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heavy heart😪😪😌

boyfriend wahala make I know come kill myself at young age but like serious talk men what is the exact color of your problem can't share my story he...

How much space should you give someone?

My relationship is shaky at the moment cos my bf keeps misbehaving and is sometimes cold and distant but then he swears he loves me, he changes like a...

I fell in love with a walking red flag

I and my boyfriend met through social media, we're both mature adults and the first thing he told me was I was exactly his type and he was interested ...

Should i break up with her

I met this girl and honestly i like her but so many guys are on her matter. The first day we met, she was expecting a guy as well who will bring her ...

i want love ! what i want is not much

So hey I think wait no I know I am lonely it's sad but true life has been hard so I never thought of a relationship 💔 but I want one now but there...

Delete it! DELETE IT NOW!!!

You called him at midnight, voice trembling like leaves in harmattan winds. He didn’t pick. He never does. You kept his hoodie—still smells like ...

part 10: Healing after heartbreak (selflove, self growth and self care)

I pray every day for Allah SWA to grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom t...

part 9: Love knows no bound

I want this person to have the life that he wants, even if that doesn't include me I want to help him get there. I do not love this person because of ...

part 8 If u love something,set it free If it comes back, it's yours. If not,

When I started sensing the confusion in this person I love, I asked him to be honest with me about his feelings and he said " I am confused" I don't k...

The heart wants what the heart wants

You cannot help who you love, believe me I know! It was suggested that I should know what I want in a partner, thats begs the question! does real love...

Please what should I do?

First of all, salam alaikum everyone, and good night. I hope you’re all doing well. I want to share a story about heartbreak, and I would really ap...

My Heart break experience

A similar experience happened to me. A girl first proposed her love to me, and I accepted. We continued, and it was amazing at first. We spent two inc...

Eid Palava with my girlfriend

Yesterday my girlfriend asked me to take her out for eid. I asked where she'll like to go to and she mentioned a certain place we visited last year. I...

part 6 : heart break

I decided let me ask what's happening, if something is wrong so that we can fix it! I explained what I was feeling his vibe towards me , like am forci...

part 5: my experience with love, with a guy for him a rebound girlfriend

🤔 God tested me, my faith, my sanity and my very being, from besties, we started falling in love at least on my part, I asked him what's our relati...

PART 4: love the best and the worst feeling

in February 2023, I was taking a walk when suddenly a car parked near me, like play he asked my number, and I gave him correct digit, which I never di...

PART 3: when they say love is patient/blind,they forget it's deaf and dumb

2years into the marriage everything was going well, 1baby. I go extra mile to be a good wife, everything u can imagine I was that and more.... there c...

PART 2: when they say love is patient/blind,they forget it's deaf and dumb

something tragic happened in my life just b4 I graduated from uni, as a coupping machanism, I decided to get married to escape from my grief, I wanted...

PART 1: when they say love is patient/blind,they forget it's deaf and dumb

am single parent, a lawyer, fixer, corporate practitioner, certified dispute resolution, mediation and a councilor! am in my late 30s, a straight forw...

My boyfriend has not been talking to me since the last 10 days started

pls I wan to understand something my boyfriend since tahajjud started to decided to stop talking to me because of Ittikafi he said he joined for the l...

I have been dreaming about my Ex

This days I've been dreaming my Ex that we broke up since 2017. almost everyday hope I'm safe?

Am I asking for too much?

Slm barkan mu da shan ruwa, I have this girlfriend and there are things she does that doesn't sit well with me. Though it might be minor to some but i...

Why is my girlfriend different?

Assalamualaikum, how's our fast? So I want to share with you guys something that has bothering me. .. So I've been silently bearing this but I'd like...

Maza uhmmm, This guy just left me and i am devastated

i meet a guy through my best friend when I was going through a lot in life which is break up, I my heart was into pieces and he was also going through...

Successful Match

I'm curious to know🙂have any of you found love or had successful matches through this platform? Abun na daure min kai.Share your stories, experienc...

The fault in our stars

Ever watched this movie the fault in our stars? If you have you can relate to what I'm saying. This girl she's the only person I've ever loved with m...

ana samun matar talaka anan kuwa?

assalamualaikum, ina muku gaisuwa da fatan alkairi. tambaya ce dani Anya ana samun matar talaka anan kuwa? duba da Yadda Mata suke nunawa cewa suna Ne...

Why the whole attitude ladies and their wahala

Asalamu Alaikum Mutanen Allah ya kuke..... I have a question please this is directed to the ladies in the house..Every girl wants a boyfriend that wou...

marriage/relationship advice nake nima

salamualaikum everyone hope kowa na cikin koshin lafiya. so I have need clarity on some things ne *what is it like being a second wife as a young lady...

i found out my fiance has another relationship just before marriage

Asalamu Alaikum I have another question. If you are in love with a lady and then it reaches the point of marriage. ...but then you notice that she sti...

Leaving someone that you love

Heartbreak isn't when you hate someone for breaking your heart. True heartbreak is when two couples love each other but can't make it work. Let me nar...

what i'm going through due to lack of any relationship

Assalamu alaikum I'm here to share my own story of what I'm going through. Ina da shekara 21 amma ni bantaba yin saurayi wanda zaa ce yau kunyi soyayy...

help a sister

those with pure heart always get heart break💔why how can a person hurt you intentionally har ya iya bacci 💔 ko sun manta akwai Allah😭

feeling sad

Assalamualaikum, wonderful people on this forum. I HOPE YOU TAKE SMALL TIME OUT OF YOUR TIME TO READ MY STORY. I'm feeling sad, and my heart is heavy....

Why do people feel it’s okay to ignore someone who cares deeply about them?

It’s incredibly painful when you love someone who initially accepted you but later begins to ignore you without any explanation. The hurt is even de...

Is it true?

Someone once said, “a man will sacrifice his happiness for a woman. A woman would sacrifice a man for her happiness"

My opinion

I decided to write this because I saw women complaining in different platforms that they were ignored after showing their interest in a guy, which mak...

hangout

Hello everyone, a little suggestion, don't y'all think we should have a single ppl of Arewaup hangout😅

I'm in need of Spouse

I'm from Benue State Base in Abuja and I'm currently in nned of a partner, in respective if your colour

bored lets gist

how is your relationship treating you now aday

Harmony vs Accountability? Please advise me

Why is it that people who hurt others on purpose can also be very quick to say "I'm sorry". What is your thought? These same people can get very up...

Magana akan Mata, laifi da Kuma accountability

Assalamu Alaykum..Ayau zanyi listing din abubuwan da mata Ke amfani dasu wurin guje wa accountability Idan sunyi laifi.. Instead of suyi appologising,...

## Dear Singles

One day, someone will walk into your life and make you see why Allah said you to be patient. Trust His timing! 😊 O'Allah, please make it easy for ...

Dear future husband

Remember me in your Dua's As I remember you in my Dua. Let’s pray that Allah make us together soon from His bounty. O'Allah please grant all broth...

pls i need you guys advice

good afternoon everyone pls there's this guy I meet through social media we have been dating since January we became friend after then we became best ...

Why do men always run away after you tell them to go and see your parent

Why it's that anytime you ask a guy to come and see ur parents he will never come back again what is the problem???

Seeking for advice

Assalamualaikum pls I need your advice and suggestions. there is this girl I meet on dating platform for the past 3 months we are still talking. she i...

I need your opinion and advice on a situationship

so there's this guy that I knew some years back and eventually our path crossed and we immediately clicked, months into the relationship he proposed m...

The type of wife i'm seeking?

Please do you think I am wrong to be looking for a young, very educated, well brought up, very religious, respectful, dependable and beautiful woman? ...

Ladies, what are the important qualities you seek in a partner?

It's disheartening to observe that many women today prioritize material security over genuine love. A man may shower a woman with sincere affection, b...

my boyfriend has not contacted me in a day

good evening everyone please is it oky for your boyfriend to do 24hours without hearing from you?

YOUNG GIRLS AREN'T SERIOUS IN RELATIONSHIP THAT'S WHY I PREFER MATURED WOMAN

Am 27 yrs old I prefer matured woman or widow that has not More than one child. I want someone with sense of humor, one with entrepreneur mind, workin...

loneliness is taking the better part of me😞

I act like an okay but deep down I need someone to call mine, someone to share my feelings with, how my day went and so on.

Everyone is the main character of their own story

You talk to women about having so many male interests and they tell you it is not by quantity because they are just meeting only stupid guys. You tal...

my issues with talking stage in a relationship

why are men now not talking about marriage to us, is it that they have who they really want to marry and just want to throw smoke around. we are tired...

Is it a good idea to approach a guy? how can i do that as a lady??

There is this guy new in our estate, i see him time to time, we both wave at each other and greet. I like his looks and the whole way i am just seeing...

My Advise to ladies seeking a spouse

I don't mean Hausa Fulani ladies should be classless, but they should work on their attitude. The way ladies are complaining babu mijin aure is the s...

sai kaji mata sunacewa bbu sauraiy mai budurwa da duk naija ko me hujjansu

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Dagaske Aljanu suna hana mace soyayya?

pls brothers and sisters I have this question, da gaske Aljanu suna iya hana mace soyayya and marriage

I'm unsure of this relationship.

na hadu da wani a (matchmaking platform) . munyi 5 month tare. ya fada min cewa Yanaso ya turo Amma sai ya dawo cos baya gari nace ba damuwa. what m...

My boyfriend left me without any explanation, Maza kuji tsoran Allah 😭💔

Hakanan saurayina yadaina yimun magana .. munyi magana akan rayuwa yace kmar nanda wata shekar xaki iyayin sure nace Gsky Aa sedai yanda Allah yayi ka...

what should i do idan yarinya tace min tana da wani?

Please ina da tambaya, idan ka nuna wa yarinya kana sonta tace wani ya riga ka me take nufi kuma me ya kamata kayi.

HOW TO CONVINCE MY GIRLFRIEND PARENTS TO ALLOW ME MARRY THEIR DAUGHTER?

