Sep 15, 05:11 PM

curious

honestly, I’m curious. Why are we doing this? What makes you think you can find love like this? The only thing women care about is finding a financially stable man, good-looking, tall, and so on. Being God-fearing is just an addition. Seriously? Do you even hear yourself? What if you find all the qualities you want but then lose peace, support, love, and attention? I mean, for your relationship with that good-looking man to work, you must have these. And my question is what can you bring to the table? It’s because of this that we see so many divorces these days, we should all strive to make a change. Please, let’s stop this. to to

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Sep 15, 05:57 PM
Allaah knows best. May Allaah makes it easy for us all
Sep 15, 05:59 PM
You've expressed everything perfectly. It makes me sad to see a woman who seems only interested in talking to someone financially stable. It feels like they're not open to accepting an average guy who is working hard to improve his situation. I wish they understood how our parents started out before they achieved their success. all the best for them
Sep 15, 06:32 PM
User -} Sep 15, 05:59 PM
You've expressed everything perfectly. It makes me sad to see a woman who seems only interested in talking to someone financially stable. It feels like they're not open to accepting an average guy who[...] You've expressed everything perfectly. It makes me sad to see a woman who seems only interested in talking to someone financially stable. It feels like they're not open to accepting an average guy who is working hard to improve his situation. I wish they understood how our parents started out before they achieved their success. all the best for them
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it not only for the women even you men have your on fault it general
Sep 15, 07:24 PM
they don't want a hardworking man that has bright future. sai kaji ana fadin wai FINANCIAL STABLE bayan ita liability ce ko sachet water na one week ba zata iya cire kudi ta Siya ba
Sep 15, 07:25 PM
User -} Sep 15, 06:32 PM

it not only for the women even you men have your on fault it general

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Of course not 95 percent is woman fault. haba mana you guys should be fair for us
Sep 15, 08:49 PM
User -} Sep 15, 07:24 PM

they don't want a hardworking man that has bright future. sai kaji ana fadin wai FINANCIAL STABLE bayan ita liability ce ko sachet water na one week ba zata iya cire kudi ta Siya ba

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sayin this as if you are anything better, now if I ware to ask you what kind of woman you want the first thing you will say is "beautiful lady, slim, fara, goguwa " her good character will just be a plus that is if she has one make a change yourself
Sep 15, 09:08 PM
User -} Sep 15, 07:25 PM

Of course not 95 percent is woman fault. haba mana you guys should be fair for us

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we all have our own fault but all I am saying is we should all accept our mistakes and make a changes on our own we should all love for what really matters
Sep 15, 09:20 PM
are u fr real ? as in you don’t knw the answer ? as if men look out fr characters and good heart before looks… shi aure now adays se a hankali be it na soyayya ko kiyayya so better to cry in Dubai than smiling in the pits
Sep 15, 10:53 PM
User -} Sep 15, 07:24 PM

they don't want a hardworking man that has bright future. sai kaji ana fadin wai FINANCIAL STABLE bayan ita liability ce ko sachet water na one week ba zata iya cire kudi ta Siya ba

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you are making it look like the men do not also want a woman who has a business or something doing so that ta rage masa wani nauyin, kowa yana nima wa kanshi sauki ne both the men and the women. besides men are solely responsible for providing for the home.
Sep 15, 11:05 PM
User -} Sep 15, 08:49 PM
sayin this as if you are anything better, now if I ware to ask you what kind of woman you want the first thing you will say is "beautiful lady, slim, fara, goguwa " her good character will just be a [...] sayin this as if you are anything better, now if I ware to ask you what kind of woman you want the first thing you will say is "beautiful lady, slim, fara, goguwa " her good character will just be a plus that is if she has one make a change yourself
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🤣🤣🤣 hey young lady. am not that of men. I'm matured so bn damu ke black ce ko fara ba. but kowa dai Yana bukatar partner Mai tarbiyya da ilimi. shi Kuma financial stable Abu ne wdda ba'a samun da lkc cikin sauki
Sep 15, 11:05 PM
User -} Sep 15, 09:20 PM
are u fr real ? as in you don’t knw the answer ? as if men look out fr characters and good heart before looks… shi aure now adays se a hankali be it na soyayya ko kiyayya so better to cry in Dubai[...] are u fr real ? as in you don’t knw the answer ? as if men look out fr characters and good heart before looks… shi aure now adays se a hankali be it na soyayya ko kiyayya so better to cry in Dubai than smiling in the pits
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😂😂😂 yarinya knn
Sep 16, 12:05 AM
User -} Sep 15, 11:05 PM

😂😂😂 yarinya knn

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yara dai 🤣🤣🤣
Sep 16, 12:16 AM
User -} Sep 16, 12:05 AM

yara dai 🤣🤣🤣

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yarinya dai wato gwanda Kuma a Dubai😂😂 akwai sauran ki wlh.
Sep 16, 12:26 AM
User -} Sep 16, 12:16 AM

yarinya dai wato gwanda Kuma a Dubai😂😂 akwai sauran ki wlh.

