I?m confused on how to go about it
Anonymous Mar 29, 09:32 PM

I?m confused on how to go about it 0

Well i need an advice please There’s this guy I’ve been dating for almost a year and half .we were the perfect couple goals and all ..infact i knew he had alot of female friends around since before he met me so i felt I cannot stop him since i met him with them One sunny day I mistakenly went through his phone and i saw what almos choked me to death?..I didn’t really leave him afterwards because i was so inlove with himm and during that period we were father apart because I don’t really stay in the same town with him. So fast forward to early this year i went back to school and we reconciled and alll.Then he travelled ,and he is a kind of person that whenever he travels , we wll talk on the phone from dusk till dawn(you understand)But this time it was different,I understood that he had a lot of things to do and alll but that doesn’t mean he wouldn’t calll me,he wouldn’t reply my texts or even call me back. He doesn’t even call me at night like he used to whenever i complain he’ll be like he has alot on his plate ?. I still understood his point and forgot the whole thing..Then one day ,i came across another while i was going somewhere,like we clicked and became friends..The new nigga kept on calling me, we’ll talk from night till morning (nothing attached as at then)..you know how our heart is..The more we kept on talking ,the more i began to feel something for him but i discarded that thoughts because i was already in another relationship..Then it seems my bf heard abt the guy from God know where ,then he started calling me,checking up one me,asking me who i was talking to and so on??..And by then the other had already told me how he felt abt me , so i had to do istikhara ,after the istikhara i felt that i really likes the new guy..So the whole thing is i really love the new guy but I can’t really leave my boyfriend because he has done alot for me,stood by me and my friends ??..but he has become so toxic..please advice your girl!
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Mr. Aulaz Mar 30, 09:27 PM
my own opinion is that you should go with the second guy.. you have already seen negative signs from the first guy what if it gets worst after marriage and he's still around his female friends. who know if he already has a girlfriend but just want to keep you around?
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Anonymous Apr 2, 01:16 PM

Thank you so much But i still have alot on my plate you knoww💔 The 2nd guy here once dated someone i know sha(more or less like friends) not but we ain’t really closeee ...She post,I comment and repost..And when we meet we say hi and alll but we know nothing about each other’s personal life.. And I don’t really know , Arewa girls have a mentality that ,you can’t date your friends exx I’m confused sef
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