My girlfriend parents refused me to marry their daughter because I didn't show up when they requested for me to come and see them. They claim that I'm...

lets Talk about relationship

let TALK about What You Love & You Hate In Relationships. I Love The Honey Stage. When Both The Energy Is High. I Hate It When am Misunderstood, And...

Come out pls

Hello ladies and gentlemen come out

Hate Talking stage

Must we go through the talking stage.I broke up with my boyfriend after dating for 2years because I wasn't sensing seriousness about marriage in the 3...

how do i know if my boyfriend is not wasting my time

slm pls advice me Nagari da saurayina 4month ago I love him and I think he loves me too but am not too sure about his love for me reason why i said s...

I need advice on marrying a woman older than you.

is it proper for a man to marry a woman aged than himself, man age 42, woman age 53

My relationship experience with a Christian girl

Aslm Dafatan anyi sallah lpy Kuma kowa na cikin koshin lpy Nakasan ce mutum ne Wanda ba abinda yadameshi da soyayya zallar niman kudi kawai nasa aga...

my boyfriend bought me sabaya

aslm nakasance banida jiki sosai Amma kuma ni ba Rama ma bace can can kuma inada tsayi cos akwai wa anda nafi su jiki and am not married kuma haka Yan...

I have a crush on someone and i cant help it

assalamu alaikum yan uwana musulmaii da fatan kowa yasha ruwa lafiya🥺dan darajan da Allah yayi wa annabi muhammad da kuma darajan wannan watan da m...

What's the big deal about Ramadan basket?

I don't know when the tradition of handing out ramadan basket started but it seems most of our Muslim ladies particularly those in the north carry it ...

I only prefer girls older than 25 for marriage, whats your opinion?

I am 27year old guy, I have never dated any lady before, now I am ready to start a relationship because I want to marry before I reach 30. My problem ...

Is it wrong for me to only like older men, like twice my age

Aslm dan Allah is it a sin to love an elderly person that is twice ur age? dan gaskiya bana son mijin daya girmeni with kamar 5years haka 😂dan gani...

Suffering from Erectile Dysfunction

Hello, I have been diagnosed with ED and all the treatment options given to me have not worked. Now I want to go for penile implants but I am afraid a...

my opinion of love under 30yrs

At 25, 28 or 30, you'll realize you're not just chasing your own dream anymore. You strive t give your loved ones the best this life could offt

Don't you know we're not reduntants

Wai Don Allah fi sabilillahi in baka kiran mace sau uku ko sama da haka wai ba sonta kake ba. To wai waya gaya maku haka ake yi. Ni ina yawan samu...

Dan Allah ku ban shawara, ban san ya zanyi da shi ba akan aure

Na kasan ce dashi tun kafin yayi aure, yayi aure ne sbd makaranta nake da burin yi. still muna tare dashi. yana kokarin iyakan iyawan sa domin muyi au...

Just had another breakup🤧🤧🤧

it failed agaun another breakup🥺 nidai ina ga na fita daga harkar rijalu daga yau Ku tayani da addua plxxx, Allah yasa dai ina d rabon yin aure a d...

Valentine???

Assalamu alaikum ya a'hibbayi Recently, there is a massive heart breaks AKA breakfast all over Arewa due to the so-called valentine. Dont get me wr...

Things you will never understand till you meet your soulmate

There are people who have been broken and damaged almost beyond repair as a result of relationship heartbreak. When you meet such people and start ta...

why is it too hard to find true love

Assalamu alaikum warahmatullah . why is it so hard to find true love nowadays . I don't kno I really want to get married to the person I love and love...

Men, what is your experience regarding your partner going for medical check up.

So I'm a guy who can be moderately jealous. My partner has a certain health issue . She normally goes for check up. So I'm kind of worried about her ...

How I met the love of my life (part 2)

Chapter 2: Colors of Destiny After that wild night in Abuja, every day felt like a new painting waiting to happen. Amira and I, we clicked – her ...

How I met the love of my life(love story)

Chapter 1: A Twist in Fate So, here I find myself, just chilling in Abuja, this absolutely awesome spot where destiny seems to groove in its own sp...

Ku ban shawara, Na kasa samun ko budurwa

Salam. Wai ni don Allah ko mene matsala ta ban sani ba. Na kasa samun koda budurwa. Duk yarinyar dana bi sede tamin wulakanci amma bazata karbi soyya...

Single at 33🥹

honestly being single @ 33 is tiring sometimes 😰 no one to call and no one calls to checkup on you 🤦🏽‍♀️ just shuffling between work an...

why i think some men serve breakfast 💔

In relationships, men are unique individuals with distinct decision-making styles. It's crucial for women to understand that giving your boyfriend att...

Subhanallah, I'm heart broken from my relationship💔

he just served me breakfast😭 please say a prayer to me my heart is so heavy

what do you think about Zaria men?

what do you hear about Zaria men

Haram relationships

Salam everyone..... I've been in a Haram relationship for nearly a year now and my boyfriend is not ready for marriage please what should I do. Do you...

anya yana sona??

saurayina baya mun kyauta be taba bani kyautan kudi shin yna so na ko dai akwai wacce yake ba mawa

My boyfriend ask me for nudes

My boyfriend asked me yesterday for nudes picture or show my body in video call ! We've been is relation like 1year...Sometimes we do audio call rom...

why is that the men in d matchmaking are not serious

assalamualaikum dear brothers in the platform.i join the matchmaking section more than a month now and d guys the send u request u waste ur time intro...

Zawarci babu dadi sai dole

kowane Dan Adam datashi irin kaddarar.Nayi aure narabu da mijina Banda Yara. I have met couple of potential suitors ready to settle down with me. Mats...

why is it hard to find the love you give

why is it hard to be loved the way you love

Does true love exists?

It is like I'm always meeting the wrong guys wlh😭 sai nake ganin yanzu duk ba tsakani da Allah ake son mutum bah

what does having a break mean in a relationship?

salam everyone...pls I'm so confused what does break means in a relationship???

what can i do

i have Seen all the red flags.. I Want To End It And Move On.. but Am Scared Bcs Of The Love i Have For Her Runs Deep... i Have Tried Before But I Fai...

is this normal ??

me and my boyfriend been having issues like whenever he showed me attitude the next day I will show him too...so today we were talking on phone so I a...

I like my junior sister's friend but haven't acted yet

Hello guys. Help yo boi out with an advice please, I wouldn't type long. So there's this friend of my junior sister that I've had a crush on for 3ye...

do u think i should tell him about my health issues?

I am hiv positive and we have been dating with my boyfriend over 6years he loves me soo much and I love him too and ryt nw he is talking about or marr...

why are men like this

since when we started dating,,he use to show me some of his bad character only when we are having phone calls....pls what advice can you give me

my ex betrayed me and i left her with almighty Allah wlh.

Salam alaikum, Ina ma kowa da kowa fatan Alheri, Ina son inyi sharing abunda Ex tamin. I feel so bad wlh since the very first! that I no relationship ...

men are wicked oooo 🤧🤧🤧

I have never been broken in my life like this so my boyfriend has left the person I cherish in my life , I see him as a source of happiness in my lif...

Inalilahi men 🤦🏻💔

After years of waiting I met this guy and tought I found someone that I will spend the rest of my life with cause we met in social media farko da muka...

Kai men!

After years of waiting I finally meet someone but turns out it was the worse thing that has ever happened to me in my life. Meeting him I thought I ha...

why are men like this

so I met my boyfriend in uni so everything so fine so we didn't stay for long about 3 days he said he want to see my parents And I told him not yet we...

Should I get back with her after we separated?

There's this girl I was dating some fews ago to the extent that I want to do formal introduction, I caught her going on a date with her so called Ex, ...

is it bad to ask yoir boyfriend for something

just because I asked my boyfriend for money he started showing me attitude..tho I never ask him for money this is my first time and we have been toget...

He dosent call or talk to me expect if i do

Assalamu alaikum please I need you people advice my boyfriend and I started off cool har yaso ya shigo gida a daura mana aure in yaso daga baya ayi ta...

How's your relationship with your siblings and older ones?

Are you close to all your brother(s) and sister(s) ? For me, I'm much closer to my immediate younger brother, my younger we are not much close but w...

should i continue to chase her or just go?

Hello please mutanen gidan nan I need your advice. There is a girl I love so much, but I refuse to tell her because I thought she was too young. I wa...

Is this called jealousy or love?

I had a boyfriend who always try to prove all his possible best to show me how much he really loves me, I trust him and love him with everything,but ...

glad to announce this here

ya rabbi has answered my prayers...Arewaup family thanks for you guys people too really appreciate

my girlfriend started giving me attitude

Assalamu alaikuma Jama'a ga wata labari na kawo muku. there was a in my school I met her when I was in final year toh gaskiya yarinyan tamun sai na ga...

Had this issue with my boyfriend, what should i do?

aslm plxx a bani shawara there is this guy dai muke dating since last 4-5 months haka so muna tafiya komai normal amma ba a same state muke ba last we...

LETTING IT ALL OUT: AN OPEN LETTER TO MY SUNSHINE

Perhaps with this I may be able to unburden my heavy heart and have a bit of relief. I do not have the guts to say what I wish to directly to you. I'...

sha e go reach me too

ya rabbi🥹🥹🥹this single life want to kill me so lonely and bored no best friend no boyfriend me alone

if a guy say this to a lady

I have told you times without number that I am not in a rush in any of my steps, if Allah has it with time it shall come to pass need advice

How my wife betrayed me after taking her abroad

Kada ka yarda kayi kuskuren auro mace daga Nigeria ka kaita turai indai ba ka yarda da amincin ta, tarbiyyar ta da kuma dattijantakar iyayen ta ba. In...

Sex lalle se duhu akeyi?

Wai don Allah addini ne yazo da se an kashe fitila kafina ayi sha'anin aure ko kuwa al_ada ce? Gaskiya ni nafison na kwanta da mata ta cikin haske i...

why do chubby girls hardy find true love nowdays

why do chubby girls Hardy find true love nowadays , kowa slim slim. it seems slim girls are more appreciated nw, ko Mai yasa?

how to teach a guy to be affectionate/romantic

there's this guy that I've been talking to for almost a year now. he's super religious, in fact I'm his first ever girlfriend because he believes he s...

so girls hate nice guys now?

we broke up with this girl bcuz she was cheating on me after weeks I went back only for her to tell me I'm too nice she can't continue 🤭😂😂

🥹🥹🥹i'm bored and lonely

can someone be my friend or best friend that I can share my secret with!!!it's not easy for me🥹🥹🥹....

