advice a sister here fisabilillah

Not all men cheat, just like not all women cheat. If one doesn't cheat in sha Allah they won't be cheated on. The best thing to do to have peace of mind is never to be going after your partner to find out if they are cheating or not. Just be upright and have the best of hope on your partner and focus on yourself and making the relationship or marriage work. I have realised that most times people who are restless and checking on their partners to know if they are cheating or not is because they are afraid of karma or payback because they have indulged in the past or presently in cheating too. Though this is not in all cases but applies in majority of cases.

My dear sister, first of all, take a deep breath. You’re not alone, and you’re not weak for feeling this way. What you’re experiencing is pain, confusion, and heartbreak, and those are real emotions. But I want you to hear this clearly: Not all men cheat. Some do, sadly, but not all. There are still men out there who are loyal, respectful, and fear God. It might feel like every story you hear ends in betrayal, but those aren’t the only stories that exist, they’re just the loudest ones. Please don’t let one person’s action (or even a few people’s) convince you that you are not worthy of honest love. You deserve to be respected, cherished, and chosen every day without betrayal. Don’t let this pain make you bitter or hopeless. Instead, let it draw you closer to God, because He understands even the words you can’t say. He sees the tears you cry in silence. If you don’t feel safe talking to your family, that’s okay for now, but you’ve already taken a bold step by speaking out. Keep praying. Pour your heart to Allah. Talk to Him like you would your closest friend. He will guide you. He will comfort you. And He will never break your heart. Also, don’t rush any decisions when your heart is heavy. Give yourself time. Let yourself heal. If the relationship is hurting your mental health, don’t be afraid to create space to breathe and think. You are not crazy. You are just hurt. And you will not stay in this place forever. You will rise. You will heal. And one day, you will love again without fear. hope this piece of advice helps🙏

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No, not all men cheat. Not even the majority.

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