Anonymous
Jun 25, 09:33 AM
Why don't women want being accountable for their wrong doings?
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Assalamu alaikum. Wato babbar matsalan wasu matan they don't want to be hold accountable for their wrong doings and they don't want to be corrected.
inada wacce zan aura date kawai ya rage in-sha Allah, to be honest she is a very quiet person and not expose as much as me, hira da itama yana bani wuya sabida she doesn't know what to say or how to treat a guy, amma tanada hali mai kyau. whenever I try to correct her behaviour sai tace na cika complain da mita. example, normaly idan mutum yana so ya kashe waya for some reason a lokacin da ake wani important topic, ai both male or female will say "please ina zuwa zanyi wani uzuri I will call later" amma it she will just say "sai anjima" as if she is not interested in the discussion, sometimes bata ma tsayawa taji koh naji me tace ko banji ba kawai tana faɗa sai tayi cutting call ɗin, koh sai ka gama dogon magana kawai sai tayi shiru bazata ce komi ba, sometimes kayita hello hello har kayi tsammanin bataji ne ashe tanaji. mind you tana sona fa kawai she doesn't know how to talk or treat a guy, which I understand.
Matsalata shine I am willing to show her how to do it but tana ganin kamar mita ne while na faɗa mata I just want our relationship to be good shisa. I know zan iya haƙuri da wannan halin nata but nasan in the longrun it will iritate me because aure ba wasa bane, I need to make sure she knows abunda bana so, so that to avoid unnecessary arguments.
To be honest ladies duk macen da take ganin gyara a matsyin yawan complain da mita shine yake sa maza bama son mu faɗi abunda yasa muke rabuwa da mace saide mu canza hanya kawai mace taji shiru, because their is no point in correcting someone that is not ready to take responsibility of his wrong doings, someone who sees herself as almost perfect and not want to change her ways.
Idan kun lura duk lokacin da ka duba social media profile, comment ko marriage request zakuga mata suna cewa wai "I WANT SOMEONE THAT WILL LOVE ME THE WAY I AM" duk lokacin da naga irin wannan sai nayi driya nace red flag, most of them suna nufin idan sunyi abu mara kyau don't ever complain or correct their bad behaviour, sai dai su a bar su yanda suke sai kace sune iyayen ka, amma wasu matan nasan ba haka suke nufi ba.