Is this normal?

I was scrolling through social media and I came across a recent photo of my ex boyfriend and his wife, she has given birth and I felt jealous, I did n...

why are women impatient this days ? what is wrong with the situation

what is happening with our ladies /women that they are no longer patience and supportive ?

I always feel Bored

i am Sooo Lonely .. Most Of The Times That is How I Feeel Very Bored. Honesty am Not A Sad Person But Am Almost Bored All the Time. am I The Only one ...

what are your Red flags in a relationship

Everybody has his own red flag in any kind of relationship. What is your red flag? Let's learn new things

What mistake (s) did you make in your previous relationship?

Enough of the bad side of your ex. What mistakes did you make in your previous relationship that you wouldn't want to repeat now ?

Do ladies also find chubby guys unattractive in most cases?

Hi everyone, a post by a lady in one group on Instagram about chubby ladies finding it difficult to get a boyfriend prompt me to do this survey. I am...

Girls how does it hit for a relative you didn't expect to show interest in you?

girls pls does it hit differently when someone you know much like cousin says he loved you and didn't except that from him and you know he is above yo...

what does it mean having a male friend, close that it wants to feel like a relationship?

A times, Guys come into your life as friends but you become close and like each other but neither of you makes any move to turn it to a relationship. ...

Should I re-propose or not

Akwai wata yarinya danake so tun tana Ss3 amman ban fada mata saida tana year 3 first semester a school of health technology har na dan fara samo kant...

Should I ask her out for Marriage?

As salaam alaikum I'm young orphan architect with family responsibilities (of about 15 people). There is this girl that we are together since our pr...

I’m incapable of loving anyone

I’m a lady in my late 20s, still single, I used to love with all my heart and soul, with all that I am but every time I would get my heart broken an...

I am Heartbroken & don't know what to do

I'm really heartbroken at a point I wish crying will solve my problem but it isn't I really don't know what do....

why do men cheat on loyal ladies

been dating this guy for four years plus and found out he was cheating wit different ladies I was so shocked bcos I didn't sense it .. we do talk ever...

A heart breaking story of mine

What happened to me is i've been with this guy for almost two years malama like i've never loved a guy kaman yadda na soshi idan yanajin yunwa malam...

What is the disadvantage of dating you???

Whenever break up is mentioned people rarely point out what they did to contribute to the collapse of the relationship. As for me ? Sometimes I even ...

can heartbreak cause someone to misbehave towards the other gender?

After heart broken from someone i truly loved. yasa nazama serial womanizer sai naji ko wacce kalar mace is okay for me. Shin Mata ma suna jin haka ak...

I feel like its hard for a person to get his spec for marriage!!!

specification of marriage. It's rare to find someone who meets all of our specifications and who we also meet theirs. It's important to remember that...

INA MAFITA!!?

Hi everyone let's gather and solve all our problems together here

there are few truths in life so you know one when you see one.!

I can’t really explain it I don’t know how to start but facts are facts How do you know he’s the right guy! When he is not with you he can’t b...

What men value most...beauty or character

At first glance everyone will choose character but is that the reality?I think men go for looks more than character.i have two lovely sisters.one is t...

why are genuine relationship scarce nowadays?

Assalamu alaikum warahmatullah . nikam Ina da tambaya meyasa yanzu genuine relationship yayi wahala ne.. the moment a Man approaches you magana kenan ...

My last relationship.!

I've been breakin' hearts 💔 a long time, and toying with all the girls like they were just playthings & for me to use. Something happened for the f...

my dilemma on whom to select for marriage.

I'm confused between 2 guys. the first one he's well to do, works abroad (where I'm working too), religious, calm but he's not that good looking so I...

I'm Heartbroken💔

One of the worst aspect of a breakup is you know you have this person and you know every single little details there is to know about them their favor...

I wish to marry a MEDICAL PERSONNEL

Abincin Wani guban Wani, ni burina na auri medical Doctor, kuma insha Allah I will be very supportive to her, more especially if she's on call, I can ...

red flag to some men

I can't be cooking every day and I don't used to wake up till 11 o'clock and others invalid reason. this is some reason most men left relationship wit...

Shegiya soyayya

Kuyi nishadi rijalu Wai yarinyar da aka haifa 2002-2007 ce take bani umarni🤔🤣💔 ko Kuma ta nuna mka Kai yaro ne

what do u think about ladies that nag alot?

Dear men what do u think about ladies that nag alot?

Airdrop couples

jama'a Ana barin airdrop a bude fa tam ni nayi nan train zanje in shiga nasaka black abaya 😂😂😂😂😂

A certain appeal from medical practitioners

Salam Alaikum y'all. hmm...how do I even begin 😂😂 there's a certain appeal from medical practitioners, doctors especially. I've always wanted to...

Can longtime friendship transform into love ?

I've been friends with this girl for sometime now, we met out of nowhere and suddenly became really close. To be honest I was crushing on her at first...

Did I make the right decision by ending our relationship?

I and my bf met last year, everything goes well that I introduced him to my family and he did the same, kafin nayi accepting nashi yace he is still a...

How do I fall in love again?

I am finding it very difficult to fall in love and I don't know why, it's been good 3 years now that we've splitted with my Ex and since then I've nev...

Do married men with no female friends exist .

I have a fiancé ,he is average in deen ,and very brutally honest . I talked to him about stopping his interactions to his female friends after marria...

Dear men, appreciate a good woman when you see one

Men need to do better with rewarding women morality more. A woman who’s not promiscuous, a woman who’s submissive, a supportive woman should g...

Love advice for both gender

Any man not prepared to take full control of his marriage or relationship invariably signs up for a subservient role. There is no better way to tea...

A Love Letter for my future girlfriend

Dear future girlfriend, First and foremost, I appreciate the fact that you thought the idea of writing you a “LOVE LETTER" was cute. I...

Men on this forum are mostly not serious i dont know why

I registered Matchmaking earlier this year amma akwai mutane dayawa that are available for just sometimes relationship they are not intending to move ...

I am devastated from Heartbreak, i need help

I got served hot breakfast my world is falling apart I'm crying babu abinda kemin dadi I want to end it all I'm in pain..I hate him so much but a pa...

MY PARTNER DOESN'T CARE ABOUT ME🥲

sbd Allah anyi sallah bbu kayan sallah, turare, hula ko links. ko Daya bata Siya mun bh, men wanna be taking care not only women. Gashi anyi sallah...

ni bansan meyasa only married men approach me

ni bansan meyasa only married men ke ta asking dina out bah ,pls young guys me ya faru ne

Have you ever thought someone was the right person and then they start misbehaving?

have you ever dated someone and you think the person is the last bus stop,buh suddenly the person starts behaving like roundabout?

Men I have dated always go away at the point of getting elders involved

Am always into a serious relationship for months and years komai Lafiya qlw ,buh as soon as mazan nan suka ji maganar is serious (maganar elders) the...

My boyfriend wants us to visit his mom, i need advice

assalam. Dan Allah shawara nake so ku bani... boyfriend Dina ne yace yanaso muje nawa mom din sa gaisuwar sallah... ba'a mana Engagement ba...Ni kuma ...

I am 23, she's 17... We want to get Married

Can a guy of 23 get married to a girl of 17 who truly love each for the sake of Allah, and how would they try and convince there parents for agreement...

How Can we Secure A future together

" I and My Bea Have Been Together For Years Now. But We Still have this Feelings of Excitement Stage .our love is so unique.it Is Agreed By All Aroun...

Should a Boyfriend Gift his Girlfriend?: My Opinion

Assalamu alaikum ya a'hibbayi Barkan ku da Sallah kuma Allah ya Kara maimaita mana Ameen 🙏 recently I noticed a growing number of ladies comparin...

Why do some men just leave without letting you know why?

wlh ba turancin dan zan yi😑 Dan Allah Dan Annabi Maza if you are no more interensted in a lady aw ashe nace bazanyi turanci ba idan bakwa raayi kuk...

Why do women act like this in relationships?

Maza ku matso muji ra'ayin ku akan wannan maganar. kunga duk maganar da Mata suke Yi concerning ana rabuwa dsu duk su suke Jan hakan, could you imagin...

Why don't women want being accountable for their wrong doings?

Assalamu alaikum. Wato babbar matsalan wasu matan they don't want to be hold accountable for their wrong doings and they don't want to be corrected. ...

let her know her mistake don't just ghost her (For men)

When you are having relationship with someone, I guess you both should be open to each other most especially Maza Idan kana relationship da mace, we ...

My fiancé has never spent anything on me, advice me

yanxu kusan 1 year muke betaba bani Komai ba ko credit nawaya kuma Yaxo gd maganar aure 😭💔kowa ya amince , but Ina tsoran auranshi Amman walla...

Pls yazan tambayi boyfriend about his plans for our Marriage without him thinking i'm desperate

inason nayi magana da boyfriend Dina yafito iyaye su shiga maganar but banason yaga kamar am desperate ne cus just few months ne da haduwar mu and ban...

How can I approach a lady I met through Bolt?

I’m almost 25yrs, as a man i have never date anyone, because I only concentrate on my studies. Just of recent I have finished my studies and luckily...

this is love ko MUGUNTA? He doesn't want me to complete my school or work

Assalamu alaikum,hmm Is this love ko kiyayya,we have been dating for 3yrs yaso Muyi aure Ina gama secondary school sai wani aiki ya fita da shi kasar ...

Is it Normal how my boyfriends reacts when I talk about financial matters?

Nighty Night People. I have a Question .DanAllah wai yan matan kano na tambaya ko amsar kudi a wajan saurayi ne 😂 Dan ina fara maganar I will buy t...

MEN AND THEIR HOBBITS 🥺

After gathering all the courage and energy to open up and tell him that I'm in love with him 🥺 he end up asking weird questions like(can you stop ...