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Yo is not my saying kawai fa karin magana ne Abeg amma fisabillahi if u not stable meysa zk aura yar mutane the poster sef misunderstood " finan stable" meaning
Sep 16, 12:29 AM
User -} Sep 16, 12:26 AM

Yo is not my saying kawai fa karin magana ne Abeg amma fisabillahi if u not stable meysa zk aura yar mutane the poster sef misunderstood " finan stable" meaning

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Indo kawai toh ke ba tare za ayi struggling a tashi ba😂
Sep 16, 12:33 AM
User -} Sep 16, 12:29 AM

Indo kawai toh ke ba tare za ayi struggling a tashi ba😂

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sbd yana yin kudi se amarya ba I reject it 😂 don't struggle with any man dem wicked and who be indo sef
Sep 16, 12:37 AM
User -} Sep 16, 12:33 AM

sbd yana yin kudi se amarya ba I reject it 😂 don't struggle with any man dem wicked and who be indo sef

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nooo na women wicked pass oo amarya Kuma ai abokiyar arziki ne😂
Sep 16, 05:46 AM
User -} Sep 16, 12:33 AM

sbd yana yin kudi se amarya ba I reject it 😂 don't struggle with any man dem wicked and who be indo sef

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now I think you understand very well what I meant by financially stable and besides why are you taking this thing hard all I am saying is we should try and make a changes rather than coming here looking for good looking and financial stable man and deep down we know that they are wicked all genders are wicked but we can make a changes by being good ourselves
Sep 16, 05:51 AM
User -} Sep 15, 09:20 PM
are u fr real ? as in you don’t knw the answer ? as if men look out fr characters and good heart before looks… shi aure now adays se a hankali be it na soyayya ko kiyayya so better to cry in Dubai[...] are u fr real ? as in you don’t knw the answer ? as if men look out fr characters and good heart before looks… shi aure now adays se a hankali be it na soyayya ko kiyayya so better to cry in Dubai than smiling in the pits
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then I don't think you are in the right place Kenan because no man here can carry you go Dubai just so you cry😂 they are not that financially stable 😀😀 my sister sometimes is better to just forgive and forget and keep positive mind always
Sep 16, 08:10 AM
the best way to describe that gender is that they love to complain and cry.. and are never accountable for their actions. If u think too much about them, u will only end up having headache
Sep 16, 09:44 AM
User -} Sep 16, 05:51 AM
then I don't think you are in the right place Kenan because no man here can carry you go Dubai just so you cry😂 they are not that financially stable 😀😀 my sister sometimes is better to just [...] then I don't think you are in the right place Kenan because no man here can carry you go Dubai just so you cry😂 they are not that financially stable 😀😀 my sister sometimes is better to just forgive and forget and keep positive mind always
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oya Oya I don't catch the poster na beating remaining...hold him hold him no let him escape
Sep 16, 11:15 AM
User -} Sep 16, 05:51 AM
then I don't think you are in the right place Kenan because no man here can carry you go Dubai just so you cry😂 they are not that financially stable 😀😀 my sister sometimes is better to just [...] then I don't think you are in the right place Kenan because no man here can carry you go Dubai just so you cry😂 they are not that financially stable 😀😀 my sister sometimes is better to just forgive and forget and keep positive mind always
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😂😂😂
Sep 16, 11:16 AM
User -} Sep 16, 08:10 AM

the best way to describe that gender is that they love to complain and cry.. and are never accountable for their actions. If u think too much about them, u will only end up having headache

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wlh
Sep 28, 08:36 AM
to be honest guys everyone has what he’s looking for in a relationship. now tell me, as a man do you only look at the religious aspect of the lady? no! you guys want an attractive woman, you want may be a slim, thick, fair, dark all these are qualities you look at in a lady. then what is wrong if I also go for what I like in a man? there was a time someone was telling me aii Zara tunda ke zaman aure zakiyi babu ruwanki da kyau Ko kudi koh ? I was like ok wacce bata son zaman aure Itace ke damuwa da kyau and kudi koh…he was like no that’s not what he means. to be continued.
Sep 28, 03:16 PM
User -} Sep 28, 08:36 AM
to be honest guys everyone has what he’s looking for in a relationship. now tell me, as a man do you only look at the religious aspect of the lady? no! you guys want an attractive woman, you want m[...] to be honest guys everyone has what he’s looking for in a relationship. now tell me, as a man do you only look at the religious aspect of the lady? no! you guys want an attractive woman, you want may be a slim, thick, fair, dark all these are qualities you look at in a lady. then what is wrong if I also go for what I like in a man? there was a time someone was telling me aii Zara tunda ke zaman aure zakiyi babu ruwanki da kyau Ko kudi koh ? I was like ok wacce bata son zaman aure Itace ke damuwa da kyau and kudi koh…he was like no that’s not what he means. to be continued.
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as a guy should I be honest with you?, when it comes marriage or settling down, a guy overlooks all that u mentioned. that's why u see a very handsome and rich man settling for sometime a "not too fine" girl, and people will be wandering. I'm not saying some men don't go for all that beauty, but just few. And when they realize she doesn't have the attitude to keep a man, it later leads to divorce. No one is stopping you from looking for a rich man, but just know that the rich man also has his own taste too
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