My boyfriend ignores when i talk to him about marriage, i need advice
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Anonymous Nov 9, 09:27 PM

My boyfriend ignores when i talk to him about marriage, i need advice 0

asalamu alaikum guys, I'm so confused I don't even know what to do there's this guy I so much love we started dating 2018 we loved each other we can spend a day talking to each other on phone then my elder sister got to know we were dating all of a sudden she spoilt his name in front of my mom she always tells me to stay away from him to my own point of view maybe they he something with one of her friends after she told my mom then my mom called me and tell me to stay away from him then I managed to convince her that I love him and he loves me too then my mom said okay tell him that he can take the next step and send his people immediately after I told him he stopped talking to me and even if he does he talks rudely after some months we got back talking to each other then I bought up the topic of marriage again then he stopped talking to me after a while he started talking to me again then I asked him why did you stop talking to me the last time he was like because you were rushing things then after a while I recently told him to send his people so he was like the reason why he hasn't sent his people is because he feel my mom won't allow us to get married and even if she does it won't be now maybe in the next three year and he can't wait for that Because he's been pressured by his family members .guys do you think this guy is really interested in getting married to me or not
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Anonymous #2 Nov 9, 10:12 PM
He is not serious, Believe it
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Nasssss9 Nov 9, 10:29 PM
Honestly He is not serious At All!!
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Anonymous #3 Nov 9, 10:35 PM
You'll get sense may be when you see his wedding IV card....he has never loved you.... he's just been with you because he knows you love him
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Mbmustapha Nov 10, 04:47 AM
Leave with your dignity sister. This guy doesn't mean you any good. His reasons are insubstantial. I'm a guy, I'm telling you from a guy's perspective. Leave him.
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Anonymous #4 Nov 10, 06:31 AM
Hey abeg leave that guy he is not serious
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Ummeetaa Nov 10, 06:58 AM
He loves you but doesn’t want to marry you A man can love you for some reason ba lallai sai aure ba Poster pray hard id he’s khair zaki aure shi insha Allah
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Anonymous #1 Nov 10, 07:08 AM
am facing the same prblm sis......he shows all sorts of care bt wen ever I brought d issue of marriage we will definitely fight dat day
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Anonymous #5 Nov 10, 07:40 AM
like seriously? he doesn't even have a tangible reason, jst look at the lame thing he is saying... my dear he's ditched you not once but thrice and ur still there waiting for him to change positively sha my Nupe people say fire no dey burn person twice🚶🚶🚶
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Mahmoudah Nov 10, 07:55 AM
exactly wat happnd to me....i broke up with my gf just because i want to send my parents...it happns evrywhere these days.....
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Anonymous #6 Nov 10, 09:02 AM
yeah 😌 he loves yhu, but i don't think if he's interested in getting married to you. my sistr, a man can love a lady fr a reason Amma bawae so na aure bah. soyayya kala kala neh. Tell him if he's not ready kekam idan kinsamu wnda y shirya auren ki zakiyi and i don't thinks if ur mom have any problem with him a ynda kikayi bayani
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Hawwah Nov 10, 02:03 PM
some men just keep these kinda rship to while away time, or maybe he just enjoys ur company but nothing more!
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Anonymous #1 Nov 10, 07:53 PM

Allah dei ya kawomana sauki
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Aisha bingel Nov 10, 08:18 PM

Ameen ya Allah
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Anonymous #7 Nov 10, 09:58 PM

irony of life 😔 I lost my relationship that was waiting for the wedding day the very day I told her we would be staying in lagos since I work here in lagos.
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MrA Nov 11, 11:43 AM
one word for you “just leave him”
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Fatima Muhd Lawal Nov 11, 11:48 AM
the same thing that happens to me
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Ummi1162 Nov 11, 06:37 PM
A serious RED FLAG with a stamp. if care is not taken, the next thing you'll see is his wedding IV. pray and give someone a chance. we've been there too...
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Reerah Nov 11, 11:03 PM
Any relationship that does not look like it’s leading somewhere isn’t suppose to exist
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