Is it okay to for a 26yr old lady to reject a 28yr old Man?

slm,pls what is wrong in saying as a 26yrs old that you won't or u don't want a 28 years old to marry,shin yin hakan ba dade bane?

Why do some ladies & men treat their lovers like trash?

when a young person tell you he loves you and he/she is serious about you and your sure of that then you treat him/she like trash and you know he/sh...

My opinion on Bauchi men 😂💔

Assalamu Alaikum wa Rahmatullah I know this post is going to be controversial so I want to start by saying calm down! 😂 Bauchi men are a different ...

A big danger in love

One of the biggest dangers in close relationships is assuming the other person is exactly the same as you in their feelings and thoughts.

I think Dating is fun even if it doesn't work out

Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr Right.

Love without Convo

Have you ever loved someone so much but find it hard to have a conversation with the person? like you both love each other a lot but you don't really...

single

concerning the group of single at 23 should we create a WhatsApp group (ladies only) where we will console each other and be good friends.

Ina cikin damuwa (depression) a rayuwa ta

Allah sarki Rayuwa Rayuwan wasu naburgeni Yadda zakaga yaya da uwa sunajin dadi suyi pictures ai dariya Amma nidai bansama wanan ba mahaifiyanmu tayim...

Should I marry him or just focus on my school?🙏🙏

Aslm Ina wuni Dan Allah shawara nake so abani There was this guy da na hadubda shi bayan na zana jamb exam Dina, very freindly nd nice wlh.muka fa...

why is it hard for female doctors to find someone that supports their career in Arewa?

why is it so hard for a female Doctor to find someone that's trustworthy, loving & supportive? especially towards her career in Northern part of Niger...

Why is it easy to be in a relationship than getting married?

alot of times I've met people who want a relationship with a man/woman but don't see a future with them... why?

I think tall girls are more lovely and caring than short girls

I come to realize is better to date tall girl Dan short girl. saboda tall girls they are more lovely and caring. than short girl. yawan chi guntayan M...

WHY DO MAJORITY OF LADIES ALLOW THEIR PEERS TO INFLIENCE THEIR RELATIONSHIP?

Many ladies fully or partially take their friends's opinions when it come to choosing who to date ,what I mean is that, if a lady met who she truly l...

Falling in love with a broken woman

There's no greater tragedy like falling in love with a broken person,someone who has been hurt badly in the past ,someone whom love has failed and th...

what kills relationships? lets discuss

What kills relationship slowly, let's discuss so that we can learn from each other.🙂😥 🤍🖤🥰🌹

How can i politely inform a Lady i can't marry her?

Please how can I respectfully tell a lady I can't marry her though I like her but not like like for marriage. we are okay with each other but I'm heav...

How can i Lessen my Jealousy for him? 🥹🥹

My fiancé and I have being dating for more than a year now,we are getting married in four months Inn sha Allah 🙏 this guy loves me and my family w...

I think love is never enough!

I was in a relationship with this guy. We clicked instantly and it was all roses without the thorns until he went back to their state. We chatted, tal...

Have you ever let someone go because they deserve better?

Have you ever been with someone who loves you with all her heart and will literally do anything for you, someone who doesn't want to see you hurt, som...

Whom among these two ladies i'm dating should i choose for Marriage?

So i hqve 2 ladies am dating and having plans on settling before the year runs out inshallah. The issue is that i know know which one to settle with. ...

How do you ask a guy out as a lady?

How do you ask a guy you love out

How to innocently give her butterflies 🌷

How to innocently give her butterflies -Tell her to be safe when she is out.😊 -Hold eye contact when talking to her😻 -say her name at the st...

Let's chat

Any one here???.. let's chat.suppose to be chatting with my guy by now😂,Amma tunda Allah be kawo ba ya na iya☹️🥺

Idan naji zan shiga soyayya, se na je na duba breakup post and re-think

Wai dan Allah nika daice idan naji zanfara son mutum deeply nake zuwa na duba breakup and heartbreak post na dawo hayyaci na just a question

How do you give space in a relationship?

how do u give someone you're so much in love with space?

DO LEFT-HANDED PEOPLE MAKE GOOD PARTNERS?

Left-handed people seem to have special talents especially adapting in a world designed for right-hand people. Does this special ability also manifest...

my regret so far

I have this guy I have been dating for over 4years kenan jiya ,I was told that he has gotten married Kuma am I'm owning 5k,he refused to give me my mo...

regretting falling in love with a narcissist

I fell in love with a narcissist 4years back,we started the relationship when I was 17years,I saw many red flags which I ignored,he's a critical woman...

He wants to leave after I have fallen in love with him, I need advice

Dan Allah kubani shawara🙏🏿 akwai wani guy da aka hadamu cousin brother shine yahadamu, last week yazo garinmu Wllhi yana ganina yaji yafara sona...

should I continue with this relationship or not

there's this guy I really love he's a final year student in the university. wataran muyita magana Muna hira sosai kusan kullum watarana kuma sai mu da...

what you should do if your partner makes you sad often in a relationship

If you think of your partner/relationship and you automatically become sad and moody, Then you dating the wrong person. Move on!!! The more you del...

why will ladies be jealous over someone that is not even her guy

Wai maiyasa wasu mata suke jealous when so ever you're talking to them about your girlfriend ko kace zaka mata abu ko zaka kaita wani wuri sai kishi d...

im confused i dont know if he still loves me or not

as salam alaikum yan uwa... akwai wani Dan uwan best friend Dina data hadamu ya kirani mun munyi Mgn muka fahimci juna munyi 3 months hk Amman bamu ta...

what does it take for a lady to be Romantic in Relationships?

Assalamualaikum hope each and everyone is doing fine.. please what does it take to be Romantic in a relationship how can I be Romantic in a Relationsh...

why iz it hard to find wify if u are ready to settle

me yasa yake da matukar wahala ka samu matar da zaka aure idan ka shirya kana son kayi aure ba tare da bata lokaci ba? mutane na fada cewa idan kana ...

He's serious for marriage but im not attracted to him because he hasnt got game

Salam alaikum. so there's this guy that I started talking to, he's the introvert type, barely talks. my biggest issue is he has no experience with rel...

girls and sincerity of thier relationship status

when starting a relationship I always ask a lady do u have someone serious with you. the answers is always no, am a too serious lover and very jealous...

Why are Men Scum?

I don't know if I am cursed or what why is it that everything and every idiot out there wanna sleep with me? hey I am not doing anything wrong, I am...

Maza masu zuwa wajen zance hannu biyu

I have a question . why do guys come to visit a lady without bringing a gift ? pls hear me out before thinking mata nada kwadaye how can a man mai Ne...

Overwhelmed & don't know who to choose for Marriage

Salam Call me Listo please(thats my company name). Guys a little me about me first. I am tall, slim, beautiful, elegant, amazing, educated, resourc...

Is my boifrnd stingy ko gwadani yakeyi

mun fara dating kusan 4 months ynzu kenan but ko airtime bai taba sakamun ba and bayan sallah nan parents zasu shiga mgnr ba wai inason abun sa bane b...

Just being on the phone with him makes me crave him, I need a solution please

Nakusa aure Amman idan muna hira awaya kawai se indinga jin wani feelings wallahi Narasa yanda xanyi 😭😩ko sunanshi natuna se inji wani abu arai...

💔 do you agree 90% of breakups are caused by women?

90% of relationship breakups are caused by women, true or false?

How do I deal with dating two girls? & i love them both

😌 ah I have this two girlfriends that i love whole heartedly, like my love to them is equal. I treated them equally but they're not aware of each ...

what's your opinion on Inter tribal relationship/marriage between Hausa & Yoruba

Assalamu alaikum Please is it ok as a Hausa lady to date a yoruba guy or even get married to one? some yoruba guy have been following me but I don't r...

Dalilan da ke sa mace Tara Samari

Akwai dalilin da yasa mata suke tara samari, sai dai kowa da nata dalilin kamar haka: 1. Wata tana tara samari ne saboda tana tsoron ta so mutum daya...

Why do people's feelings & intention change during a relationship?

from the beginning, a lady wants true love and happiness and stuff and a guy wants friendship but why at the end it gon be a lady wants to be friends ...

After we separated, she contacted me after a year

after long separation between me nd her since last year October she wish me on my birthday than I wish her because our birthday is in same month, ah s...

lesson learnt the first time i fell in love

{Lessons learnt from the first time I fell in love} I was 18,fresh out of secondary school with high expectations and hopes for my future . I starte...

Love and career building

Assalamu aliakum Ya ibada da fatan Allah ya karba mana I wanted to get some advice from you Am an architect by profession and runs a small con...

Please bayan months nawa yakamata asaka iyaye

kamar month nawa ko shekara yakamata namiji ya tura parents nasa gidan su wacce yakeso??

I am obsessed with him, what can I do please?

salam alaikum guys,so when someone tells me he's in love I used to laugh because I never really believed in love sometimes I just get into relationshi...

Lessons i learnt the first time i fell in love(2)

Cont'd After being assigned to teach the secondary section Islamic Religious Studies,I made a resolve within myself to keep whatever hidden feelings I...

Feeling Lost

Sometimes I wonder if certain things happen for a reason or we are just facing the consequences of our actions... I am a 25 year old lady who life is ...

Lessons i learnt the first time i fell in love

I was 18,fresh out of secondary school with high expectations and hopes for my future . I started a teaching job so that I can have something to do w...

Why I think there is need to experience breakup

I FINALLY AGREED THAT U NEED ONE SERIOUS BREAKUP FOR CHARACTER ENHANCEMENT AND DEVELOPMENT ,,,,,

How my 6 years relationship ended 😭😭

😭😭 I have to end a long time relationship of about 6yrs💔 I had this guy we have been dating for about 6yrs🥺I loved him so much actually a...

chubby girls want to be loved to

I just noticed that on this app most men are looking for slim girls and all that and tbh that's okay no judgement on that but what about the chubby wo...

I ended our relationship after finding out he is a liar.

Early last year I met my ex boyfriend that happened to be the worst relationship i have ever had. we actually met on Snapchat, he happened to be a ver...

