How can i balance my job with my relationship?
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Anonymous Sep 7, 03:17 PM

How can i balance my job with my relationship? 0

I am a 28 year old guy and I have to admit I'm finding it hard balancing my work with my relationship. My soon to be wife has already accepted the fact that my job is more important than her . I hate to be that person,I love her and I'm deeply hurt that I can't balance things. My work hours range from 9am to 7pm . It takes me atleast an hour to get home and have alone time for myself. Most times I get really busy during the day,we don't talk except at night , sometimes I get really tired at night and we don't even talk and when such happens it's world war . I have to write a paragraph explaining why I wasn't available to talk. Sometimes it gets to me,I feel she should understand when I'm busy or tired without making me feel guilty about it since we talk everyday and I've told her how busy my Work can get. I've talked to her but still she don't wanna understand ,if I'm away for the whole day I know I'm in for trouble 😴😴. What should I do please it's disturbing me .
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Ahmad Aysha Sep 7, 03:38 PM
Uhmmmm, don't you have a lunch break? Since she is not the understanding type try and call or text her during that period, and if you can't call her at night just text her, If she is still not being considered the problem is from her not you, at least you are trying your best.
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AnDex_Blaq Sep 7, 05:48 PM
Balancing work and a relationship can be challenging, but it's important to find a middle ground that works for both you and your soon-to-be wife. Here are some steps you can consider: 1. Open Communication: Continue to have open and honest conversations with your partner about your work schedule and the demands it places on you. Make sure she understands the challenges you face. 2. Set Expectations: Clearly define your work hours and commitments, so she knows when you are most likely to be unavailable. This can help manage her expectations. 3. Quality Time: While quantity of time is limited, make an effort to ensure the time you do spend together is quality time. Focus on being present and engaged during those moments. 4. Schedule Time for Each Other: Consider setting aside specific times during the week for activities or conversations that strengthen your relationship. Even short, regular moments of connection can help. 5. Empathy: Try to understand her perspective as well. Acknowledge her feelings and concerns, and reassure her of your love and commitment. 6. Seek Compromise: Discuss ways you both can make adjustments to accommodate each other's needs and schedules. It's about finding a balance that works for both of you. . Remember that it's normal for couples to face challenges in balancing work and personal life. The key is to continue communicating and finding solutions together to ensure your relationship remains strong and fulfilling for both of you.
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Musa Abdullahi Sep 8, 10:13 PM
You're just lacking Time Management Skills,if you can manage time you'll find time to accommodate all.
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AnDex_Blaq Sep 11, 10:59 PM

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