Am depressed
Relationship
Anonymous Sep 2, 01:04 AM

Am depressed 0

I need advice pls ,na kamu da son wanda bai damu da ni ba ,I never knew love can hurt this much I have tried all my best to get rid of him but my efforts don't seem to work wlh ko makiyi na bana fatan ya kamu da son wani , am in Soo much pains ???my heart hurts Soo much,am breaking down ,we're even about to write exams,I can't even concentrate on my studies,am emotionally sick,I hope someone will be able to understand what am going through The guy in question don't even care coux he knows how much I love him You should please advise me on how to get rid off him and be my self again????
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Rukayya Sep 2, 01:06 PM
U have to let go my dear! The more u push in towards him the more broken u get and the more leverage he gets to treat u like trash cause he’d believe u can’t survive a day without him!Things like these are a phase in life, u never tot of meeting him b4 now and God brought him into your life. That is the same way God will take him out and replace him with someone who will value you! You just have to be strong and believe that u deserve nothing but the best . He doesn’t care if u spend all day and night crying or frustrating yourself over him infact he will only care less and less by the day! Remind yourself that you are beautiful just the way u are, u are worthy and u hv value so he does not deserve you or your love! Remind yourself that many are out there willing to hv you and will do anything to be in his place , remind yourself that u don’t need toxins like him in your life cause all he does is suck your happiness and sanity away u don’t need that... remind yourself how your exams is way more important to waste it on someone who doesn’t want you! U are diamond and u deserve nothing but the very best. He doesn’t feel the same way u do so first n foremost start with that tell yourself to stop caring for someone who doesn’t care if u leave the world today Don’t call him ever again and let him be and if by chance he calls try as much to let the conversation be as brief as possible ( if possible don’t pick but I know in this phase u will be tempted to do so that’s why I recommend make the convo real boring n brief for a start, u hv to be strong n tough) Show him u have better things to deal with than him Your life doesn’t revolve around him and u should know that as well! Lastly remind yourself u deserve to be happy and whereas u wasting your time calling texting and pushing to communicate or have him he probably is having the best time of his life with another lady So please cheer up and move on On to the next give another toaster a chance to prove himself and hv fun as much as u can Do things that’d occupy your time be it hang out with frds, watch movies read sleep etc
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Hindat Sep 2, 07:56 PM
Sister he doesn't deserved your love, your time and dedications. Move on! Life is too short to be in pain and agony. If he loves you, he will look for you don't let anyone sees you as a piece of trash. Your too precious to be treated as a slave. Be a Queen in ur own kingdom and let the king dance to ur tune. Pray hard and stay away from anything that might remaind u of him insha Allah you will find someone better than him who will love you unconditionally.
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IamHamid Sep 3, 03:15 AM

it is not as easy as saying you will get over him, da kinyi ai without bothering for a long time. you need a practical approach which i think getting someone to personally talk to (of the opposite gender) will gradually fade off that guy from your heart/mind.
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Phartymerh Sep 3, 10:12 PM

Not necessarily being friends with the opposite but she needs something or someone to distract her from him. it depends on the situation.
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