Know your Genotype before Marriage 😭

😭 😭 am speechless 😶 Genotype yana raba mutane dayawa plss knw ur genotype before a fara relationship ba Sae anyi nisa ba kowa yafada tukunn...

Was i wrong for not telling him the truth about my past? I feel guilty

There is this guy, we have been dating for like 1 month now. I love him so much, I love him more than myself. I mean he is pure, calm, religious, ve...

Yana so ya hada ni gida daya da matar shi, abunda na roka laifine?

Assalam. fatan kowa yana lfy ? dan Allah ku ban shawara. ina da saurayi mun hadu dashi yana da wata budurwa. haduwa ta dashi ya nuna mun zai mãta wu...

Is it only me imagining marriage life with everygirl i come across

Aslm yanuwa shekaruna 26 ina da matsala da zaarar na hadu da yarinya sai najini ina ta imagining future na da ita ko gaisawa nayi da mace sai na fara ...

What willed your feelings for someone you were madly In love with?

What willed your feelings for someone wou were madly In love with?

My sad infatuation experience 😭

Some times back I wrote about "My Infatuation Story" then, i was full of emotions which made me share the story. And here I'm also writing today out o...

Is it Normal to just loose interest in someone?

Well I have been willing to ask this to the public maybe just maybe I will get the answer to my predicaments. Well is it normal for a person to be wit...

He said its too early for him to meet my parents, i need advice

Alhamdulillah I've always gotten a positive feedback from this forum and am forever grateful to the kindly advices. Am in a relationship with a marrie...

How the guy i'm supposed to Marry got married & told me it's his immediate broda

So I met this guy last year (2022), a month after our meeting he kept insisting that he wants to move things to the next level and wants to go home, I...

Breakfast (heartbreak) #3

There’s a reason I am telling this story there are some lessons in it😊 but before that let me tell you the funny part😹😹😹😹 nobody ev...

Breakfast (heartbreak) #2

Mind you this person on green lights from each and every corner they know you will notice😢 hmmm you start staring at their picture becoming more ob...

Breakfast (heartbreak) #1

Last year breakfast was nominated as international cake😹💔💔💔 But what do we call one sided breakfast? I mean when the love is one sided a...

Friend request

Asslm. it has come to my notice that I have been living a lonely life... I only know the road to my office then back home everyday from 9am to 8-9pm.....

I have fallen for someone and its crazy, is this love?

guys I cannot withhold my emotions any more, I feel like I should hear an advise from someone, there is this guy, he's a twin, he's cute, admirable, l...

I just hope my soulmate locates me

kutayani addua Allah yasa soulmate dina yayi locating dina

why do i look like a side piece to guys?

Alhamdullillah I am beautiful and well shaped and believe me, I am thoughtful, romantic and intelligent but everytime someone comes to me it's either ...

I never fell in love coz am waiting for Mr right

Iam 22 and I have never fall in love with a man ever since am in teenage stage because of my silly reason 1 is I want my first love to be my husband a...

I gradually lost interest in relationships due to some sad realities

Salamu alaykum... I don't know where to start from....I'm just simply confused and I don't know what to do about it...growing up I've always seen marr...

Why do you ppl normalise haram in the name of relationship?

It just doesn't sit well with me, I mean if you really like someone do you have to do all the haram things together before making it halal?

Im dating myself, Right?

I met this guy 2 months ago (he's a civil defence officer). last month he said he's too busy at work and not allowed to pick calls in front of his Oga...

I am scared of getting hurt by love again💔

I want someone to love me for who I am but I'm afraid to open up and to get hurt or to hurt again. What should I do?

How i uncrushed a crush

I don't know if I'm the only one on this table lol so I met a guy on social media (won't disclose) at first it was cool like we chatted and called eve...

Should i end this relationships?

hmmm

I so much believe in fairytale

inata addua Allah yabani Wanda xe Sona,Sona gaskia I mean Wanda no matter what we'll stand by each other with little adventure and also love and car...

MATA SAI ALLAH

since 2020 ehna single dina kwatsam my cousin sister ta shiga rayuwata through face book mu ka fara chat har muka yi exchanging numbers before ma tin ...

Ma'anar soyayya ayanxu

Soyayya tana nufin Yan karairayi Dan sakonnin waya bar kwanci da Kuma Gift . soyayya ya kasance saikayi karya kafin kasa masoyinka farin ciki . Gaskiy...

How my relationship ended

just when I thought I have found my partner for life, someone I love for the sake of Allah....we connected on all kinds of level, someone I found a be...

am heart broken 💔

pls kutayani da addua it's unbearable 😭

who wins a girl heart easily

funny guy handsome guy rich guy romantic guy a guy who knows how to cook

my boyfriend stopped calling me yau 2weeks kenan

hey...I have this guy he love me so much and each time we fight he stopped calling me sometimes har 3months mukeyi kafin ya kirani I hav been giving h...

Why i think ladies are craving for relationships and are tired of single lifes.

In today's day, we have relationship stuffs all over Instagram, TikTok, Snapchat and even among people staying close to us.It then make them start wan...

What's the Ideal relationship time?

Salam, I have a question. what do you think the ideal time for relationships are? is it the same for all women? or is it different for single girls an...

Will I ever find Love?

I am not a bad gal, but why do I feel like I am incomplete, something doesn't feel right. I have this crazy fantasy of the kind of spouse I need or wa...

WHY DOES WE FACE CHALLENGES AFTER ONE STRONG RELATIONSHIP

sometimes After one strong relationship After we break up then goes into another relationship we find it unsatisfied. The main reason is "Those who w...

can you date a Guy not fluent in English?

no offence please but ladies can u date q guy dat is not fluent in English?

should I end or continue this relationship??

ok I've been with this guy for over 2yrs now,I don't know if I should call it dating but I think we are dating ..lol. Well he is a nice nd soft spoken...

My Infatuation story

At around April 2021, I met with a person on Twitter. I always admire him, his ways, the styles, intelligence, smartness and all. And so I decided to ...

please kana tare da saurayi kana tambayanshi when zega iyayenka se yace wani abu

advice pls

Akwai Love a nan?

Muna tare kusan shekara 12 yanzu, yayita min wasa da hankali for 10yrs.. amma duk inda nake sayya bini....har danaje karatu kasan waje saida ya bini. ...

Narasa me so na na gaskiya

Muntaso tare shekarum daya 23 years tunda mukarabu saboda za a bata wani dan uwanta nayi kokarin na dena soyyaya saboda munsaba 4 year muna tare muna ...

Why do men take ladies who make the first move for granted?

Aslm mesa mutane na cewa kar mace tabari na miji yasan tana son she please and kuma mesa daga mace tanuna tana sonsa sheknn zai bude kofan wulakanta t...

love or food?

Pls what's sweeter between Love and Food😅. To me I choses Love❤️

Is it a good idea to date your sister's friend or brother's friend ?

As a lady ,can you date your older brother's friend ? As a gentleman can you date your younger sister's friend ?

Tambaya

Assalamu alaikum wa rahmatullah! Ina kwananku! Nikam tambaya ce nake da ita ga maza da mata. MAZA Me ya sa har yanzu wasu mazan ba za su waye su ding...

I don't know what to do kuma wlh I love this guy

Good Afternoon plz share this and hide my ID I don't know what to do shawara nake nema muna soyaya da guy dinan Barr ne nimah law nake karatu a cour...

CAN TEENS GETS MARRIED?

Can both the male and female who are teenagers get married though they will be guided by there relatives, or so. Though they are both in love with ea...

Ku ban shawarae yanda zan rabu da ita

Salamu-alaikum. Nayi kimanin shekara 3 muna soyayya da wannan baiwar allan. Toh yanxu mahaifiyata ta nunan tana sha'awar na auri cousin dina wato 'ya...

Never been in a relationship.

Few days ago someone made mention that he has never been in a relationship and some people found it odd despite his age. The incident got me thinking;...

Marrying at young age or marrying at a teenage age

If teenagers are in love, Is its allowed to marry at d age of teens like both d male and female are teenagers are they allowed, to avoid all such of t...

DanAllah taya ake gane asiri i think ive been affected

so there's this guy I've been dating for years muna son juna sosai sai yafara dating friend na thou nasani but kawai Ina kallon su yanxu time da Yayi ...

PLEASE WHAT TYPE OF LOVE DO YOU THINK THIS IS🙏😢💔

Assalamualaikum warahmatullah! Greetings to you all, please I need clarification on this matter, when I start to know this man I actually don't want m...

what are you looking for in a partner?

what are the things that will match your mental health, your vibe's, what your wishing your soulmate to be / have....

Ladies! What you should do when he finally comes into your life

Dear Daughter, When you finally meet that one guy who sees beyond your flaws, treats you better and makes you whole again. NEVER question his mo...

why do intelligent people struggle with love?

Why intelligent people struggle with love?

how do you cope with life after series of heartbreaks.

Aslm guys. I desperately want to knw how ppl cope after heartbreak. my problem is i love hard, nd its not funny. y do our hearts gets broken again nd ...

I am Heartbroken🥺💔

Have uh cried, cried and cried when he/she served uh breakfast?? innalillahi, she served me a very hot breakfast🥺💔😭

ALLAH YA KAWOMUN MAFITA....!

na kasanche inada neighbor yana Sona tin ina yarinya, se na girma lkchin y yayi sure,yanada yara 2,still y Nemo number n yache yana Sona, to muna tare...

Re: What physical characteristics do you seek for in a spouse?

Assalaamu alaykum wa rahmatullaahi. First of all, thank you for that question sister. And thank you for being vocal about the subject. I'm a guy by t...

What mistakes did you make in your previous relationship?

Most people when asked questions regarding why their previous relationship didn't work they tend to put the blame on their exes. But if we are going ...

I have lost interest and want to break up with her, Advice me

Yau kusan shekara 2-3 in a dating yarinyar nan, amma walh ni yanxu bana sonta sosai kuma ban zaton zan aure ta. Don kyau ba lefi tanada kyau, macec...

Cubby girls need love also !!

