Am confused

I met someone on dis website , he is everything I dream of n so much more , when I met him I was shocked coz in my life I have never thought is possible to meet ur drm guy exactly like d kind of person u drm about . I was broken for more than a year I went tthru serious depression I was showing sign up depression again but after I met him everything changed I fall in love with him I wasn't depressed anymore I was actually very happy . Allah heal me completely thru the love I have for dat guy . My hrt finally was moved by someone I was able to love again, to feel love again. But ryt now he is ignoring me , keeping his distance from me I don't know what to do anymore and to be honest am willing to move on with my life if he is no longer interested am not d type that will cling to someone who is no longer interested am d type dat can move on no matter how much it will brk me , I respect myself alot . So am confused wallahi shld I give others chance or I shld talk to him first coz I don't want to hurt anyone feelings. And the true is I will run back to him as long as he is interested showing dsme energy again. And agidan mu anhadani da wani d guy is very nice everything but bcoz am in love with my guy i don't want to give him a chance to my hrt . And I have been praying so hard I don't know if the loml ignoring me is the sign from Allah that he is not meant for me.

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Ayesha audu

Mar 26, 10:54 AM

The thing to do is to also ignore him and move on with your life. If he's not reciprocating the same emotions or energy you don't have to bother. It can be possible he met someone else on the website or his eyes are on someone. Men generally cannot be trusted when it comes to relationships. Women are more trustworthy than men. No matter how sweet and genuine they try to make themselves seem remember there is a word called "Pretense". You see when you have a man, its enough to cross your fingers, but when you have a Man from Nigeria its necessary to cross your fingers and not trust unless with a concrete proof of his innocence.

Ummu Khadija

Mar 26, 11:10 AM

Ayesha audu Mar 26, 10:54 AM

The thing to do is to also ignore him and move on with your life. If he's not reciprocating the same emotions or energy you don't have to bother. It can be possible he met someone else on the website [...] The thing to do is to also ignore him and move on with your life. If he's not reciprocating the same emotions or energy you don't have to bother. It can be possible he met someone else on the website or his eyes are on someone. Men generally cannot be trusted when it comes to relationships. Women are more trustworthy than men. No matter how sweet and genuine they try to make themselves seem remember there is a word called "Pretense". You see when you have a man, its enough to cross your fingers, but when you have a Man from Nigeria its necessary to cross your fingers and not trust unless with a concrete proof of his innocence.

Thank you sister I will try to move on but to be honest I don't want to let him go . But I will try to move on inshallah

Ayesha audu

Mar 26, 12:54 PM

Ummu Khadija Mar 26, 11:10 AM

Thank you sister I will try to move on but to be honest I don't want to let him go . But I will try to move on inshallah

You are welcome, why don't you want to let him go?

Ummu Khadija

Mar 26, 01:00 PM

Ayesha audu Mar 26, 12:54 PM

You are welcome, why don't you want to let him go?

I don't want to let him go because of the fact that he is everything I want n it took me almost 2yrs to opened up to love again I thought I had finally found love that will stay . He is also going through his own problem I know that's not an excuse for him to start behaving the way he is . Plus am afraid of not finding love again not finding my drm guy again .

Ayesha audu

Mar 26, 03:07 PM

Ummu Khadija Mar 26, 01:00 PM

I don't want to let him go because of the fact that he is everything I want n it took me almost 2yrs to opened up to love again I thought I had finally found love that will stay . He is also going th[...] I don't want to let him go because of the fact that he is everything I want n it took me almost 2yrs to opened up to love again I thought I had finally found love that will stay . He is also going through his own problem I know that's not an excuse for him to start behaving the way he is . Plus am afraid of not finding love again not finding my drm guy again .

Ummu Khadija

Mar 26, 03:12 PM

Ayesha audu Mar 26, 03:07 PM

I understand but you can still give him some time and see, dont be too quick to cut him off. Just give him some space, if he's really interested he will make efforts to reconcile but if he doesn't aft[...] I understand but you can still give him some time and see, dont be too quick to cut him off. Just give him some space, if he's really interested he will make efforts to reconcile but if he doesn't after sometime then its a confirmation for you to move on.

Thank you very for your advice it is very helpful 😊

Ayesha audu

Mar 26, 04:11 PM

Ummu Khadija Mar 26, 03:12 PM

Thank you very for your advice it is very helpful 😊

U're welcome sister.

Anonymous #1

Mar 30, 02:33 PM

I will advice u to give him sometime, and talk to him to know what actually is happening. From there u will knw wat to do next.

Ummu Khadija

Mar 31, 04:57 PM

Anonymous #1 Mar 30, 02:33 PM

I will advice u to give him sometime, and talk to him to know what actually is happening. From there u will knw wat to do next.

Hameed

Mar 31, 05:20 PM

Ummu Khadija Mar 31, 04:57 PM

Thank you very much , that's what am planning to do . To be sure where d rlship is going. But he once told me he is not certain about our marriage coz of f things dat is happening in his life. But I w[...] Thank you very much , that's what am planning to do . To be sure where d rlship is going. But he once told me he is not certain about our marriage coz of f things dat is happening in his life. But I want us to have a final talk with him .

Allah ya zaba mafi Alkhairi.