Why are men not interested in Widows?

I have realised that most men on social media or even in reality these days don't like marrying widows. They come with a different motive saying a widow has an experience bla bla. Some just need a companion, a friend, a confidante. Most of us are still grieving. We need someone that will help our healing process. Having a good partner will help us a lot. And most of us are peaceful, because Allah has given us a major test in this life. Losing a partner is inexplainable. Imagine helping someone out of grief? Wallahi ladan da zaku samu ba kadan bane, balle idan akwai orphan(s). You guys are missing out big time. Allah Ya bamu abokanan zama nagari, wanda zasu zama mana sanyin idaniya, muma zamu zame masu alkhairi a rayuwan su. Amin.