I just feel like I have never been with a guy that loved me for me .it's bad really because I was talking to 2 guys that I was talking too at differen...

whats a good age gap between couples?

please my question is what is the correct age range between boyfriend and girlfriend to get married he's older than me with 5 years. I guess it's ok b...

Guys read this out please

please is it just me or kowa ma haka yake gani? why is it that a guy can't help you fissabilillah ( not talking about money) without him asking for yo...

what has got into men fisabilillah

wai meke faruwa da maza ne yanzu, da anga mace tana da dan kyau ko tana da shape, bugu da kari ace ma tayi karatu, ko tanada wani wayewa na rayuwa shi...

y is true love so hard to find

I'm giving up on love already........like y is it so hard to find true love......it just seems like everyone is after one tin or the other.....ppl dat...

My relationship is getting bitter

My Relationship is getting better by the day, she's giving me multiple thoughts and she hates me talking about break up, I don't know what to do.

He wants to be intimate with me & our marriage is already in process

Assalamu alaikum... am here to seek for advice and prayers, am in dilemma, I have a boyfriend that we have been in a relationship for like 8yrs , but...

Family and friends are pressuring me to have a girlfriend

Friends sunsani agaba wai don banida girlfriend sometimes they make fun of me wai nacika tsoron mata ga gida kuma Suma ba dama adan fara magana shiken...

i want to marry a Christian girl

Christian girl are very attractive and gorgeous I will love to marry one of them but when so ever I told my mom about it she's against it wai duk mata...

Men, what's the most romantic thing you've done for your woman

Men, what's the most romantic thing you've done for your woman. Read mine in the comment.

I am dating a barrister and she doesn't apologize, are they like this?

Why is it that if you are dating a lawyer she will never apologize for been wrong, I had this experience with two and my friend is also complaining

What's the truth about this

Idan kaga budurwa tana istihara akan samari biyu to dukkansu talakawa ne. idai dagaske ne Guys anima kudi

Barristers why are you like this

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Is there anyone who dated like i do??

Aslm Alkum, I hope all is well with uh? so am gonna ask ne pls. Ni am kinda person wnda idan ina dating lady I don't usually calls sai chat, amma...

the story of my relationship.

slm, everyone hope y'all are having a wonderful time. the main reason I'm writing this post is to share my testimony. once upon a time I met a very k...

I need advise on this issue please

Yau shekara 3 kenan da barin Nigeria nazo Germany Masters kuma na fara aiki anan. Toh ina bukatar na auri mace mu zauna. Shine se wata Kanwar mama na ...

advice pls, should i break up with him?

so I have a boyfriend that I love so much but the problem now is that this guy doesn't give me is time or attention again at all like before or if I c...

Dear men, value what you've got

Look at your girl. You see how good she looks? You see all the awesome qualities she's got? Now imagine another guy enjoying her and you not meanin...

Yau naga abin mamaki.

...

Relationship

as a guy looking for relationship, should facial looks, endowment and age be a barrier ? as a lady should facial and body structure, financial stabili...

there's someone here am in love with.😍

actually I met a lady here and alhamdulilah she's good looking and presentable but she to like whyning she too like cruiz and I've done all the possib...

I AM A SAPIO ( Intrigued by intelligent conversations)

I am intrigued by intelligent conversation, i am having it difficult to date anyone that comes or give chance to. I am a health worker, i like someon...

I Need advice please (My boyfriend doesn't want me to further my education)

I have a boyfriend and I met him through my sister's boyfriend like saurayin yayata ya hada ni dashi before we met I have a boyfriend we really love e...

Is It Bad ?

there Is This Thing am Not Comfortable about But am Just Doing It To Save My Self And The Other person.... Most Ladies i Come across Show Interest In ...

People should learn to Date those in their social class

I don't know koh ni Kade abin ke damu but some people are just something else from the look kinga or kaga mutum u know that person is not ur type ever...

Will anything Come out of This?

Hi Guys, I Have this one guy on my Dm that sends me Reels everyday, 3 -4 reaels each day, reels that makes me laugh, reels that teaches a woman how to...

LADIES WANT SOMEONE RELIGIOUS BUT DON'T WEAR HIJAB

Assalamu Alaikum Warahamatullah, I come across most ladies profiles, categorically seeking for religious husband, but when you send them request and c...

Prayer Request

Salaam, I'm kindly requesting anyone that comes across this post to say a du'a for me. We are trying to take the important step in our relationship bu...

finding it difficult to fall inlove again.

I literally want to settle but I don’t know y am I finding it difficult to fall in love again, no lies I’m still not over my Ex more than a year I...

Some things women should know about Men

1 me yasa mata kuke tunanin namiji zai iya maki lalurar 50k above ba tare da zaeyi benefiting ba🌚? 2 shin namiji ya taba baki 50k above ba tare da...

A Nigerian lady that wishes to marry An Arab man (Not halfcast)

Am a Nigerian that studied in one of the Arab countries, i like there lifestyles, especially in terms of treating their wives. Am hoping and praying f...

DATING A GUY/LADY ABOVE YOUR LEAGUE/LEVEL

I don't know if it's just me but I find this phrase of "dating above your League" kind of weird. I mean come to think of it, what is the league even a...

When Looking For A patner

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I love her only when I am horny!

I have been with this girl for almost 2 years, I don't really love her as a wife because of some reasons. But whenever I am horny, I will feel and wis...

WHY YOU SHOULD NOT GIVE MONEY TO LADIES YOU JUST MET!!

Stop being in a hurry to grant financial aid to ladies you just met, especially those you approached. Be intentional about the talking stage and ma...

Question??

What lessons have you learned from past relationships??

Actually want to marry someone better than my Ex

I have dated one of the most famous, cute and handsome guy on IG we dated for years even though after I get to know him better after few months of our...

PEOPLE ASKED THIS QUESTION MOST FREQUENT "DOES TRUE LOVE STILL EXIST??

Assalamu Alaikum I want to share this my story with u people, love is not like a business where it's give and take, when u love a pure love then u ne...

Bari muji Ra'ayin Ladies/Mata

Zaki iya cewa kina son namijin da kika ga ya yayi miki Kuma ya kwanta miki a rai? Idan amsan ki yes ne. Ki bamu hanyoyin da Zaki bi na cimma burin ki...

Allah ya aurar damu

Sweetheart kina Nan ne?

missing my feature wife

Dear feature wife ki bayyanamin kanki Dan Allah wallahi na gaji da wannan rayuwar gaurantakar hak

I am falling for her but i'm not comfortable with it

Am Single and Lonely , so I Join An International English Group Chat . Most Of People that Join The Group Are Trying Hard To Improve in English Langua...

How to do a gist with your girlfriend

Aslm Alaikum wallahi Ni damuwa ta shine Sai na kasa hira da budurwar da nake so Alhamdulillah I'm graduate and ina da ilimin addini Kuma har yanzu Ina...

Ever tried out Online Dating?

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I WANT TO SAY THIS OUT

I really want to say this out,about how people are misperceiving girls opinion on whom to marry. let me reveal the truth to you guys. each and every ...

wallahi I'd love to marry an hausa man some but scared

why is divorce very Rampant in Arewa

whats the financial stable that every girl in arewa up wants?

there's something I've been wondering girls will be talking financial stable man, does it mean if am not stable financially I'll not be loved?

You have Good qualities but won't be considered because you're from a poor background, meyasa?

why is that that yarinya duk kyawun ta kyawun hali koh ilimin ta indai har she’s from a poor background to baza a aure ta ba a baban gida koda koh s...

What men actually want(ladies! A must read)

Dear ladies I know many attimes after after a broken relationship or in a relationship clouded by misunderstanding and hurdles, you often ask your...

I wish people would be honest and say.

hey I'm coming into your life but,I have no intention of staying long,so don't get too attached.

i need advise on how to have a healthy relationship

I want to start a relationship what are the main abubuwan da zan kiyaye

Relationships of Nowadays

Relationships of nowadays is terrifying honestly, abin ya koma kamar dai Maza sune Mata and Matan kuma Sun zama Maza. After being Matched, they expect...

I want To Get Over My Ex

We Had a Misunderstanding With My Ex Which Is Almost a Normal Thing In Any Relationship. I Reach Out to Her After i Have Calm Down But She Refused to ...

Does true love still exist?💔

is true love still existing or not?😭

What is The best Gift to Buy?

Assalamu alaikum good morning fam. I think I have finally found the one Alhamdulillah 🤗 on this platform. I will be traveling within the month to m...

How to end things with her peacefully

The chemistry is no longer there, am very concerned on how she will cope if I end things with her. What should I do?

Some men prefer divorced over single ladies

Why is it mazan arewa prefer su aure zaurawa (DIVORCE) akan yan mata?????

Dear my latecomer husband.

how long should I wait for you.

do true love exist now???

I gave up on relationships countless of times I met guys I fell in love with but am never really lucky I have never met a guy that really loves me f...

My Relationship/Partner Fantasy

Who is with me ?. i Want a Patner that Plays Games Watch Anime Swims Dance ( For me ). Someone that i Can Play With me Like a Five year Old, Someone w...

Dear Wattpad and novel readers, have you found your partner ?

my fellow Wattpad readers, especially the girls, do you also fantasize about having a certain character as your man, especially those that are willing...

Body shaming ya chusa min tsoron approaching Girls

Assalam, as a matter of fact, bawai yabon Kai ba Am a cool guy, graduate sannan da Ilimi na na Addini daidai gwargwado. mutum ne Ni Mai Tsafta da kas...

I need advice, me & my boyfriend always fight over, even minor issues

Assalamualaikum I'm seeking for advice wlh I don't know what is wrong with my Boyfriend we can't go for a week without having an issue Kuma wlh min...

Dear men pls dont waste her time if your not willing to marry her

I have a boyfriend that we date over 4years ,so this guy travel to study ,at that time I was in SS1 hmm guys karkugan kalan soyayyah da muke because b...

Dear girls,

WHY ARE YOU NOT CRUSHING ON ME❓

As a final year student should I fall in love? Shawara nake so

As a final year student, ya kamata na fara soyayya yanzun?

