pls i need you guys advice
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Anonymous Nov 15, 01:42 PM

pls i need you guys advice 1

good afternoon everyone pls there's this guy I meet through social media we have been dating since January we became friend after then we became best friend and now we're currently that was last year before we dated dating he just graduated this year he promised me that if he's done he would surely come and see my parents so we can be engaged he even introduced me to his sisters two of his sisters but my problem is that is it normal for a couple that are willing to get married to be discussing about what would happen like after we are married apart from food and how he would take care of me the other aspect?
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Anonymous #1 Nov 15, 02:44 PM
Islam allows getting to know a potential spouse in a respectful and modest way, as long as it follows Islamic guidelines. Discussing important topics openly, including expectations for life after marriage, helps in building a strong foundation. Asking respectful questions about intimacy and roles in marriage is permissible, as long as the conversation remains modest and focused on values rather than explicit details. The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said, ‘If one of you proposes to a woman and he is able to look at what will induce him to marry her, he should do so’ (Sunan Abu Dawood, Hadith 2082). This shows that Islam encourages careful consideration and understanding before marriage, within the limits of modesty and respect
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Fatima gaji Nov 15, 03:02 PM
it's normal to discuss your future plan even though only allah knows best,but as far as you guys don't cross the line
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