina typical one and his a big Mallam to be pricise and I was told Katsina ppl de do charm they said he can even hold anyan coming my way at the end I must marry him because of the no I gave him.....har yau de ban da saurayi Banda Mai Sona Dana ga ya mun sai umserious ones kawai I refused to blv it well because I don't blv in asiri but am starting to blv now because am still single and anyman that starts asking me out later on he disappears, Allah ya Kara kare mu we should just be careful out there with this ppl we look down too because they are less previlaged, Katsina no offense I didn't mean any harm