I need peoples opinion on this please

Please is it normal to be having fights in relationship, like you hardly go 2 months without you having any problem

A MISTAKE I DID ABOUT LOVE THAT IM STILL REGRETTING IT IN MY LIFE.

LeT me start from the beginning years ago I was in secondary school SS3 you know most of the people when they reached SS3 class they will start acting...

heartbroken

Aslm plx meya sah maxa da yawa suke bawa mata wahala the moment suka ganeh kana mugun son su, it make me feel duk maza haka suke bansan dadin so bah c...

How long does it takes you to recover from a serious heartbreak

Heartbreaking

My Preference (Scale of...) of a Lady

I'm what majority will describe as slim. So a lot of guys might find my taste or preference(s) in a lady rather odd or weird, and would wonder how my ...

menene mafita

Shi takeso Amma bai shirya Aure ba Bata sonsa Amma ya shirya Aure Menene mafita ko shawara?😥😓😞

Muslim men i date, always hurt & disappoint me

I am writing this here cause I literally don't know who to talk to... I am a Christian girl but all the men who comes into my life are Muslims.... I d...

En matan arewa-up

I realize ba kowa ce mace ce is serious a wannan relationship din ba. Mace zata kawo kukanta nan platform din na rashin tsayayye Wanda zata aura. Sai ...

i'm contemplating on matchmaking

advice to match making on arewa app, Anyone had a good relationship that will lead to marriage here. I want to try the matchmaking but I'm skeptical b...

My Star

I want to say something regarding some post da na ga wani guy yayi about being afraid to fall in love again, after some encounter with a girl. I want...

my boyfriend suddenly changed, advice me please 😭

Please if possible i want to share my personal issue but please hide my ID i will be in the comment section please help me with that🙏 Almost 3 mont...

why do men like to avoid Single Moms as partners?

why is it so difficult for a single mom to find a life partner? are we not human? it breaks my heart when i see men runaway from the relationship or b...

Matching and Prospecting counsel

Hi all. I am a prospect in the match up forum and just want to share especially to the ladies on the actuality of relationship in today's world as i...

Is it good for a girl to tell a boy that she loves him?

Shawara nake nema na hadu da Muradin zuciyata irin mijin da nakeso in aura na gansa a ig two weeks ago na kamu da sonshi irin love at first sight zuc...

Why are men not interested in Widows?

I have realised that most men on social media or even in reality these days don't like marrying widows. They come with a different motive saying a wid...

Relationship Challenges

Please why is it difficult and highly challenging finding a girl that is yar gayu, mai hankali, mai biyayya. Most of yan gayun basu da tarbiyya, da nu...

Why finding a Virgin (Pure women) is difficult now adays

As Allah mentioned in the Holy Quran that ku aura na daga abunda ya kwanta muku a ranku and what budurwa mean a virgin pure. Wallahy mata ina baku sha...

Pain 💔💔

I don't know why i still.can't find someone whom loves me for the sake of Allah.I think i have dated almost about 5guys and now the 6th guy. Yet, am s...

Stigmatization Against Sickle Cell Warriors

Salams, I have been on this page for a while and I notice that most of the marriage request I see on this platform, are of people whose genotype are...

Sometimes it gets so lonely

Everyone of us is tested with one thing or the other. I believe my test is love/marriage. And Alhamdulillah I I have accepted my fate/my test in hope ...

A mistake I'll never repeat in my life is trusting a girl 100%.

my friends am always seeing complains about boys did this and did that nobody is talking about vhow girls do. I saw a lady passing in my area I got st...

Loving older men

Please where can I find a man who is between the age of 35 and 60 who wants to be in a relationship... I just feel I want something with an older man....

how my marriage was called off

I met this guy during lockdown and we started off pretty well. He met my parents last year and our marriage was fixed. his family and mine were cool. ...

i need a chat pal.

I need a chat pal. am a guy living in a difficult location is so boring here need someone who's constantly online on WhatsApp to keep me happy. mind y...

I broke up with my boyfriend after 6 yrs and haven't moved on (I am scared)

I was in a relationship with a guy for 6 years and we broke up January this year because of misunderstandings that when I think of it now it was not ...

I'm Extremely Pained!😭💔

Assalamu Alaikum warahmatullah. barka mu da war haka. I'm in Pain. I can't explain what I'm going through. amma ina fatan haka ya zama Alkhairi a gare...

why do men leave after making you trust and love them?

Seems I'm always not lucky in love.it's either the person is bad(sexual relationship) or good(switch up from being loviy,, starts giving attitude )......

Relationship At Age 13≤

Hello Family. I wanna ask a question please. Wai Yara Ƴan shekara 13 zuwa 15 na wannan zamanin sun san Relationship(Soyayya) ne ko kuma idona ne yake...

Love, Infatuation And Dreams... Time To Wake Up.

Hello fam, I’ve noticed on IG how girls will say they love so and so person very much and wanna marry the person, like girl... you don’t know t...

People misuse the phrase "I love you" anyhow

This phase is often misused... You just met a girl and the first thing you say is I love you. I don't know if am the only one but I find it repulsive,...

Help a sister

Those with pure heart always get heart break💔💔 why

how can I impress my lover when he chat me up for relationship

I am not the romantic type and ppl keep coming to me that they like me but I don't know how to make them stay so that they will love me very well as i...

Unfortunately i missed her number

Salam, Zaynab kontagora you deleted the account (muzz) just before i opened your last message, reach me via handle din arewa

Pls help me find him

Hi everyone Pls help me contact Namenj🥺🙏 I'm dying of his love 😭

MatchMaking, Friendship And The Lastest Trend.

The past few weeks has been filled with different requests from different people seeking to connect with their crush, seeking for friendship and also ...

is he the right guy for me? what are the things to consider

so I've been in a relationship with this guy for over a year now and it's kind of on and off because he usually leaves after an argument or something ...

Why is it that working class guys like me only meet idle ladies

I find it hard to understand why ladies that don't work or do business or have money wants to get married? how will they help the husband in the home?...

I fell in love with an imposter on facebook

I saw someone complaining wani a Facebook yana chatting da ita claiming to be BAFFA WAMBAI😤 Wlh nima same abunda ya mata haka yamun, first ya tura ...

Help a sister please

Aslm Good morning ma’am May Allah bless you and your family In Shaa Allah you will be rewarded for your good deeds thank you 🙏🏻 Pls hide ...

My boyfriend ignores when i talk to him about marriage, i need advice

asalamu alaikum guys, I'm so confused I don't even know what to do there's this guy I so much love we started dating 2018 we loved each other we can s...

I need advice on my relationship situation

I have this guy I love so much but people bad mouth him so much that it's started disturbing me about his womanizing behavior . I tend not to tell hi...

My Take On The Previous Post Taken Down

Someone posted a question about whether it's the same for a girl to be after a guy with money, as it is for a guy to be after a girl with good looks. ...

relationship

Assalamualaikum. pls I'm single and is disturbing me oooo

wlh i have being in love with waleed kibiya inasanshi sosai bansan yazanyi ba

dan Allah malama kiyi tag dinshi kuma dan uwa nane

am still single searching

dear future husband wat happen najika shuru

I got served Hot Breakfast and it still hurts

It's been 3 months that i got served a very hot breakfast but it still pains! i try to be occupied n busy but atimes senaji kamar naje nayi zage zage!...

I need advice on my relationship

so apparently I really I met this guy September, we started chatting and we became really close , along the line this guy told me we were 3girls in th...

I want to break up with my boyfriend

Salamu alaikum i have a habit of loving wholeheartedly and I always end up being hurt, whenever na fara so to da duk zuchiya nakeso and seriously i wa...

love is no more what its suppose to be

I'm just tired,love isn't favouring me🥺 I know I have a good heart but my weakness is used against me..Astagfirullah 😥

Advice

we have been dating with my boyfriend since 2020. my problem here is that I heard some rumors that he is getting married dama he comes from that kind ...

There's a new me!!

Assalamu alaykum, good afternoon Arewa MM.. I am an active member of the platform, i want to share something with the platform. Sometime ago u strongl...

An Advice

Assalampls ina neman shawara wurin yan uwana akwai wani friend dina Amma yanda muka saba ya zama kamar brother na coz munyi 15 yrs tare komai ina iya ...

my boyfriend thinks i cheated with his friend

I dated this guy since secondary but seems I love him most while dating I met his friend a very friendly one and became close to him.actually my bf ha...

Communication in relationships

Good communication is often underrated in all relationships, be it parent to child, siblings intending partners and even married couple.. Am a lady so...

relationship

dear future hubby, if you are ready drop ur contact: ammiratu1234@gmail.com Note : serious one please 👏

True love ????

I don't know if true love still exists

Sickle cell patient (warrior) goes through a lot

Salam I am a warrior I will just like people to know a little about us majority na lura we find it hard to have that special someone who is ready to s...

how will i make my crush know i love him

there's this guy I saw I started loving him I had pure love for him because if I get the chance with him I would love to marry him though he has a wif...

A breakup after years of true love

i met this girl some years back, from being jst friends to started dating like play like play, we really loved each other, we neva gt tired of each ot...

i need advice pls ????????

as salam alaikum. pls I want you guys advice I met this guy on arewamatchmaking we started chatting and talking on phone 📱 it was really good, so ...

my expectations in relationships & why do women get so emotional?

I don't know if this is a question or a rant but once you get into relationships, women get so emotional and start expecting somethings and i am not n...

how to approach a guy you like and think he likes you without sounding desperate

so there's a guy I met recently on social media, we've been cordial for about 3 months as friends. and we met for the first time few days back at a pa...

friendship

wai please how do people get to have so much friends abin na bani mamaki I literally don't have any friend to call mine and I promise u I am not a bad...

Where is my TRUE LOVE

I grew up in a loving environment.my parent were the happiest couple you could ever ask for, dou they had their ups and downs but we never saw that. T...

Should i proceed with this relationship?

I was talking with my girl friend who i intend to marry and she said if i was broke she wouldn't marry me, I said she is joking, me i must marry her, ...

Relationship Trauma

Assalamu Alaikum please help me call d attention of gentlemen and iyaye the fact that kana soyayya da mace irin long distance relationship dinnan and ...

advice pls

Am Confused To What I Should do... Am The Type that Loves & Care too Much. I know what i want in a Patner. so After years of Searching i meet this Gir...

Why do ladies fondly reject men but hate when the same is done to them

Recently, a girl proposed to me, and i sent her a text "sorry, i am not interested in you" but i could sense the anger and dissapointment in her respo...

Every relationship issue can be fixed

I can see that nowadays relationships are so fragile and many people have unrealistic expectations when it comes to a relationship (either dating or m...

meyasa wasu ma’auratan ke having extra marital affair

after all the other partner is doing to ensure that hankalin daya bai karkata yaje somewhere else ba? and zakaga ma atimes abinda suke samu inside the...

Relationship

what does it require for a successful relationship

Am confused

I met someone on dis website , he is everything I dream of n so much more , when I met him I was shocked coz in my life I have never thought is possib...

I need advice pls

Assalamualaikum good morning everybody how are you doing how is everything? Pls admin keep me anonymous.... So I need your advice on this please I met...

I LOVE, CARE AND TRUST TOO MUCH H

Seriously what am going through presently hurts me a lot... because I love and care too much... there is a guy I love too much and started feeling li...

Question

Please how do I get in touch with one's that send me request which I accepted. Tnx

How can I leave her in peace?

Ending of 2019, a girl proposed to me and we became friends. I used her a lot, slept with her and booked rooms several times to satisfy myself and she...

Need an advice please ASAP

Please what do u all think abt a female proposing to a male.Am currently in luv with a guy by I don't want to say anything to him yet bcs of our diffe...

Something i don't understand

Please someone should help me, miye yasa haryanzu banida girlfriend

Never been in a relationship

I am a lady in her early 30’s and has never been in a relationship before. I don’t know why men don’t approach me . I don’t know why most of t...

I need your advice please

Assalamu alaikum. Please help me and share this with yan aji I need advice please. I'm in relationship with this girl for almost 7 months now since ...

Why ist hard for me to find true love?

Am a type of guy thats too quiet and care alot, am too emotional, i dated about 3 times, all i end up with heartbreaks, they always take advantage of...

Need your advice pls

I meet a guy recently abu kadan sai yafara min fada nagaji da irin halin gaskiya just yesterday I was making call with my cousin bro sai yakira I cut ...

Complain

Why re men so heartless, why date a lady and deceiving her if ur nt ready for marriage. Pls if ur nt ready dnt commit or show fake affection. Pls than...

Betrayal

To my dear brothers and sisters for Allah’s sake if you are not ready to settle for marriage please stop wasting time and create hopes for people.Ya...

Ina ma maza kwarjini

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How to know who to trust/believe?

Salam, my story is short, i happen to be in my late twenties with no single boyfriend or suitor. My first real boyfriend was when i was 17, we dated f...

Your prayer matters!

Assalam. I've been thinking really too much these days, raised by a single parent (God bless our mother's), I have bachelor's degree and I'm also isla...

Advice to women/ladies/girls

Sometimes ladies end up single not because they are not ugly but because of there Ego. Sometimes u ladies should give men chance and u might end up ha...

What?s with men and slim, fair ladies

Most men I’ve come across have this criteria that if a girl isn’t slim, fair and has long hair then she’s not marriage material. I really don’...

Northern parents causing depression to their female children

So I had a boyfriend in 2018, though we're strong at first before he changed and I broke up with him February 2019 then we got back together at Novemb...

Prayers for a Sister

Okay,So I have this cousin that is in a relationship with a guy. They started dating immediately after breakup with her Ex(that way she still doesn't ...

I love my cousin. i want your advice

Slm yan aji Ina son wata cousin Dina ne amma na rasa yadda zanyi na fada Mata jam here for your advice's pls help

Divorc?e

Salam Alaikum Sisters n Brothers in Islam, please why is it that Divorcées are always not respected in a society and people will be looking at them a...

how he left me with a broken heart

Hello, really I'm not good at this kind of stuff, so my story started ending 2018, I met this handsome guy, and we started dating, I was 16 then, fres...

Heartbroken, pls where can i get a therapist in Abuja?

Salam please I don't know if I can get a therapists in Abuja that I can just talk too , I have just gone through a rough relationship, I was strong ...

Break up April fool on my girlfriend. is it too late??

today is 6th April already, i wanted to do a break up joke on my girl friend and see her reaction then joke about it later. but i want to hear your op...

LOOKING FOR A GIRL

I am 21 years old, from Katsina State studying law in Sudan??. In my life tunda aka haife ni ban taba yin budurwa (girlfriend) ba, yan gidan har tamba...

Am I just unlucky?

Every guy I have ever come across has just been terrible. All they want is sex nikuma it’s one thing I can never give any of them unless after nikka...

I?m confused on how to go about it

Well i need an advice please There’s this guy I’ve been dating for almost a year and half .we were the perfect couple goals and all ..infact i k...

i am looking for a girlfriend

Hello everyone ? please am looking for a girl who is interested in a dating relationship, if there’s any can we exchange phone numbers. I will also ...

Zuwa zance wajen na miji

hello malam khalifa how are you and all ? plz I want to ask yan aji something is it normal for a lady ta dinga zuwa zance gurin saurayinta?

i need Advice for my relationship

?slm Malam Khalifa an ini lafiya, Nb pls i am hre for a way out muna tare da beb dina for more than a year jiya kawai take nuna min hoton wani wai yac...

Seeking advice

Assalamu alaykum. Da fatan na sameku lafiya. Pls post this I need advice I am a young muslim female in my early 20s, Alhamdulillah ina da tarbiyya ta ...

Why cheat on someone you don't wanna lose, with someone you don't wanna keep?

Why cheat on someone you don't wanna lose, with someone you don't wanna keep?

Way out please

I’m the type with particular taste when it comes to girls (mai tarbiya, fara, siririya, doguwa). Now that I’m looking for a serious relationship t...

Me kuke tunani akan mace tace tana san na miji?

I just want to hear you guys opinion. do you think its okay for a girl to approach a guy? what do you think about it?

Is double dating to chose the best considered cheating?

Ina da boyfriends biyu amma they don't know about each other duk muna soyayya sosai Ina so kila zuwa nan da 3 month se jnyi breaking up da daya and re...

Am depressed

I need advice pls ,na kamu da son wanda bai damu da ni ba ,I never knew love can hurt this much I have tried all my best to get rid of him but my effo...

Saurayina ya min alkawarin aure, ze iya taba ni?

Ina da boyfriend we have been dating for 8month haka last month yace zuwa nan da wata 4 ze aure ni amma kuma se ya fara taba ni muna hug da kiss, idan...

Black magic

Salam I had a good relationship with my boyfriend then suddenly he stopped talking to me for about 8 months recently I found out that a girl did black...

Boyfriend

Salam i need advice My boyfrnd ne muna soyyayah but baida time dina no calls nothing no text messages ban taba mass magana akan hakan ba amma yana b...

Boyfriend

Inada saurayi, muna tare for almost 3yrs. Zamuyi aure muna son juna sosai. Yana so na kama ran shi, amma idan muka samu matsala sai ya fara mun ihu, s...

Bazan taba mantawa da itaba

Salam alaikum yan uwana maza da mata dake cikin wannan gida mai albarka dafatan kowa yana lafiya ? Allah yasa haka amin Banyi tunanin zansamu wanna...

Female friend

Salaam. In need of a female friend that I would gist, share ideas seek for advice and so on. Just friend relationship nothing more. I'm 30yrs old...

asking

How do I know if a girl truly loves me?

Should I move away or stay

Pls advise a sis saurayina ne yake ganin kamar banasonshi sbd shi babba ne 47 Kuma baqi ne ni Kuma ina nuna masa ba haka bane Amma yaqi yarda recently...

what will happen if you don't get married?

my girlfriend cheated on me after 3 yrs of relationship I am heartbroken and can't trust any girl again. Kuma all because the guy is from abroad and i...

DO NOT GHOST THE LOVE OF YOUR LIFE WITHOUT A VALID EXPLANATION

Have you ever walked away from a relationship whilst you were still in love with that person? How can you quantify and relate the problem, the ensued ...

Friendship or Cheat??

A Friendship or Cheat? There is this Girl whom we are attended same primary school (2004) with her, even then i can not actually remember her by fac...

I need advice

Slm NB, Barka da sallah, Allah maimaita. We were supposed to get married 22nd June aka dage zuwa Sept 28th b4 I stopped it all last week. I star...

I feel there?s an empty space what can I do

I broke up with my girlfriend a long time ago and since then I have been feeling empty inside me like there’s a part of me that’s missing I feel I...

I need an advice about our relationship with my cousin

Malama I need your advice and yan aji abt our relationship with my cousin.. Muna soyayya dashi amma no any sign of care, affection or anything, in na ...

I need advice

Pls i need your advice I has girl friend i love her so much i even want to marry her kuma itama tana sona na amma problem din shine batason yin magana...

what are signs a girl likes you (i'll prefer answers from girls)

i am friends with a girl very close we are both not married i want to propose to her but i am doubting and i know she does not have a boyfriend. bana ...

Is it okay for a Girl to propose to a Guy?

I like a guy he's my course mate gashi yanzu muna final semester I have tried to give him hints but no avail we have spoke a few times and I really lo...

WHY BLAMING BOYS ALL THE TIME

Wallahi sometimes is the ladies arouse it and after it happens people will saying blah blah blah. Because it happens to me but Alhamdulillah my God...

Samaria shaho

Wai meh yasa Idan aka ga mace na zuwa jamia sai ah dauka yar iska ce Ko kuma waye wanta yayi yawa.for instance ace ta hadu da wani sunyi exchanging nu...

Yammatan arewa

Why is that sai a sama friend dinka ranar aure and she won't even tell you, idan kuma kaji from wani source din ka tambayeta she will deny it as if it...

would you leave your average boyfriend for someone richer?

Me and my bf have been dating for about a year now, amma gaskiya be da kudi sosai, motar shi ma wata honda ce. amma last week wani guy ya karbi number...